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(I read the title, not the thread.)

No.

I post once in a blue moon and the first post is always similar to yours. Fuck you. My fault though for making stupid thread titles.

You'll fuck your reputation and then break up with her. Save yourself the drama and trouble and find another girl. But we both know you won't do that. You're looking for permission not advice.

I don't have a reputation with anyone that I don't know very very well, and they wouldn't care anyway. I'm not looking for permission or advice, I'm wondering what you personally would do in my position. I've already made up my mind.

Corrupt her for me.

It breaks the 2 year rule so no. PLus at 16 you cannot judge whether somoene acts like a 13 year old or not. (says the big 17 year old)

quote:Originally posted by Mephistos Minion:

It breaks the 2 year rule so no. PLus at 16 you cannot judge whether somoene acts like a 13 year old or not. (says the big 17 year old)

Sure I can. I can tell whether or not she acts immature in the way 16 year olds act or she acts immature in the way 13 year olds act.

It's a hard one in this case. I go by the rule "half your age plus 7" so...

16 / 2 + 7

=15

Of course, this rule is bad for some ages, like those 14 and under. As far as I know it's legal, but personally, I'd wait until she's 14, just because people don't see "14 and 17" as bad for some reason.

My head says its ok for you to date her but be a perfect gentleman and do NOTHING sexual with her (beyond kissing/cuddling) until she is of the age of consent where you are (16 most places).

My heart says "Post t3H N3kKid Pikz0rszz!111"



[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 03-04-2007).]

Whatever you decide to do, don't take advantage of her.

when I was 13 I went out with a 19 year old..... he was fit as but thats irrelevant. Anyway we had a very pleasant two week relationship before he dumped me for my best friend. She was also 13.... she's 20 now.... so that would make him 26.... they're married and very happy.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

My head says its ok for you to date her but be a perfect gentleman and do NOTHING sexual with her (beyond kissing/cuddling) until she is of the age of consent where you are (16 most places).

My heart says "Post t3H N3kKid Pikz0rszz!111"



Pfft, you'd be the first one to lock it for having underage nudes.

I'm 16, and I would NOT date a 13 year old.

I'd be known as one of those creepy guys that I always make fun of.

Well...I wouldn't do it. And if you do don't take advantage of her. Only try and pull some shit after you've been going out a while and if your both love eachother and all that shit. She's too young to be used.

Why do you care about the age at all?

I mean, "She does not look like a 13 year old, she does not act like a 13 year old". The fact that she was born 13 years ago doesn't mean anything.

I'm 18 and going out with a 14 year old. The trick is to get their family to love you so they don't report you.

quote:Originally posted by Agent 008:

Why do you care about the age at all?

I mean, "She does not look like a 13 year old, she does not act like a 13 year old". The fact that she was born 13 years ago doesn't mean anything.

I don't thats why I plan on dating her, I was wondering mainly how society viewed the situation and how others would act.

I agree completely, to me age is just a number, maturity is defined by how you act and think.

I wouldn't use her, the only time anything sexual would happen is "after we loved each other and shit" besides I can always just beat off, I never go into relationships for sex.



[This message has been edited by Defekt (edited 03-04-2007).]

I think this thread legitimately necessitates pics. After all, how can we judge whether, by her looks, she looks like a child and you're jsut a pedophile or a legitimate deceived teenager?

Either way, go for it. Otherwise, she'll just end up fucked by some 14 year old or 13 year old, and i don't honestly see the difference.

Cradle robber!

quote:Originally posted by sleepyface:

Whatever you decide to do, don't take advantage of her.

Best advice so far.

Hey man, dont mind what people say coz then youll be living by their rules. Just do what you have to do but be careful. Girls are weird at that age and theyll tell anyone what theyve done. So like the above poster said ^ DONT!

[This message has been edited by 33392nfke (edited 03-04-2007).]

I've been in similar situations.

You may think that she doesn't act like a 13 year old now, but you'll start to see it in her eventually, and you'll just get annoyed.

