to whoever said one of us would cheat: you were right. she did, with a dude who was my best friend up until i moved away and i thought we were still close bros. that fucking douchebag.

according to other mutual friends though, it's not her fault and it would "destroy her" if i broke up with her. i haven't talked to her about it yet, i just found out today.

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

to whoever said one of us would cheat: you were right. she did, with a dude who was my best friend up until i moved away and i thought we were still close bros. that fucking douchebag.

according to other mutual friends though, it's not her fault and it would "destroy her" if i broke up with her. i haven't talked to her about it yet, i just found out today.

Not her fault? When you talk to her ask her how big the fucking gun was that he stuck to her head then. You fucking moron.

She was raped?

dude, that bites, i'm sorry.

KHITBASH. Leave her now.

You know, I should've learned to listen to totse about a year and a half ago. I started dating this girl I met over summer who lived in Virginia. I fell in love, we spent 4 months together every single day. In August I came back here to Texas and alot of trust issues came up.Well, I ended up being able to get her a plane ticket to come see me, and I sent it up there. She told me she'd use it 'when she had a chance to travel'.

New years day, I havent heard from her all day so I figure she's coming to surprise me and I waited for her call all day.No call.

2 days later, I find out she went to California with the ticket I gave her to see a guy she had told me 'was just a nice guy she enjoyed talking to online'.And she admitted to cheating on me with him.Fuck you, long distance.

Whoa Whoa Whoa..wait a second. You mean you knew she did this way back at the begining of January? I wouldn't have cared if she used the money to go get a liver transplant, you don't just use that without talking to you about it first.

Dayum. You are going to be a very unhappy guy the rest of your life if you don't use a bit more caution and common sense.

how the fuck is it not her fault? drop her fast!

quote:Originally posted by YouForgotPoland:

You know, I should've learned to listen to totse about a year and a half ago. I started dating this girl I met over summer who lived in Virginia. I fell in love, we spent 4 months together every single day. In August I came back here to Texas and alot of trust issues came up.Well, I ended up being able to get her a plane ticket to come see me, and I sent it up there. She told me she'd use it 'when she had a chance to travel'.

New years day, I havent heard from her all day so I figure she's coming to surprise me and I waited for her call all day.No call.

2 days later, I find out she went to California with the ticket I gave her to see a guy she had told me 'was just a nice guy she enjoyed talking to online'.And she admitted to cheating on me with him.Fuck you, long distance.



damn I feel bad for you

wellll i talked to her about it, and now we're closer than we were before and i'm more secure with our relationship. funny how these things work, huh?

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

wellll i talked to her about it, and now we're closer than we were before and i'm more secure with our relationship. funny how these things work, huh?



WTF? your girl fucking your best friend brought ya closer? damn I bet she came up with a really good excuse

quote:Originally posted by Punisher1012:



WTF? your girl fucking your best friend brought ya closer? damn I bet she came up with a really good excuse

Probably not as good as her "mutual" friends cover up to not stop thier relationship.

quote:Originally posted by Punisher1012:



damn I feel bad for you

wanna know the kicker? I was COMPLETELY faithful the entire 6 months we were apart after summer. And at the same time she was telling me she was "falling more in love with me", she was planning her trip to california, so i was told by a friend of hers. fuck people.

quote:Originally posted by Punisher1012:



WTF? your girl fucking your best friend brought ya closer? damn I bet she came up with a really good excuse

she didn't fuck him, they just made out. we're both virgins, and we're gonna fuck when i visit in april, so if they had fucked yeah i'd be out.

thing is i've seen the guy with chicks, and he's really aggressive. at the time this happened, we were all on e, and i had left to fly back home like an hour earlier. everyone was pairing off i guess and she was just sitting there all fucked up and he pretty much forced himself on her and she just went with it. in my mind, thats definitely forgivable.

and as for the guy who said our "mutual" friends were covering it up, yeahh that's not likely. i've known them a lot longer, and i'm a lot closer with them than she is.

Fuck dude! She cheated on you with your best friend. You should befriend him, and ditch her. Now you're just setting yourself up to be owned twice.

okay just to clarify.. making out cheating is TOTALLY DIFFERENT than sexual cheating.

as soon as i read that they just made out it made me lol.. dude you cant live 6000 miles away from your gf and expect a relationship to be THAT secure.

Sucks bro- but not her fault? I call bullshit. If leaving her would destroy her then she should have thought of that before she fucked your best friend.

Imo you should destroy everything she loves. And rape her cat. Then eat it.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Sucks bro- but not her fault? I call bullshit. If leaving her would destroy her then she should have thought of that before she fucked your best friend.

Imo you should destroy everything she loves. And rape her cat. Then eat it.

You didn't read his second post did you...?

Wow. You're a spineless tool.

"I completely forgive my girlfriend for making out with my best friend while they were on E. It's completely forgiveable."

Umm, NO.

Would you make out with her best friend if you were on E? If you would you're a douchebag. But if the answer is "fuck no" then it's unacceptable for her to feel otherwise.

