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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-03-02, 20:33
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Nightmarekill 
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Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
To start off to me is seems it has.. Now I really could easily curve this into a whole gender issue to.. and i may just a little because there is certain shit that I think if a women does is completley bogus..
*One is that people make constant jokes about a women cheating on a man because hes not good in bed or the size of his penis. Alright then, is that really a REASON to cheat? WHY would you continue a relationship if you are going to cheat, was is the reasoning behind that?
Another thing Ive noticed.. with my age group of women.. from my experiences.. and some friends experiences... When guys cheat around my age group (15 to 21)*give or take a few years either way if you want*
They are usually cheating a women like shit.. from what I know, or I usually see, they dont feed the women alot of bullshit like I love you and I like sleeping with you because I love you.. they just sleep with the women because if that women is dumb enough to stay through all the abuse the man put hers through. Now in no way am I saying that is correct at all.
When women cheat though, they will continue to lie and say I love you to a man. The man will stay faithful and most likley be *a nice guy* and is as said nice guys always finish last. I feel when i guy TRULEY opens up to a women and becomes the most vulernable the girl ends up cheating.. and the thing is she WILL not break up with the guy simply because she loves the emotional relationship... but she likes cock in her to.. Why dedicate yourself to a relationship women if you are going to screw around? You dont love someone if you are just going to cheat..
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that stuff was just kinda guided in there.. I want to see what other peoeple think. I personally dont think women cheat more.. but for some reason I feel its more wrong if a women cheats. I personally will never cheat.. I never plan on it. (I am a male 16)
I do realize I got alot more to go through in life.. but women also seem more scandalous about cheating. As for what I know now.
I guess I really didnt curve this subject the way I wanted it to go and it just became unsensible dribble.. what the hell.. I'll post it anyways.. I want to see peoples thought about what ive said.
* what are your outlooks on cheating?
* Do you believe in the term of slut being accurate?
* how do you define a slut?
(lets just trying knocking a few things out of the way while im at it)
to anyone who posts thanks
to anyone who flames.. have fun with it.
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and the mainr reason I ask if cheating has become more exceptable.. because I was being cheated on by a girl.. or atleast a couple of her friends.. I talked to sometimes.. kinda knew she was on some really sneaky shit.. but they didnt bother saying a fucking word to me.. I know that is there friends.. but still.. I would figure if they dont believe in cheating themselves wouldnt they speak up?
AND TRUST ME.. alot of people (IE WOMEN) say they dont believe in cheating.. but they do it anyways..
now you can say i deserve to be cheated on just based on how I wrote this.. go ahead and say it.. but i know if im in serious relationship.. im very understanding and all that.. its just all this shit builds up after awhile and you get this topic.
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#2
 2007-03-02, 20:40
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Lazarus 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
I think any form of sexual/affectionate contact with another man/woman is classed as cheating if you are supposedly exclusive. If the relationship is not at a stage where commitments have been made and exclusivity is implied, the spouse still won't like it but I don't think it really constitutes cheating.
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#3
 2007-03-02, 20:50
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
my boyfriend and i were talking about cheating once and i said "you would break up with me" because to me it's a matter of fact that he should. i know i would. and he said "i don't know. it would really depend on the situation. i love you and i don't know if i could handle being without you, and if there was a way i could forgive you..."
and i said "NO. you would break up with me. i would not deserve to be with you. if i ever did that, i would expect you to dump me and talk as much shit about me as you want."
cheating is not acceptable to me, and i don't understand why people do accept it, in any case.
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#4
 2007-03-02, 20:54
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
cheating is bad
Especially if she leaves you for the guy she cheated with.
and hes a wigger 
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#5
 2007-03-02, 20:57
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:* what are your outlooks on cheating?
I think that Muslims have pretty fitting punishments for infidelity bullshit.
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#6
 2007-03-02, 21:21
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YouLookFourteen 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
you are sad and bitter and small.
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#7
 2007-03-02, 21:22
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:
I think that Muslims have pretty fitting punishments for infidelity bullshit.
I agree with that!
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#8
 2007-03-02, 21:26
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YouLookFourteen 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
You must feel so GUILTY! Did I expose you? You always trash my threads. You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine. I believe I am right.
i don't trash your threads. i've replied to one thread you've made, saying that it sucked that you've been cheated on so much but that not all girls suck that much. i hope you find a nice girl, i really do, but with that attitude it's highly unlikely.
and i don't feel guilty about anything, no. i have no reason to.