I was considering "going out" with a 15 year old recently with me being 17 but I kinda dropped the idea. I found out that she had been playing with the idea of bulimia to feel like she had control. It wasn't just for that though but I know that I really wouldn't feel too fine with that. I expressed my concern in the subject and when she asked about me liking her I told her "I really don't want to go out with anybody now. Not just you but everybody in general because it would just make things more complicated." It was kinda a half-truth.

quote:Originally posted by Canadian:

I've been in similar situations.

You may think that she doesn't act like a 13 year old now, but you'll start to see it in her eventually, and you'll just get annoyed.

Then I get sick of her and break it off. Most 13 year olds are fucking annoying, self centered, and overall unintelligent.

quote:Originally posted by Mephistos Minion:

It breaks the 2 year rule so no. PLus at 16 you cannot judge whether somoene acts like a 13 year old or not. (says the big 17 year old)

I thought it was "half your age plus seven"?

But regardless, that one fails too.

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

I think this thread legitimately necessitates pics.

http://i1.tinypic.com/2i8y70o.jpg

http://i10.tinypic.com/4bzjl8i.jpg


http://i12.tinypic.com/6y2mq83.jpg
^us now

quote:Originally posted by Defekt:

http://i1.tinypic.com/2i8y70o.jpg

http://i10.tinypic.com/4bzjl8i.jpg

If you think that doesn't looks like a thirteen year old you need to get your eyes checked.

About the moral issue: I wouldn't do it, but it's your life you ruin if you get in prison because of an angry parent. Just don't ruin hers.

Those pics look nothing alike. I call bullshit.

Dont you fucking dare do anyhtin like have underage sex witha girl so young.

thats my view

/M/ /J/ /R/

quote:Originally posted by met_B_A_N_S:

Those pics look nothing alike. I call bullshit.



No, the two pics are the same person.

Compare the side-swept bangs, eye/eyebrow shape, and nose. The reason why you might think they are different is because she is smiling in one of them.

I wouldn't do it. At your age you are starting to become an adult, and at her age, she is just starting to cease being a child.

what the fuck she has feet growing out of her shoulders, i definitely would go out with her, what a freak,

Get her before the hair does.....

Depending on when your birthdays lie, it could go either way. A 2 year (or so) difference at the age both of you are is acceptable. Anything over that starts getting a little weird. But, if you both really like each other, give it a shot. As long as you don't have sex, you aren't doing anything illegal.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

My head says its ok for you to date her but be a perfect gentleman and do NOTHING sexual with her (beyond kissing/cuddling) until she is of the age of consent where you are (16 most places).

My tiny erected penis says "Post t3H N3kKid Pikz0rszz!111"

quote:Originally posted by Defekt:

I was wondering mainly how society viewed the situation and how others would act.





and you came to totse to ask. that deserves lulz.

she's probably 12 and saying she's 13 little girls love to lie about their age. go out with a girl around your age 15 or 16 or even older. when I was 15 I went with a 19 year old girl. shit dont waste your time on little girls cause after a week or 2 their immature side is going to come out and you're going to see how annoying they really are. the girl on those pics looked 12 so dont go with her.

Fucking underage girls is extremely risky and you'd be a reckless motherfucker to do so.

quote:Originally posted by modega:

I wouldn't do it. At your age you are starting to become an adult, and at her age, she is just starting to cease being a child.



Holy shit... we transform from child to adult in just 2 years?

quote:Originally posted by pyrogeek:

Depending on when your birthdays lie, it could go either way. A 2 year (or so) difference at the age both of you are is acceptable. Anything over that starts getting a little weird. But, if you both really like each other, give it a shot. As long as you don't have sex, you aren't doing anything illegal.

Bullshit. They're both minors so how would it be illegal for them to have sex?

To defect: go for it buddy, 3 years means nothing. I'm 18 and my girlfriend just turned 16, in a sense it would be illegal for us to fuck because I am 18 and she's not 18 yet. But it doesnt matter because we havent got there yet.

