So I really like this girl I've worked with for a few months. She is a big flirt and also has a boyfriend... but I've overheard a conversation a few times about her talking about how she wants someone else because her boyfriend doesn't turn her on much anymore. I am also pretty sure that she wanted me to hear the conversation each time.

We are almost opposites. She is totally extroverted and talkitive, I am introverted and quiet. But there is something about her that I can't help but to be extremely attracted to... besides her being so fucking pretty.

So anyway we had a conversation about music. She seems to like the same music as I do, but then again I think she was just saying that to try and relate to me in some way, since I hardly ever say a word... I did buy her a gift for her birthday... she seemed to like it and was flattered...umm

Point being, I want to fuck her. Even if it is just once. This may have to do with deep emotional scars from a past relationship. I mean I haven't been with anyone for a long time because I felt I wasn't good enough according to my ex's opinion. And I am thinking that maybe having sex with this girl will help me boost my self-esteem to a very large extent.

I don't want to be totally blunt about what I want from her, because that is just me. I want to know if you think this is a good idea, dumb idea, or best idea for the given situation.

So here is what I am going to do...

Since we seem to be into the same music, I burnt a cd for her with such songs like Nine Inch Nail's "Closer", "Sunspots", Rammstein's "Stripped" and such songs that have sort of a sexual meaning.

I plan on writing on the cd "What's it gonna be?"

I may be getting myself into some trouble with her boyfriend, making things uncomfortable at work... or this might go just the way I'd hope it to.

Any general advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

Just fuck her. But don't get invovled. It doesn't sound like she has a good track record.

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:

Just fuck her. But don't get invovled. It doesn't sound like she has a good track record.Yeah sh's 18 and already has a kid...heh.

quote:Originally posted by You Will Die:

Originally posted by specus_meretricis:

Just fuck her. But don't get invovled. It doesn't sound like she has a good track record.Yeah sh's 18 and already has a kid...heh.



With her current boyfriend? Terrible idea.

quote:Originally posted by Can O Soup:

With her current boyfriend? Terrible idea.

Actually... no not with her current boyfriend.

quote:Originally posted by You Will Die:

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Actually... no not with her current boyfriend.

Still a terrible idea.

quote:Originally posted by You Will Die:

and also has a boyfriend...



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Well... not such a good idea it seems.

Oh well.

I was totally for your plan until 'kid' came up.

I still support your idea. Have that one time sex. It'll do you both good, although she might turn clingy. Either way, you owe it to yourself to at least TRY.

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

Either way, you owe it to yourself to at least TRY.

I appreciate that. I most likely will do it.