Ok, so my friend, who is very stubborn, is getting in fights with his gf. He sent me the chat log of 1 on msn. He was being very stubborn, and not making any sense at all. His gf was being very nice, and trying to work things out. She used to be kind of slutty, but now she is good. She doesnt drink or anything (he is straight edge, and if it wernt for him, she would still drink), and says she loves him a lot. He doesnt seem to be able to forgive her for her past. He accepts that she has changed, but cant forgive her past.

I dont want them to break up. 90% of the time, hes saying how awesome she is, but then on msn he tells me how he doesnt know if he still wants to go out with her. What should I do? This girl is really nice, but my friend is pretty damn stubborn (hes italian...).

quote:Originally posted by DiamondX:

he is straight edge

your friend is a fag.

yea, but hes kinda cool... lets all 4get he doesnt drink/smoke, and wont... ever... I met the girl once, and she seems really nice... what should i do?

cock block your friend and go for the chick, DUH!

quote:Originally posted by DiamondX:

but my friend is pretty damn stubborn (hes italian...).

RACISM!

*speed dials the ADL*

post the logs.

Once a slut, always a slut.

When he starts bitching about her, tell him if he can't take care of her, you will. His reaction will determine exactly how he feels about her.

quote:Originally posted by DarkNinja:

I wish, I had cool friends to bad I'm a fagg <3 cock.

what do you mean what should i do?? this has absolutly nothing to do with you.

Hes a good friend of mine, I dont want to see him screw this up for himself. But I guess I should not care anymore. Not my problem...

Tell him what you said here. Remind him how awesome she is and how much he loves her. Tell him he's being stubborn and if he just thought about it, he'd realize she is not in the wrong.

Ask him if he minds if you move in on her afterwards.

O.P., you friend sounds like my ex.

to a T

quote:Originally posted by DiamondX:

Hes a good friend of mine, I dont want to see him screw this up for himself. But I guess I should not care anymore. Not my problem...

maybe i'm looking at things from the wrong perspective but, are you sure its him you care about in the impending disaster? or is there a chance that you are afraid of her getting hurt by him?

quote:Originally posted by RogueEagle91:

maybe i'm looking at things from the wrong perspective but, are you sure its him you care about in the impending disaster? or is there a chance that you are afraid of her getting hurt by him?

Good point... I am kind of afraid hes going to hurt her. If he screws up, I would be be on her so fast, but he's my friend, and he's friends with a lot of my friends too... damn... Oh well, hopefully they will work it out.

Call his ass out if you haven't already. Tell him he's being a little bitch and is going to fuck up a good thing. You could even take it a step further and act like your mad at him and stop talkin to him completely for a few days.

quote:Originally posted by WhyteWydow:

Once a slut, always a slut.

Oh snap

but then again

once a straightedge always an ignorant wanker

Tell him to stop getting on MSN.

Alternatively, molotov his computer.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Tell him to stop getting on MSN.

Alternatively, molotov his computer.

Molotov!