I dunno what your point of asking totse to get a clue on "how society views your situation" because people that go to this site come from numerous societies that may differ much from the one in the city you live in. But either way I dont see why you should give a shit, if you love her and she loves you, dont let others dictate your life.

However I would strongly recommend using protection if you two are planning to fuck, impregnating a 13 year old and becoming a dad by age 16 is not something you wanna live with, trust me.

[This message has been edited by Dr.Speed17 (edited 03-05-2007).]

A few years ago a friend of mine slept with a thirteen year old. (She was 15)

People still take the piss now.

Not a good move.

I've thought about it, and no. It's a bugger, but man take a step back. If she's single when she's 16, then go for it.

quote:Originally posted by Chinese Food52:

I'm 16, and I would NOT date a 13 year old.

I'd be known as one of those creepy guys that I always make fun of.

lol

quote:Originally posted by Defekt:

she does not act like a 13 year old, and if I didn't know her age I would assume that she was 14

lol.

Normally I would say do what you please as we always have the choice to do anything we wish regardless of the outcome.

In this case though you really should consider what could happen to you for doing this. Little girls talk an its likely someone will find out if you have a relationship with this girl.

At the very least avoid sex till she is of age then you will avoid prison and being a pedo in prison is not good.

quote:Originally posted by Defekt:

I'm 16, and I like this girl alot, she likes me blah blah. The problem is shes 13. She does not look like a 13 year old, she does not act like a 13 year old, and if I didn't know her age I would assume that she was 14-16. Since she isn't obviously underage it shouldn't present a problem with her being around my friends and such. Is this weird that I'm still attracted to her? And what about you guys? Would go go for it? I personally will, but I was wondering what you guys would do in a situation similar to mine.

Its fuckign wrong shes 13!!!!! just fucking leave it, dont make contact fucking cut it off you stupid cunt. Fuck you make me sick. Stupid fuck.

quote:Originally posted by opiate_chicken:

Its fuckign wrong shes 13!!!!! just fucking leave it, dont make contact fucking cut it off you stupid cunt. Fuck you make me sick. Stupid fuck.

if there was any pedo in this thread it's you, my friend. If you wanna convince people you're not I suggest you keep quiet rather than give yourself away as easily as you did just now.

I'm with Jack on this one.

You may date, but not sex.

Eh, I'd hit it.

I love t3h kiddies ^^

I can't make a descision without pics

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Heh,... She's 13... but looks 14... a whole year older! Sheesh! She must look mature for her age. But, no...... Not at all.

Who gives a shit if shes 13. Your under 18 so its legal and besides 3 years difference isnt too bad. I knew a guy who was banging a 14 year old when he was 19. We made fun of him for months calling him a paedophile but he didnt give a crap.

i wouldnt recommended since your 16 (legal age of sex) and shes 13 (illegal) so if you break up bad you could be charged it happened to my friend

quote:Originally posted by Ali G in da house:

Cradle robber!

You never cease to make me chuckle.

Quite frankly, the naysayers know nothing of the situation bar for the mathematical formula of age.

Forget age just for a second. Think of her as a person. Do you want her? Do you want to share emotions, thoughts and physical affection with her?

Do you think she wants to do the same with you?

There's your answer. Naysayers be damned.

13 and 16 is fine as far as im concerned.

I say if you really like her, go for it. Of course this is coming from someone who is 18 and thinking of going out with a 14 year old (flame away, I don't care). Just do whatever you think.

I talk to plenty of 13 year olds that are babes i seriously consider hitting on them until they ask me to stop.

13 is pretty fucking young... What's she in, like 6th grade?

quote:Originally posted by Blow5hitUp:

13 is pretty fucking young... What's she in, like 6th grade?

6th grades 11 fool 13 is grade 7-8 and uh 9 actually i know a lad whos 13 in year 10.