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#9
 2007-03-02, 21:34
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uncoiledspaghetti 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
Cheating has been going on since the start of organized religion.
My personal belief is women have cheated EQUALLY, if not MORE than men.
When a woman cheats today she is told "you go girl". When a man cheats he is a dog, a pig, a piece of shit. It is a real double standard in (American) society today.
Women are not told "you go girl" for cheating. You're just bitter. Get over it.
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#10
 2007-03-02, 21:43
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
Do provide some clips. I am always on the lookout for fuel of my slight sexism.
lol, y women suck at driving?
[This message has been edited by ArgonPlasma2000 (edited 03-02-2007).]
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#11
 2007-03-02, 21:43
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YouLookFourteen 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
SPECIFICALLY TO YOULOOKFOURTEEN: Please tell me what could you possible disagree with^.
Please look at what I said in the post and not what you think of me as a human being!
dude, this is not my thread, i'm not about to steal it because you can't get over some bad experiences.
what don't i agree with? let's see...here's an odd fact: when some women say they don't/won't cheat, they mean it. you are generalizing and saying that all women cheat, women cheat more than men, etc. what facts do you have to base that on aside from your small pool of bad girlfriends?
and i'm not basing my opinion off of "what i think of you as a human being." i AM basing it off of what you said in the post.
that's the last time i reply. sorry op! anyway, to bring it somewhat back on track...cheating sucks.
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#12
 2007-03-02, 21:45
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Punisher1012 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
Obviously you do not live in America. If you do, just tune in to Ophra or Dr. Phil one evening. I rest my case.
Please be objective!
hell yeah dont forget the maury show. I agree with all your threads so far. women cheat and dont even feel guilty about that shit ans the ones that 'never' cheated get so defensive when they hear the truth about women cheating cause they cheaters too.
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#13
 2007-03-02, 21:48
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Punisher1012 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:
dude, this is not my thread, i'm not about to steal it because you can't get over some bad experiences.
what don't i agree with? let's see...here's an odd fact: when some women say they don't/won't cheat, they mean it. you are generalizing and saying that all women cheat, women cheat more than men, etc. what facts do you have to base that on aside from your small pool of bad girlfriends?
and i'm not basing my opinion off of "what i think of you as a human being." i AM basing it off of what you said in the post.
that's the last time i reply. sorry op! anyway, to bring it somewhat back on track...cheating sucks.
try doing some research and who cheats more. dont just get your info from one location get as many references as possible and you'll see that women cheat more. you're not a cheater then why are you getting so defensive when other people say that women cheat more?
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#14
 2007-03-02, 21:52
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by Punisher1012:
try doing some research and who cheats more. dont just get your info from one location get as many references as possible and you'll see that women cheat more. you're not a cheater then why are you getting so defensive when other people say that women cheat more?
captain crackhound isnt saying women cheat more, he's saying all women are lying cheating whores.
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#15
 2007-03-02, 21:56
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uncoiledspaghetti 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
^Dude, I am just try'n to keep it real!
hey i'm not saying you're completely wrong. i know plenty of chicks who have/undoubtedly would cheat without even feeling bad.
but on the other hand, i do know some who definitely would never cheat. you need to learn to pick your girls better.
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#16
 2007-03-02, 23:22
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uncoiledspaghetti 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
A typical woman, taking what I said and fucking twisting it all around. Don't forget, this is a written BBS, and not a phone conversation. PLEASE, don't put word in my mouth and twist shit all around.
haha yeahhhh i'm a guy, genius.
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#17
 2007-03-02, 23:29
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uncoiledspaghetti 
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:
Well, you write like a BITCH.
hahahaha ouchhhhh
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#18
 2007-03-02, 23:53
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
Simply scum.
You cheat, and your filthy fucking scum.
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#19
 2007-03-03, 00:03
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
cheating is evil
really
ASSHOLE
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#20
 2007-03-03, 00:12
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Re: Has cheating become more acceptable? *long read*
thanks to people who have had serious replies and such.. the thread did become a little hijacked.. but its cool.. alot of people have alot to say..
i personally dont want to believe every decent looking women cheats.. thats just somehting i couldnt deal with if it was true either.
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