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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-03-02, 23:52
pepper23 pepper23 is offline
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Default So, we are "boring"

So you may be familiar with my "Taking a break" thread.

She said that we are too "boring" together, as in we do and say the same things all of the time. Like mostly whenever we hang out we just end up watching a movie.

I tend to agree with her.

What can I do to make life more interesting (in a positive way)?
 #2 
Old 2007-03-02, 23:57
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New Zealand
Default Re: So, we are "boring"

anal sex

sex outside

streaking

take a picnic

go for a run together then have sweaty sex

play tekken

SEX
 #3 
Old 2007-03-02, 23:57
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Just give up.

Find a better girl, that likes you.
 #4 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:04
Nitronick Nitronick is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

So you may be familiar with my "Taking a break" thread.

She said that we are too "boring" together, as in we do and say the same things all of the time. Like mostly whenever we hang out we just end up watching a movie.

I tend to agree with her.

What can I do to make life more interesting (in a positive way)?



She doesn't like you.
 #5 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:08
fat_people_suck fat_people_suck is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

take a drive down to the beach, but don't tell her you're going just go, walk in the park be spontaneous
 #6 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:14
Ballin Ballin is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

i must agree with nitronick..

sounds like stale-syndrome

if ur relationship is getting "boring" as you say , spice shit up? do things together outside of the realm of movies

for example : go to the mall(s) together/ go for outings in new towns, cities / do romantic spontaneous shit / ask her what she wants to do / go drinking together (it can be fun :P) / so much other shit you could do thats not the stale movies... just be a little creative damn.
 #7 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:18
ShutMeUp ShutMeUp is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

When a relationship gets boring, it means it's reaching the end. I said that to my last boyfriend. It's a common excuse.

Sorry dude
 #8 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:23
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

meet her as usual, then take her to another city or new place and out to dinner or something.

take her to a musical, girls love that crap

go to the beach/zoo/park

send her something in the post
 #9 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:29
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

anal sex

sex outside

streaking

take a picnic

go for a run together then have sweaty sex

play tekken

SEX
 #10 
Old 2007-03-03, 00:33
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

ice cream

streaking

take a picnic

go for a nap together then have sweaty sex

play tekken

SEX

fixed

also play silkroad together.
 #11 
Old 2007-03-03, 01:48
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

I hate it when people say an interaction is boring WITHOUT attempting to add to it themselves.

Those who feel that everybody else's purpose is to entertain them are among the most worthless people present on this planet.

-F☺rd
 #12 
Old 2007-03-03, 02:28
LucifyRe LucifyRe is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Quote:
Originally Posted by grungekid
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

anal sex

sex outside

streaking

take a picnic

go for a run together then have sweaty sex

play tekken

SEX


Anal.
 #13 
Old 2007-03-03, 02:30
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

fixed

Anal sex and running are awesome. Especially when you chase a woman running away from you because you want anal.
 #14 
Old 2007-03-03, 02:50
InspectorWidget InspectorWidget is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

I hate it when people say an interaction is boring WITHOUT attempting to add to it themselves.

Those who feel that everybody else's purpose is to entertain them are among the most worthless people present on this planet.

-F☺rd



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 #15 
Old 2007-03-03, 04:23
Fascismo Fascismo is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

I hate it when people say an interaction is boring WITHOUT attempting to add to it themselves.

Those who feel that everybody else's purpose is to entertain them are among the most worthless people present on this planet.

-F☺rd



Fucking yes.
 #16 
Old 2007-03-03, 04:32
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

if your girl says you a bore don't stick your dick up her ass like so many people are recommending.

i'm getting that it's your one & one time with her that's dull, not the sex-part. you got to do fun things man, you're loosing her, and i'm not talking 'bout carnival ride/out the way shit -- instead of going to the movies talk about that awesome part in a movie you both saw.

play a game with her, even though it may seem childish. tickle her out of the blue. just do something besides talk general stuff.
 #17 
Old 2007-03-03, 04:48
OdayJuarez OdayJuarez is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Who fucking called it? That's right. Me.

My GF got me a book called "2,002 Romantic Ideas"

ISBN 13: 978-1-59337-454-9

ISBN 10: 1-59337-454-2

I'll start by saying it's obviously written by a women. These are 99% doggy treats, give them out to freely, and the bitch will get spoiled and expect it. Machiavelli wrote something in "The Prince" BTW: read this shit, use it in relationships ftw.

One second I'll go grab it.

http://www.constitution.org/mac/prince16.htm

My point is, this book is a tool to save you effort for when she deserves a treat. You can't do it when she asks though because then you're trying to please her. Generosity is a tool and giving it on request is like trying to pound in a nail with a screwdriver.

For someone like my uninspired ass it's an easy way to get out of thinking of something myself when I do care to treat her.

The undertone is, I gave her too many treats so now she expects them. It's OK though. I just finished ignoring her for a week.

Why am I wasting my time? This is like writing a hacking tutorial. You'll get it right for a week and then she'll volunteer for something crazy in bed and you'll be eating palm again. Good luck.
 #18 
Old 2007-03-03, 06:48
trippydeath trippydeath is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Get fucked up?

Go to parties?

Roll together?
 #19 
Old 2007-03-03, 06:56
lordsjohnson lordsjohnson is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

So you may be familiar with my "Taking a break" thread.