[This message has been edited by silverballs (edited 03-08-2007).]

Consensual Rape .



Its a crime.



Wikipedia is your friend

go for it dude

dont listen to these retards

It is contained in our history that it was okay for a young girl to marry or be sold to grown men as long as the girl had started menstrating.

16 isn't that bad I guess.

I don't think 3 years is a big deal. I went out with an 18 year old guy when I was 15, and I was STILL more mature than he was.

I agree with stab.

think about it, she 13, she doesnt know what she wants. This is the kind of shit that leads to mental issues. Besides at that age the chance (even if its slim) of pregnacy isnt fuckin worth it,my buddy is currently a 17 year old father with a 25 year old wife.

STICK IT IN HER NIGGA

its legal (gotta be 18 before the girls 16 or over rule takes effect..)

She looks okay, at 16 though, your gonna get made fun of, out the asshole.

and im pretty sure theres not a whole lot of difference between 13 and 14...

So, I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 13... I guess that isn't as extreme... But people don't really see it as that big of a deal, and neither do I.

She really is a lot more mature than most 13 year olds that I know...

haven't done anything extremely sexual, because I don't think we should, but I know she does. I love her too much(She gives me cigarettes). Besides, that's what her older sister is for.

quote:Originally posted by star-lit:

I agree with stab.

That's a good lass

quote:Originally posted by smokeymcpot420 2:

Besides, that's what her older sister is for.

Woah woah woah it was all good 'til then bud.

I'm 16 and I would not even consider going anywhere near a 13 year old. It doesn't matter if she can pass for 14 or not, the girl is a child. It's impossible that this girl is the best offer you have on the table.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Woah woah woah it was all good 'til then bud.

That was kind of a joke... :shifty eyes: Bah, I was drunk!

BTW, I got pix... www.smokeynet.org/private/sunday.jpg (http://www.smokeynet.org/private/sunday.jpg)



Yeah, she doesn't look 13. She doesnt act like it either. She is more mature than some people in my class!

You're just people. Do what you want.

I'm not sure its legal. Try being in the same situation when you're 14 and shes 11 and she looks about 18 with her dd tits, and her clear sexual experience. Goddamit i hate my life.

You're an idiot if you need to ask.

Could you take a seat over there for me, could you?

..Hi, I'm Chris Hansen for Dateline NBC's "To catch a predator"...

quote:Originally posted by RemadE:

Could you take a seat over there for me, could you?

..Hi, I'm Chris Hansen for Dateline NBC's "To catch a predator"...



Well i laughed...

I used to go out with a 13 year old (im 16)for all of 1 month baby! Woot! I found out they are incrediably childish even at that age.



My mother pulled me aside and said some kind words...

'Sam, people around you, your best friend are having sex, you cant do that with this little girl' ( I didnt touch her)

At the end of the day, thats all she is and was. A little girl.

too young

Pedo status.

I have been 20 and fucked 17 year olds...

But no. Just no. 13 year olds should not be sexually active.

http://i12.tinypic.com/6y2mq83.jpg

Oooh emo. Cute pic though.... you two look very happy together.

When I was 15 and I found the girl I liked n dated a little was 13, I was not attracted to her anymore cause she was really young. I'm older now, and it seems even more absurd. Just be friends man.
But then again, it's your life so I don't care, and I doubt anyone else does so if you like her go for it.

Nail her little sister!!!!

I'm 16, and I like this girl alot, she likes me blah blah. The problem is shes 13. She does not look like a 13 year old, she does not act like a 13 year old, and if I didn't know her age I would assume that she was 14-16. Since she isn't obviously underage it shouldn't present a problem with her being around my friends and such. Is this weird that I'm still attracted to her? And what about you guys? Would go go for it? I personally will, but I was wondering what you guys would do in a situation similar to mine.

God, I just got finishing lecturing one guy about underaged nonsense, and now you.

