Well my fuckbuddy just phoned me saying she can't see me any more. She's in an open relationship with this guy but he got really pissed off because she kept seeing me, so I guess she had to stop. I just said 'no problem, see you around' and hung up.

There's not really any point to this thread, I guess I just miss the sex already. And to be honest I started getting a bit affectionate towards her, it's probably a good thing that she stopped it early because she would never go out with me. I guess I just don't like worrying about who/when my next shag will be.

Although her boyfriend is leaving for London just after Easter... maybe she will come back to me in a few months... christ that's a long time. Or maybe she will just get really drunk or something. Fucking hell, I didn't think I'd ever like her this much. It's pretty obvious from what I'm writing that I got attached to her. We had some great sex and I actually really enjoyed talking to her, and now it's going to be awkward because I'm friends with her too. Fucksticks. Maybe it just hit me a bit hard. I'll feel better in the morning. Like a new man perhaps?

So I shall end this with some advice - don't sleep with your attractive, intelligent, witty, sexy friends, especially those with boyfriends. More trouble than it's worth.

edit - I'm pretty damn upset. I shouldn't be.

[This message has been edited by frinkmakesyouthink (edited 03-05-2007).]

I've slept with a few of my attractive, intelligent, witty, sexy friends and it's never really ended badly for me. But I get over things fairly quickly. Though I don't get involved with the ones that have partners, so that might work in my favour a bit.

It doesn't have to be weird between you two, unless you have these mega feelings for her. But if you love having her as a friend, more than you love having her, I'm sure you'll respect her decision.

Or hell, you could fight for her.

There's a number of avenues you could take.

Look I don't know, I just don't like people being upset.

E-hugs!

Egh I don't know either. I just don't like being rejected. I'll feel better in the morning.

You know what, I've been through much worse. It's not like I liked this girl a lot, and it's not like I ever thought I'd have a serious relationship with her. It's definitely for the best that we stopped seeing each other.

she said she would make it up to me once her and her boyfriend have broken up. Do I want to see her after that? I dunno. Saw them both at the pub tonight and spoke to both of them a lot and they didn't seem to care at all. Weird. Maybe I'm putting too much emphasis on all this, maybe it's not a problem at all. TBH we all know they will break up in about two months anyway... not too long to wait. But do I want to wait? Dunno. I know other girls but this one is seriously good in bed (I'm kinda kinky and most girls chicken out when I ask them to do kinky shit). I guess I'll see how it goes...