She said that we are too "boring" together, as in we do and say the same things all of the time. Like mostly whenever we hang out we just end up watching a movie.

I tend to agree with her.

What can I do to make life more interesting (in a positive way)?

Jesus. Fuck. That's a boring post.

The way you can make life more interesting is to become more interested in life.

What interests you?
 #20 
Old 2007-03-03, 16:18
Durell Durell is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Punch her in the vagina.
 #21 
Old 2007-03-04, 05:57
Mendocino Mendocino is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by OdayJuarez:

Who fucking called it? That's right. Me.

My GF got me a book called "2,002 Romantic Ideas"

ISBN 13: 978-1-59337-454-9

ISBN 10: 1-59337-454-2

I'll start by saying it's obviously written by a women. These are 99% doggy treats, give them out to freely, and the bitch will get spoiled and expect it. Machiavelli wrote something in "The Prince" BTW: read this shit, use it in relationships ftw.

One second I'll go grab it.

http://www .constitut ion.org/ma c/prince16.htm (http: //www.cons titution.o rg/mac/pri nce16.htm)

My point is, this book is a tool to save you effort for when she deserves a treat. You can't do it when she asks though because then you're trying to please her. Generosity is a tool and giving it on request is like trying to pound in a nail with a screwdriver.

For someone like my uninspired ass it's an easy way to get out of thinking of something myself when I do care to treat her.

The undertone is, I gave her too many treats so now she expects them. It's OK though. I just finished ignoring her for a week.

Why am I wasting my time? This is like writing a hacking tutorial. You'll get it right for a week and then she'll volunteer for something crazy in bed and you'll be eating palm again. Good luck.

Wasn't Machiavelli a misogynist and supported the occasional beating of women?
 #22 
Old 2007-03-04, 06:18
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by Mendocino:

Wasn't Machiavelli a misogynist and supported the occasional beating of women?

Hmmm...you mean like the guys who get loads of chicks, right?
 #23 
Old 2007-03-04, 14:00
OdayJuarez OdayJuarez is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by Mendocino:

Wasn't Machiavelli a misogynist and supported the occasional beating of women?

Well there's his credentials.

I won't date a woman who hasn't been abused at one point or another. It's too much work to tame them myself. You can typically smell them out, but if not you'll know by the first week of pillow talk.

Bitches love to get shit like that off their chest. It's like giving you a piece of their emotional baggage because they think it'll guilt you into treating them well.

Speaking of which, if a bitch ever asks you to hold her purse, tell her to take that shit with her cause it'll get stolen if she leaves it with you.

$100 says the first girl to give me shit over this post tells guys about being abused in the first week of pillow talk.
 #24 
Old 2007-03-04, 14:10
stab stab is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Dude, find another girl. I mean, you get sick of the one girl, you go to another one.

Yeah?

Especially if she fucking agrees.
 #25 
Old 2007-03-04, 14:39
pepper23 pepper23 is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

The thing is, these last 2 days have been great, so refreshing and new in our relationship.

So I think what we are doing is working now (doing new things, etc.)
 #26 
Old 2007-03-04, 14:44
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Groovy.
Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Play Poke'er
 #27 
Old 2007-03-04, 14:58
Mr. Stabby Mr. Stabby is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Dude, find another girl. I mean, you get sick of the one girl, you go to another one.

Yeah?

Especially if she fucking agrees.

Definately the best post yet. You've got to know when it's time to walk away, so you can walk away with your head held high.
 #28 
Old 2007-03-04, 16:29
Lost Nebula Lost Nebula is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

Quote:
Originally Posted by grungekid
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

anal sex

sex outside

streaking

take a picnic

go for a run together then have sweaty sex

play tekken

SEX


Best option ever.

Peace

[This message has been edited by Lost Nebula (edited 03-04-2007).]
 #29 
Old 2007-03-04, 17:06
Angiospermicidal Angiospermicidal is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

My girlfriend and I have a "date night" every week on a day I don't work and we go out, even if we have a lot of homework. It doesn't lose its edge because we're forgetting about everything else to be together.

But if I didn't have a roommate it'd probably be "kinky sex night".
 #30 
Old 2007-03-04, 17:25
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Default Re: So, we are "boring"

quote:Originally posted by OdayJuarez:

Well there's his credentials.

I won't date a woman who hasn't been abused at one point or another. It's too much work to tame them myself. You can typically smell them out, but if not you'll know by the first week of pillow talk.

Bitches love to get shit like that off their chest. It's like giving you a piece of their emotional baggage because they think it'll guilt you into treating them well.



I fucking hate abused chicks. I'm going out with one and its a pain in the damn ass. My best friend was going out with a girl that was raped and she was fucked up. Their high maintenence, emotional, and everything else that I don't wanna fucking deal with. But you were right, she told me in like the first damn week. I got a new rule: dont go out with abused chicks, ever. Its not fucking worth it.

quote:Originally posted by Angiospermicidal:

My girlfriend and I have a "date night" every week on a day I don't work and we go out, even if we have a lot of homework. It doesn't lose its edge because we're forgetting about everything else to be together.

But if I didn't have a roommate it'd probably be "kinky sex night".

Cause you don't want your roomate to hear you? Ask him\her to leave for a while or do what my parents did: play loud music (if its a sexual song its even better).
 
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