You're going to go ahead and do it anyway, but would you want your 13 year old sister to be messing around with a 16 year old guy? By the way, that is 7th grade- in middle school- and junior year of high school, in case you haven't noticed. Seriously, SERIOUSLY, can you not just get a hot little 16 year old piece of ass? I hear those 16 year olds are kind of hot or something, being cheerleaders or dancers or whatever, and DEVELOPED, and your own age and all...

Anyway, if you're going to do it anyway, then why ask in the first place. You know what Totse's answer is going to be.

You know what Totse's answer is going to be.

"This thread is worthless without pics???"

"This thread is worthless without pics???"

Oh yeah. I forgot about that little gem.

God, I just got finishing lecturing one guy about underaged nonsense, and now you.

You're going to go ahead and do it anyway, but would you want your 13 year old sister to be messing around with a 16 year old guy? By the way, that is 7th grade- in middle school- and junior year of high school, in case you haven't noticed. Seriously, SERIOUSLY, can you not just get a hot little 16 year old piece of ass? I hear those 16 year olds are kind of hot or something, being cheerleaders or dancers or whatever, and DEVELOPED, and your own age and all...

Anyway, if you're going to do it anyway, then why ask in the first place. You know what Totse's answer is going to be.

Okay first of all you make me sound like I'm preying on someone who has no idea what a penis is. She is pretty much "developed" and could pass for 16 rather easily. Admittedly she did look young in the pictures I posted, but even when I posted them, around a year ago they were a few months old.

As far as me letting my 13 year old sister have a boyfriend that was older, honestly I wouldn't give a fuck. If i saw that the guy cared about her, she cared about him, and they were both happy together, I really don't see why not. She isn't retarded, she isn't niave, and you make it sound like I'm using some child for sex. Shes a lot smarter than most of the general population, child or adult, her age has no bearing on whether or not she is right for me.

Current picture.

http://i6.tinypic.com/85f4402.jpg

EDIT: We've been together 9 months as of today, I'm defiantly glad I gave her a chance despite her age.

Okay first of all you make me sound like I'm preying on someone who has no idea what a penis is. She is pretty much "developed" and could pass for 16 rather easily. Admittedly she did look young in the pictures I posted, but even when I posted them, around a year ago they were a few months old.

As far as me letting my 13 year old sister have a boyfriend that was older, honestly I wouldn't give a fuck. If i saw that the guy cared about her, she cared about him, and they were both happy together, I really don't see why not. She isn't retarded, she isn't niave, and you make it sound like I'm using some child for sex. Shes a lot smarter than most of the general population, child or adult, her age has no bearing on whether or not she is right for me.

Current picture.

http://i6.tinypic.com/85f4402.jpg

EDIT: We've been together 9 months as of today, I'm defiantly glad I gave her a chance despite her age.

Yall have been going out for 9 months. And NOW you want to know what our opinion is of dating a girl in middle school? What do you think the answers are going to be? There's only four acceptable answers on Totse regarding this issue: No, she's too young; Yes, because age has nothing to do with love; Worthless without pics; Stick it up her ass.

And by developed, I didn't mean physically, I meant mentally and emotionally. She might act more mature than your average 13 year old, but that doesn't mean she is actually mature and has experienced everything that, for example, a 16 year old has.

In fact, I would not be using that "she looks older than she really is" and she's "developed for her age" as arguments on this issue at all if I were you. That is what what pedophiles use to justify their preying. I'm not calling you a pedophile, but I'm just saying.

Yall have been going out for 9 months. And NOW you want to know what our opinion is of dating a girl in middle school? What do you think the answers are going to be? There's only four acceptable answers on Totse regarding this issue: No, she's too young; Yes, because age has nothing to do with love; Worthless without pics; Stick it up her ass.

And by developed, I didn't mean physically, I meant mentally and emotionally. She might act more mature than your average 13 year old, but that doesn't mean she is actually mature and has experienced everything that, for example, a 16 year old has.