You suck.



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quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Wow. You're a spineless tool.

"I completely forgive my girlfriend for making out with my best friend while they were on E. It's completely forgiveable."

Umm, NO.

Would you make out with her best friend if you were on E? If you would you're a douchebag. But if the answer is "fuck no" then it's unacceptable for her to feel otherwise.

You suck.



+1 for tardy over here.

quote:Originally posted by Bazzle:

+1 for tardy over here.

Tardy???

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

to whoever said one of us would cheat: you were right. she did, with a dude who was my best friend up until i moved away and i thought we were still close bros. that fucking douchebag.

according to other mutual friends though, it's not her fault and it would "destroy her" if i broke up with her. i haven't talked to her about it yet, i just found out today.

Dude, that really sucks. I'm sorry that happened. I can sympathise, because my girlfriend currently lives several thousands of miles away. Although she hasn't cheated on me yet (as far as I know), I'm always scared shitless that I will find out she did.

Destroy her.. it's the only way.

uncoiledspaghetti if you want to save yourself a shitload of pain do not get attached to this "woman". If you want to fuck her fine but do not trust her do not plan anything long term with her. Don't delude yourself it is only a matter of time before she fucks you over I don't care how close you two supposedly feel. Do not underestimate how emotionally devastating being betrayed by a woman you love and trust can be.

If you're not carefull you could fuck up your entire life, and no I'm not being dramatic. All it takes is one episode of major depression in a critical juncture of your life (like high school and college) to fuck over your future.

YouForgotPoland I feel your pain. Jesus what a heartless bitch. The fucked up part is she's probably justified the entire thing in her head to the point where she doesn't feel guilty in the slightest because in her mind you were the badguy and deserved it. Women are good at that.

You know what I would do if I kissed my womans best friend, she found out and didn't dump me? I'd feel confident in my cheating, and more than likely do it again.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Wow. You're a spineless tool.

"I completely forgive my girlfriend for making out with my best friend while they were on E. It's completely forgiveable."

Umm, NO.

Would you make out with her best friend if you were on E? If you would you're a douchebag. But if the answer is "fuck no" then it's unacceptable for her to feel otherwise.

You suck.

i like u

By the way, she's gotten away with it once, she knows she'll get away with it again.

Some girls are like dogs. Seriously, you know when dogs are in their teenage stage and like to test their boundaries? They push things a little bit further each time, realizing how far they can go with out getting in trouble?

She's doing that. Next, she'll trip and fall onto his dick, then accidentally suck it because she's drunk.

But she tripped, and she was drunk, so by your standards it will be totally forgivable.

You sucks teh pen0r.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 03-01-2007).]

Well if there's one lesson to be learned from this it's that you should always listen to totse.

Harden the fuck up.

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

she just went with it. in my mind, thats definitely forgivable.

No, it is not, mate. You're blinded by the fact that you still want her for yourself, and are making excuses for her, to save yourself.

You can have another girl, man. She's far from the only one, trust me. They come and go, and they're all good. Well... mostly.

anyone else want spaghetti now?

no? oh.

quote:Originally posted by YouForgotPoland:

wanna know the kicker? I was COMPLETELY faithful the entire 6 months we were apart after summer. And at the same time she was telling me she was "falling more in love with me", she was planning her trip to california, so i was told by a friend of hers. fuck people.

my ex pulled that on me. she told me she loved me and all that other shit then that same day she told me had to go out of town to see her father next thing you know I caught the bitch sucking dick in the park. I dumped her right there and then she changed the story around and tried to make look like the cheater. fucking whore she still wont stop stalking me.

Make her pay for that plane ticket she used to see someone else.

If she refuses, have an old friend break her legs.

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

she didn't fuck him, they just made out. we're both virgins, and we're gonna fuck when i visit in april, so if they had fucked yeah i'd be out.

thing is i've seen the guy with chicks, and he's really aggressive. at the time this happened, we were all on e, and i had left to fly back home like an hour earlier. everyone was pairing off i guess and she was just sitting there all fucked up and he pretty much forced himself on her and she just went with it. in my mind, thats definitely forgivable.

and as for the guy who said our "mutual" friends were covering it up, yeahh that's not likely. i've known them a lot longer, and i'm a lot closer with them than she is.



she's going to keep cheating on you with some dumb excuses. get rid of her now before she cheats again

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Wow. You're a spineless tool.



Qft.

Just because it was 'just kissing' this time, what do you think it will be next time, huh?

She made up some shit excuse and you fucking fell for it. If she cant controll herself whilst on E then she deserves whatever shitbag decideds to rape her.

And you fucking suck for taking her back. Setting yourself up for a shitload of cheating and hurt, just because you're spineless.

And in a years time, you're going to turn into the sort of cock that makes threads on totse like

"ALL GIRLS ARE WHORES" because you're so fucking stupid you fell for the one nasty manipulative bitch who could mould you like plasticene.



