Shes hot and not a slut like the rest of girls at my work, Although I dont talk to her much we just kinda smile at eachother. And when I do talk to her I sound like a retard. The thread is more like a vent than anything FUCK

Well fucking talk to her, think about her like she is anyone else.

...and have confidence.



[This message has been edited by happy_one_hit (edited 03-02-2007).]

With a name like that, you might want to pack it up buddy.

But seriously, the guy above me is right. Just exert a bit of confidence, a bit of charisma; accentuate your best features and turn on the charm that you have. Everyone has good points and everyone knows what they are. You're only job is making her see those in order for her to make an effort to get to know you. Past that, it's really up to you. But do you think that players are just naturally that smooth? They know what they're doing, and they're doing it on purpose: placing emphasis on what makes them attractive.

Plus, you gotta be proactive. Actually talk to her, make a small compliment about her shoes if you need a conversation starter (that always works). If you clam up around women, I suggest you P2P stuff by Derek Vitalio. Those PDFs helped me a lot in the beginning. (If all else fails, Ross Jeffries is the master of manipulating women, you could try some weaselly stuff by him as well.)

Good luck, I hope my feedback was on point.

quote:Originally posted by Opus:

With a name like that, you might want to pack it up buddy.

But seriously, the guy above me is right. Just exert a bit of confidence, a bit of charisma; accentuate your best features and turn on the charm that you have. Everyone has good points and everyone knows what they are. You're only job is making her see those in order for her to make an effort to get to know you. Past that, it's really up to you. But do you think that players are just naturally that smooth? They know what they're doing, and they're doing it on purpose: placing emphasis on what makes them attractive.

Plus, you gotta be proactive. Actually talk to her, make a small compliment about her shoes if you need a conversation starter (that always works). If you clam up around women, I suggest you P2P stuff by Derek Vitalio. Those PDFs helped me a lot in the beginning. (If all else fails, Ross Jeffries is the master of manipulating women, you could try some weaselly stuff by him as well.)

Good luck, I hope my feedback was on point.

Wow, That was probley the best response I could ever get, everything your saying sounds right and to point! Thanks very much, I know my reputation on totse isnt that greatest so I didn't actually think I get a great response. thank again!

[This message has been edited by Slovadoncha (edited 03-02-2007).]

Opus you took the words from my mouth, bitch. Everything you have said is the best thing to do in front of woman. I have respect for you.

STICK IT UP HER POOPER!

Seriously though, it just takes time, just be playful and talk to her. It takes guts, and chances are, you're gonna sound like a retard. The up side? She knows that, you're fine.

Good luck dude

yea, all that...and POST PICS!!

Thanks for the kind words guys. Strictly speaking, I figure it's just time to quit lurking in S&A and actually say something.

And who gives a fuck about your TOTSE reputation? We're all humans here-- I'm not going to discriminate against or judge anyone based on an internet forum. The philosophy of the temple rests firmly on the idea of "freedom of information", and you deserve our collective and best advice as much as anyone else.

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