In fact, I would not be using that "she looks older than she really is" and she's "developed for her age" as arguments on this issue at all if I were you. That is what what pedophiles use to justify their preying. I'm not calling you a pedophile, but I'm just saying.

Well, the comment about looks was mainly because you stated I should go for people my age because of their attractiveness physically, them being "DEVELOPED", which I assumed was about their physical attractiveness after your "hot little piece of ass" comment.

I also think youre under the assumption I'm using her for sex, which isnt true at all. This is especially what it seems like considering your "hot ass" comment.

Emotionally she is developed. I'm a different kind of person, I think differently, and she thinks the exact same way, which is why its worked out so well, and it definantly takes a mature person to "click" with me

Well, the comment about looks was mainly because you stated I should go for people my age because of their attractiveness physically, them being "DEVELOPED", which I assumed was about their physical attractiveness after your "hot little piece of ass" comment.

I also think youre under the assumption I'm using her for sex, which isnt true at all. This is especially what it seems like considering your "hot ass" comment.

Emotionally she is developed. I'm a different kind of person, I think differently, and she thinks the exact same way, which is why its worked out so well, and it definantly takes a mature person to "click" with me

EDIT: If you check the date on the OP it was posted around 10 months ago, go figure.

All you people talking down to him need to get with the program. People used to use these same arguments to say that segregation should be around, since you know, black people just couldn't deal with all the complexities and subtleties of the white world.

So instead of judging people based on their individual merits, we should sweep them off into a single demeaning category because the girl happens to be 13? Since when is this fair?

I've met 20 year olds so retarded and childish they have no business in a sexual relationship, so what the fuck? If she is mentally and emotionally mature, which the OP is most qualified(out of everyone else in this thread) to judge, go ahead and go with it.

P.S. The OP looks like the kind of guy I would love to use a "freeweight wrapped in a towel" as a flail, and beat into a bloody emo pulp.

Dude, like a year ago she was 12.

How did I ever miss this thread? And who the fuck bumped it?

Thread starter, if you want this thread killed for any reason, let me know.

You two do look cute together.
I know it's never sensible to date someone underage.. you have to be really carefull there. But hell, if you like each other then screw it, what does anyone elses oppinion matter?
You've proven you can keep a good relationship together and that's cool.

I wish you good luck.

P.S. The OP looks like the kind of guy I would love to use a "freeweight wrapped in a towel" as a flail, and beat into a bloody emo pulp.

The picture defiantly makes me look like a faggot, I'll be honest. I hate the emos who whine about the world, that isn't me, just becuase i wear my hair a bit longer, which is mainly done because I look like an idiot whenever my hair is short. I lift and box and do all sorts of manly activities, have no tolerance for whiney babies, am more into deathmetal than screamo emo nonsense. Simply put none of the emo sterotypes fit me, my hair isnt even that emo at other times, just a bit long.

Not trying to start a fight or anything, just agreeing that the picture looks kinda ghey and that my hair being long doesn't mean much. Mainly posted because thats the only picture we have together worth posting.

Let me guess, you think she isn't immature because you've hung out with her one on one? Hang out with her with her friends, and you see how mature she actually is. It's easy for younger girls to pass off as mature alone, but when they're with their friends, they're real level of maturity shows through.

Yep, this has happened too. She acts basically the same when shes around her friends as when shes around me. She doesn't even really spend much time with her friends as she doesn't get a long with them much even. This is probably due to them being retarded 13 year olds, and I assume that the only reason they are associated with one another is from school and whatnot. And yeah, hanging out with her friends is pretty damn retarded due to them being well.. retarded. But I guess thats how it is with people my age too, a lot of them are pretty "immature". I say that like I would be an elitest asshole, but I'm just being frank, and I don't enjoy the company of most people.

If you're really meant to be with this girl, then you will still like each other when you are older. Therefore, I say wait.

