Okay, this isn't a really fucking important serious topic like some of the ones in S&A, but its something i think i need some advice on.

Well, here's how it is. This girl is my neighbor who I've known for around 7 years and her and i are the same age, both 15. We've always been friends but lately we've been getting REALLY close, i mean, she calls me up and has me come over alot, we wrestle(lol, i basically just throw her on the couch and jump on her), and we talk alot more on msn and the phone.

The thing is that her whole family knows me and has known me for a long time, so it's kinda awkward when she invites me over and im also really good friends with her brother too so when he's home, i have to choose who to talk to, hang out with, ect.

Well, When im home alone at her house with her, she always takes my jacket and hat and runs into her room with them and hides them under her bed, forcing me to pull her off of it and take them back. When i sit on the couch, she sits ON me if im laying down and just laughs as i throw her off and pin her to the ground :P

I like her, but here's the catch: She has a boyfriend. She just started going out with him recently after he asked her 3 times to go out with him. She never talks about him, and she talks to me way more then she does to him, and she doesnt do anything with him. She doesnt answer the phone if he calls sometimes because shes talking to me, which i find odd because he is her boyfriend and you'd think that she'd want to talk to him more than I.

She talks to me for like 3 hours straight whenever im on msn and i think she's flirting with me. She sends me the "Kinky" msn smily on msn, she sits next to me on the bus even if her best friend is riding it, and yeah, just stuff like that.

Is it just me or does it seem like she likes me more then friends? It'd be really fucking awkward if she didnt and i asked her out or shit, and i really dont want to duck things up like that because her family knows my family and her brother would probably not talk to me if i fucked things up with his sister like that.

This is as complete as i can get right now because i cant really concentrate atm, which means that im probably leaving certain details out like this one i just remembered: She skipped her best friends birthday party to hang out with me.

Well totse, what do you think? Does she like me more then friends or am i delusional?

Also, sorry if i started saying something in a previous paragraph then started talking about something different, i just cant keep my train of thought straight today

"I cant think of a subject right now for this."

if I was a mod, I would wittily say "Well repost this when you can" and totally close the thread.

I think you just waited too long to ask her out she got tired of it and went out with someone else. Serves you right for being a stupid idiot.

Either that or you're stuck in "friend mode"

DragonflyBlade21: A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

quote:She has a boyfriend.

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Basta!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

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Basta!

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WHICK WHACK WHACK

X weet je wel

BULLSHIT!

Zeker wel, ja toch?

Ik voel me net een kwakzalver.

FUCK YOU BITCH

Zeg versjes voor de massa, maak kassa.

eat shit and die!

I really dont know how to explain this lol, but she doesnt really like him alot. Shes going out with him because he asked her 3 times and she started to feel sorry for him.

Well, great advice as usual from the big &T...

ive had the same sort of thing minus the wrestling . i classed it as flirting. take it further man

quote:Originally posted by l33t:

I really dont know how to explain this lol, but she doesnt really like him alot. Shes going out with him because he asked her 3 times and she started to feel sorry for him.

Well, great advice as usual from the big &T...

I told you man. YOU FUCKED UP. You waited until she said "fuck it". You have to get some balls. So either go out now and ask her to go out, or wait a little more until she gets aids from her faggot boyfriend and dies, but not before bleeding on you and killing you in the process.

Fucking kids, we all know you're just going to go home and masturbate while you slash your wrists wondering why she's going out with someone she hates and not you who she seems to love, and why she's screaming moans of pleasure as he proceeds to make her anus's day.

Fuck I'm angry, fucking kids.

quote:Originally posted by l33t:



She skipped her best friends birthday party to hang out with me.



i'd be pissed if she was my bestfriend. hell her best friend probobly hates you now

To the OP:

I'm sorry the other people who replied are such dicks. Anyway, YES, THIS GIRL FREAKING LOVES YOU. She's probably pining away since you haven't noticed. I bet you are the only thing she dreams of at night.

You must get with this girl. You must tell her that you want to be MUCH more than friends with her. You must look in her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is (inside and outside) as you move in to kiss her. If you do not, you'll be such a bastard that I would want to fuck you up with a nail-studded two-by-four.

You are on the verge of a wonderful and loving relationship, and I tell you the truth: if it works (and it WILL, make no mistake), I'd give everything I own to trade places with you.

Go to her. Love her. Be hers, and make her yours. You'll never regret it as long as you live.

First of all i wasnt specifically saying that your advice was shit Ryko. I was just saying that in general i wasnt getting very good advice. Thanks for those who did actualy give me some advice, but that was really fucking retarded how you started bitching at me and calling me emo and shit man. I'll tell you what, Im not going to go off on you because i have the balls and will be the big man here, you sound like a PMSing little 13 year old.

quote:Originally posted by l33t:

First of all i wasnt specifically saying that your advice was shit Ryko. I was just saying that in general i wasnt getting very good advice. Thanks for those who did actualy give me some advice, but that was really fucking retarded how you started bitching at me and calling me emo and shit man. I'll tell you what, Im not going to go off on you because i have the balls and will be the big man here, you sound like a PMSing little 13 year old.



If you had even half a testicle you wouldn't have waited 7 years to ask her out.

Oh well, live and learn.

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

If you had even half a testicle you wouldn't have waited 7 years to ask her out.

Oh well, live and learn.

Well, why would i ask her out when i was EIGHT?

:S