Okay, so i managed to gather the courage to ask this girl I've liked forever to go to prom with me. She said yes. I've thought that i've noticed her looking at me in classes over the past few months, but was never absolutely sure (except for a few incidences).

So now I'm asking what to do now. I've started talking to her via AIM, tomorrow will be the first day seeing her in school after im'ing her.

What should I do here? I need to figure out if she reciprocates my feelings for her, and if she doesn't, I need to lay my mack down.

How do I go about wooing her, but not revealing that I'm desperate?

It's worth noting that she has a boyfriend, but he lives in a different state. They've been together for quite some time now (1.5 years), and I've learned that lately she's grown weary of her relationship with him.

I don't have much experience with this stage of things, so some input would be nice.

I had a buddy in the same boat. Next time he saw the girl he told her....AND I QUOTE

"You can play in my pants". When the conversation stopped and she said she was bored.

Nedless to say my buddy was viewed as a man with a HUGE sense of humor (Hardly knew this girl too) And their love life has never been better.

Just act yourself, girls notice when you try to "impress" them...And for the boyfriend dont worry long distance relationships dont really last long should end once you come in the picture, but do not force her whatsover

Take it easy on her until she breaks up with him. If she's willing to cheat on him with you, then chances are she'll be willing to cheat on you with someone else.

Try and nudge her in the direction of breaking up with him, and then go for it once she does.

A boyfriend is still a boyfriend, however far away he happens to be at the moment.

Don't be a cheating scummy bastard. Cheating scummy bastards make the baby Jesus cry.

True story.

Jx

OMG dude help me out. I have the same situation, but I just havn't manage/ gained enough balls to ask her out. How did you/what did you say. I've also noticed this girl looking at me, i want to ask her before prom too. please help

quote:Originally posted by Jessic:

A boyfriend is still a boyfriend, however far away he happens to be at the moment.

Don't be a cheating scummy bastard. Cheating scummy bastards make the baby Jesus cry.

True story.

Jx

I agree with Jessic, don't be a fucking cunt and try to make off with some guys girlfriend you lame ass.

I dunno, I just did a little research before hand to try and gauge if she'd say yes, then I just asked her in a class I have with her.