So every once in a blue moon, I'll end up drunk on the casual encounters section of craigslist. I've never really had the balls to awnser anything explicit, but I browse it for the hell of it.

So last week, this girl posted on there looking for someone to come over and watch a movie and cuddle with. And that was innocent enough, so I replied. We started talking on aim, and she was telling me how she got all these replies from dirty old men sending her nudes and looking to hook up, and she seemed confused as to how guys could think that 'watching a movie' translates to sex. Nothing wrong there, really.

So I went over, and I was almost immediately infatuated with this girl. I dont want to undermine my confidence or anything, but if I sat down and thought about it...I'd easily come to the conclusion that this girl is out of my league. She's a little older then me. 26/22. She's a nurse, and she's -really- pretty.

So we ended up in bed, cuddling, and I was so completely comfortable with her. Probably more so then with my ex that I dated for over a year before we broke up. She's got an -awesome- bed, btw. If you've never experienced a tempur-pedic...I suggest you give it a try.



So after the movie, we just kind of laid there for a while petting each other, nothing sexual or anything, and eventually I left so she could get some sleep before work.

Then last night, she invited me to sleep over. We didnt have a movie this time, so mostly we just laid around talking and cuddling some more. And I was playfully giving her a hard time about being promiscuous, because she made a joke earlier about wensdays and thursdays being her casual sex nights. And she told me that she wasnt like that, that it's been two years since she broke up with the guy that she was engaged to, and went on to say that she didnt see sex as something that should happen outside of a serious relationship. She said at the core, it was the act of creation, and that it was something really personal to her.

Thats fine with me too, I place a pretty high value on sex as well. I didnt lose my virginity until I was 21, and I've only ever had one partner.

So we're cuddling, and petting each other and everything, and in light of all this information I keep it chaste, And I stoke her hair and rub her back and pet her tummy and everything like that. But at one point, she actually took my hand and put it under her shirt while I was petting her. She didnt have a bra on or anything, but still...I thought I'd keep it chaste. So I was petting her neck and upper chest. And we were kissing, and I was kissing down her neck, and I could tell like maybe she wanted me to do something more, but I didnt.

Eventually, we fell asleep. And it wasnt until I woke up halfway through the night that I realized that she didnt even have pants on. And this girl had a -really- nice ass. I called her a tease, and she awnsered 'No, If I was a tease I'd sleep completely naked and not let you touch. But I'm not, and you have free reign.'

I still didnt do anything, but I'm not -that- naieve. I mean, when the signs are that obvious, I can tell. But why do women bother going through all the effort to tell you that nothing is going to happen beforehand?

She wanted sex, but she knew that putting an advertisement on the internet was a dangerous way of getting it.

She made the post innocent, so if she was threatened by an unwanted sexual advance she could try and justify innocence to a court, and to herself.

I fail to see the mixed part of your post.

She wants sex.

Hmmm...how long have you known her?

I'd be very careful if I were you.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I fail to see the mixed part of your post.

Well she's white, and my grandmothers uncles dog was raped by a black man once, so that makes me an african american.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

me an african american.

*narrows eyes*

You better be joking now son.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

*narrows eyes*

You better be joking now son.



Oh sorry, I meant it makes me a brotha. Sometimes I lose touch with the vernacular of my people. It's hard to hold on to your heritage

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



Oh sorry, I meant it makes me a brotha. Sometimes I lose touch with the vernacular of my people. It's hard to hold on to your heritage



You can take your slave out and dress him up in all sorts of nice clothes, but in the end he's still a nigga.