As age increases, the gap of years seems to decrease. In that sense, a 25 year old could DEFINITELY date a 22 year old, no questions asked. However, when you are younger (as in teenage years), the age gap is MUCH greater. Would you let your 9 year old daughter date a 12 year old boy? The same three years seem a LOT larger when your dealing with younger kids.

So, I reiterate, wait. It will save you a lot of stress. Believe me, a 13 year old thinks a lot differently than a 16 year old does.

Further questions are welcome.

In fact, I would not be using that "she looks older than she really is" and she's "developed for her age" as arguments on this issue at all if I were you. That is what what pedophiles use to justify their preying. I'm not calling you a pedophile, but I'm just saying.

The internet is what pedophiles use to access web pages. I'm not calling you a pedophile, but I'm just saying...

...however, about your assertion, it just so happens that "she's got some big tits" and "pedophilia" happen to be... definitional opposites. As, for that matter, is any attempt to use postpubescence as some sort of indicator of paederotic orientation.

In fact, "pedophilia" is defined in the DSM as "recurrent thoughts or feelings about a prepubescent child or children." It is impossible for a "pedophile" to use "hoshit she's definately developed" to "justify" their sexual liason with a 40yo, in the sense that it is impossible for a black man to use his 100% nordic-european heritage to justify his black pride, or a man to use his six-inch penis to justify why he has to see a gynecologist.

I'm not calling you a horiffically uneducated and illiterate fucktard who needs to read a fucking book, but I'm just saying...

The internet is what pedophiles use to access web pages. I'm not calling you a pedophile, but I'm just saying...

...however, about your assertion, it just so happens that "she's got some big tits" and "pedophilia" happen to be... definitional opposites. As, for that matter, is any attempt to use postpubescence as some sort of indicator of paederotic orientation.

In fact, "pedophilia" is defined in the DSM as "recurrent thoughts or feelings about a prepubescent child or children." It is impossible for a "pedophile" to use "hoshit she's definately developed" to "justify" their sexual liason with a 40yo, in the sense that it is impossible for a black man to use his 100% nordic-european heritage to justify his black pride, or a man to use his six-inch penis to justify why he has to see a gynecologist.

I'm not calling you a horiffically uneducated and illiterate fucktard who needs to read a fucking book, but I'm just saying...

Okay. Too long. I don't care.
How many times do you see people arguing that "they didn't know" and "they thought she was older" so that they get away with the crime? That was my point.

How many times do you see people arguing that "they didn't know" and "they thought she was older" in the course of reasonable, moral activity?

Every time someone starts a 'novelty ID' thread in bad ideas?






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Every time someone starts a 'novelty ID' thread in bad ideas?






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So now it's the child's fault?

so you=high school
she=middle school
????

in that case the answer is NO. You would be pariahed so fast for that.
If she's a Freshman and you're a sophmore or junior, then that's fine.

So now it's the child's fault?

So, why are you so hell-bent to fault someone for that which is blameless? Are you just that neurotically driven to hurt people, and feel some need to manufacture justification for your antisocial acts where there is none?

To answer your... tourettes-induced... question... yes, anyone utilizing false documents to misrepresent their vital information happens to be directly responsible for misinformation about their information, which happens to be why the use of false documents happens, rightly or wrongly, to be a crime in damn near every nation on the planet.

Why are you supporting criminal activity, romaniw?

So, why are you so hell-bent to fault someone for that which is blameless? Are you just that neurotically driven to hurt people, and feel some need to manufacture justification for your antisocial acts where there is none?

To answer your... tourettes-induced... question... yes, anyone utilizing false documents to misrepresent their vital information happens to be directly responsible for misinformation about their information, which happens to be why the use of false documents happens, rightly or wrongly, to be a crime in damn near every nation on the planet.

Why are you supporting criminal activity, romaniw?

Lol, what the fuck? I'm an antisocial, tourette's-affected criminal? What kind of obscure, ill-fitting insults are these?
Whatever, I'm getting cheese fries.