Kick the shit out of the cunt and dump her, if you actually like yourself at all.

lol grow some balls, buy a ticket back home, kicked the shit out of that douchebag, and bitchslap that whore across the face.

seriously quit being a pussy, "my gf cheated on me with my best friend, but now we feel closer then ever." LOL

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

i guess and she was just sitting there all fucked up and he pretty much forced himself on her and she just went with it. in my mind, thats definitely forgivable.

Yea, he must have forced himself on her.

You can't force someone to kiss you back. Especially to make out with you.

You're in denial.

quote:Originally posted by FunkyZombie:



YouForgotPoland I feel your pain. Jesus what a heartless bitch. The fucked up part is she's probably justified the entire thing in her head to the point where she doesn't feel guilty in the slightest because in her mind you were the badguy and deserved it. Women are good at that.



You're absolutely right, she did. She told me the reason she went to see him was because she was unhappy with me and I mistrusted her too much. (Well no shit you fucking bitch,you just flew across the country on MY plane ticket to cheat on me.)She even told me she didn't regret doing it, but she still loved me and wanted to be with me. Hah.

quote:Originally posted by YouForgotPoland:



You're absolutely right, she did. She told me the reason she went to see him was because she was unhappy with me and I mistrusted her too much. (Well no shit you fucking bitch,you just flew across the country on MY plane ticket to cheat on me.)She even told me she didn't regret doing it, but she still loved me and wanted to be with me. Hah.



But you forgave her and you are still with her? That is the part I don't really get.

wow, you dumb DICK, fucking break up with her ASAP while inflicting as much emotional pain as possible.

it's the smart thing to do.

do you honestly think she's still not a virgin?

i bet her offering you her virginity was part of your agreement that lead to getting back/staying together?? she sounds like a keeper.

Don't forgive her. Once a slut, always a slut. It'll happen again. Even if you never find out about it. Just find a girl who isn't a slut.

girls will always say "it just happened"/"it's not my fault"

they don't like to be responsible for these things

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:



But you forgave her and you are still with her? That is the part I don't really get.

Oh,hell no. It was over the day I found out. I just continued to talk to her for a little while afterwards just to see how she was doing.I thought about getting back together but every time that thought came to my mind, it was countered with the thought of her happily using that ticket I worked my ass off to get to see some other guy before coming to see me.

quote:Originally posted by jai614:

girls will always say "it just happened"/"it's not my fault"

they don't like to be responsible for these things

true, to them is never their fault. they'll cheat them they say is your fault and tell their friends and your friends that your the bad guy in the situation. fucking lying whores

I read the other thread you wrote and this situation is really dumb.

A long distance relationship is bullshit to begin with. She is going to end up fucking other guys and then shes going to think, "why the fuck am I still wasting my time talking to this infatuated asshole?"

What the hell is the point of worrying your ass off everyday when you have no control?

Cut that shit then when you move back try to start it again.

You also have to realize that her "just making out with him" is the story as YOU know it.

Who knows what else she's hiding

You are a fucking moron.

You only have yourself to blame....

Just tell the bitch to go die and move on.

wowww all you guys are bitter as hell. i mean, alright, there is a chance that i'm just "spineless" and she's a lying whore, but what about this: i cheated too. she doesn't know, but i made out with and fingered some chick over here, while completely sober. do i plan to do it again? no.

i trust my girl, and i know the guy who it happened with, and it adds up. of course she could have just stopped him, so she's not entirely free of blame, but so fucking what? swear to god half the people in this thread who called me spineless must never fucking speak to girls. not all of them are scheming bitches.

EDIT: to whoever said i should ditch her and stay friends with the douchebag involved, fuck no. he's been a dick as long as i've known him, just not to me. hell, less than a month ago he fucked our other really good friend's girlfriend, causing them to break up and the friendship to die. he's a fucking dick.

[This message has been edited by uncoiledspaghetti (edited 03-02-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:



according to other mutual friends though, it's not her fault and it would "destroy her" if i broke up with her. i haven't talked to her about it yet, i just found out today.

Well what about you, you can't trust her. This is going to happen again.

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

I see my post "Do women cheat more than men", was posted about 2 hours before your post. Have you read the thread?

No one can say I got the tread idea from your post.

Man I feel your pain. You don't know how many times I have heard stories similar to yours.

I am convinced women cheat way more than men, they just won't admit it. That's just what they do because they can. They are in control of sex.

I really got flamed on my thread, I always treat my women like gold. It is becuase I am such a good fucking slueth, that I find out they are cheaters. Many accussed me of being the problem. That is horseshit. They don't know the facts.

I would guess that ALMOST every woman has cheated on their man. They always give some lame reason to justify their actions.



I agree with your thread. I did a lot of research and you're right women cheat a lot more than guys

You both cheated on eachother?

YOU'RE BOTH FUCKING WORTHLESS CUNTS.

But you deserve eachother.

Enjoy.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

You both cheated on eachother?

YOU'RE BOTH FUCKING WORTHLESS CUNTS.

But you deserve eachother.

Enjoy.

'Kay.