There is this chick who I met a couple weeks ago. When we first met, I could tell we where attracted to each other. We started hanging out more and more and the tension was building up and up and...

I fucked shit up.

I got black out drunk with her one night. I woke up in my bed with puke everywhere and come to find out that I harassed her. Apperantly I was taking pictures of her ass with my phone and when she told me to stop I said "so does this mean we're not going to fuck?" But thats not even the worst part, she says I kept on trying to grab her ass untill she kicked me a bunch until I stoped.

We're just as good of friends, but that flare has left - completely. What can I do to get it back?

So far I've been playing like I'm not attracted to her either, but I think it could be backfiring. Should I continue with this silly nonsense? Should I tell her how I feel?

grab here ass

wow sound like you really fucked things up

lol... she's not going to forget those comments

Move on - it'll save fucking up more.

Oh, and some people can't handle their drink. I think you're one of them....;-)

lol... never get that drunk with a girl

if anything, you should be getting them drunk... and you know :P

but she knows what you're really like now, on the dark inside... don't expect the relationship to go newhere

something similar happened to me before, where i made a fool of myself drunk, it just isnt worth the bother ne more

which is why I don't drink when I'm with women..

lmao, its funny something like that sorta happened to me, trust me, shes not going to want to drink with you ever again. and the friendship will be pretty awkward from now on.

wait til the next time you two are drinking at the same place; bar, party, group of friends, whatever....DON'T get shitfaced like last time, but get buzzed, and make sure she is too...then start talking to her again and try to put the moves on her. her inhibitions will be lowered, and if she had feelings for you before you might be able to respark them....try not to bring up what happened last time...act as if it never happened. if she brings it up, try to turn it into something funny...you gotta get her to be able to laugh about it...

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

Move on - it'll save fucking up more.

Oh, and some people can't handle their drink. I think you're one of them....;-)

Ah, no. I had over half a liter of black label so-co (50%) in two hours.



Oh, and we went together to the bars tonight, and I take back what I said in my OP. The spark is still there.

Things could have gotten good nonight, but a friend started talking about oxycontin and thats all she could think about 'till we smoked ourselves stupid.

I think I need to eliminate the things that are keeping us from hooking up. Like smoking weed, after this weekend I'm going to stop for a while.

quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

lol... never get that drunk with a girl

if anything, you should be getting them drunk... and you know :P

but she knows what you're really like now, on the dark inside... don't expect the relationship to go newhere

something similar happened to me before, where i made a fool of myself drunk, it just isnt worth the bother ne more

Naaaa, that didn't really happen. I mean I made a fool out of myself, yes. But it didn't really seem to effect her. It was just a setback for a while.

If anything, we're better friends sense the shit hit the fan. We hang out with each other a lot, and most of the time alone. Like, last night we watched a movie together alone in my room. Sounds like it would end happy, right? Wrong, friends came over and got in the way. When we went to the bars tonight, it was just me and her and I bought her cover charge and beer, like a fucking couple.

But that's the problem, we may becoming too good of friends. That has happened too many times, and I think I may be catching it now. If we become really close friends, she won't want to jeopardizes the close friendship.

What do I need to do to keep the relationship from becoming too friendly? Should I keep playing hard to get? throw cheesy pick up lines at her? tell her how I feel? get her drunk instead of me?

[This message has been edited by Cozy Amnesia (edited 03-07-2007).]