*shrugs*
Society isn't really going to view your situation, you're both still children really. You both look about fourteen, so people aren’t exactly going to stare at you walking down the street. SO that's not going to be a problem. Is it? Though you sound like a bit of an attention whore, if you want people gaping at you and your girlfriend, date someone older. It will shock people more for someone your age.
As for her being thirteen, you may not notice it now, but you will. I don't know what the age of consent is in your country, but here it's sixteen so I'll base this next statement off that. If you choose to be with her, don't sleep with her. Not only is it illegal, but she is too young to really know what she wants.
It's all relative, it seems that once you get into your twenties three years doesn't become that much of a gap. But hey, in your twenties you've got a better concept of self I guess.
Ultimately it's up to you.

I'm an antisocial...

Excluding conceptualizations which do not afford you the opportunity to blame the victim of your violence for your own acts is consistent with antisocial personality disorder, yes.

tourette's-affected

~shrug~ You did sorta blurt that shit out at random with no connection to... anything...

criminal?

~shrug~ You attempted to support, excuse, and promote activity which, as noted, is a crime in pretty much every nation on earth... so, yes, the question was a fair one.

What kind of obscure, ill-fitting insults are these?

Shitty reading comprehension is not exactly a point of pride for most other people afflicted with it. Here (http://tutoring.sylvanlearning.com/reading-tutors/index.cfm[/quote) are some people who can help you with your repeated tendancy to keep falling behind.

Incidentally...

Whatever, I'm getting cheese fries.

...how, exactly, can you refer to the characterization of your writings as "tourettes-induced" as "ill-fitting" when you blurt out shit like this?

Just wondering...

I don't run around shouting that I'm going out with anyone younger than me, I don't really even mention it and if someone brings it up I'm quick to not give a shit. I don't see at all how I am being an attention whore. Maybe by making the thread, but plenty of people make threads about shit, and I guess you could say that about anyone who made a thread about anything in s&a.

As far as legality, I believe the laws make it legal where I live although I am not 100% sure. Even so, I doubt that she would turn me in for statutory rape, but meh if it happens it happens. Due tot he length of our relationship I doubt that one day shes just going to be lolgotcha, even if we do go through a nasty breakup of sorts.

We look the same as far as age, maybe her a bit smaller, but not much younger usually. Whether you think we look 12 or 18 we do look similar as far as age so like you said its not like people gawk when we walk down the street. I'm going out with her for her, not so my friends think im a child molester faggot, or so anyone looks at me funny.

FOR EVERYONE ELSE WHO KEEPS TELLING ME NOT TO GO OUT WITH HER THE RECENT RESPONSES WERE A STATUS UPDATE I THOUGHT I WOULD FOLLOW THROUGH BECAUSE IT IS ALWAYS NICE TO SEE HOW THINGS ENDED UP

THE OP WAS 9 MONTHS AGO WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT AND ARE HAPPY sorry for caps, maybe it will stick out though

so she's not in middle school, right?

then good for you.

THE OP WAS 9 MONTHS AGO WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT AND ARE HAPPY sorry for caps, maybe it will stick out though

Well then, you've proved us wrong. That's great that you're doing well and hopefully, everything will work out. Just understand that some people are really wary about age differences in relationships. Like me. Because there are so many people who will use what your saying to back up a 12 year old dating a 20 year old.



Just wondering...

Okay. You've won. I'm insane and have Tourette's Syndrome and you like to prove that you know what pedophilism is. YOU WIN :D

hell fucken yes.

seriously i would.

Okay. You've won.

http://img217.imageshack.us/img217/2856/pbearthreadwinv4oa7.png

...and the funny thing is, when generations to come look back on their childhoods to evaluate the legitimacy of the regieme... they'll have nothing to remember but being harassed for no reason in its name.

Veni. Vidi. Vici.

THE OP WAS 9 MONTHS AGO WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT AND ARE HAPPY sorry for caps, maybe it will stick out though

Eeehhh, it's not like I bumped the thread.
Props to you.