So the fellow I mentioned in the other thread (the one my friend and I were contesting over.) Well I had been hitting on him quite brazenly for a couple of weeks, and finally I invited myself over to his place.

I figured that since I had been so forward, and he hadn't shown quite so much enthusiasm about the whole matter as I had - I would let him make the first move, so as not to scare the poor boy.

Hesitation kills.

Two hours of akward semi-silence later, and I came to the conclusion that he wasn't going to make a move. We had a good talk about the psychological implications of the whole thing, how the night didn't turn out as quite as expected, and how now there was really no cool way of going about it anymore.

So I walked over and I undid his pants, and I gave him a blowjob, which I quite enjoyed doing, although, I know I caught my teeth on his dick a couple times, and I am absolutely positive that that wasn't cool - especially since he said 'a little less teeth please'.

After he finished he bought me a flavoured water and drove me home.

The night was relatively successful as far as I was concerned.

However, I was talking to him on msn yesterday, and it seems that he's developed an incredible guilt complex - he feels like a manipulative bastard who made me do something I didn't actually want to do.

Which is not in the least bit true.

I don't know what to do now.

Reassure him, don't call attention to it, etc. I guess he's pretty new to the whole sexual encounters practice.

Give him another blow job?

Uhh... Tell him that if you invited yourself over to his place does he really think that he manipulated you?

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

Reassure him, don't call attention to it, etc. I guess he's pretty new to the whole sexual encounters practice.

But he's not, he's not. I know for a fact he's not.

quote:Originally posted by Can O Soup:

Uhh... Tell him that if you invited yourself over to his place does he really think that he manipulated you?



Or...that ^^^.

It's basically, the same thing.

edit:

Maybe he wants to return the favor?

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 03-01-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Give him another blow job?

Better yet, give ME a blowjob.

the two of you above, shut up....it may not be old to people who don't waste all of their time on the internet...

edit: WTF, this isn't the thread I was in and responding to....regardless, I stand by my post.

[This message has been edited by chickenpoop (edited 03-01-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by captain_kirk:

But he's not, he's not. I know for a fact he's not.

Then he's probably pretty childish? Tell him to man up, and give him another blowjob.

quote:Originally posted by Can O Soup:

Uhh... Tell him that if you invited yourself over to his place does he really think that he manipulated you?

I said that, and I made it clear that I wasn't offended by anything he'd done, that I did have free will.

The best solution now seems to invite him over, just for a joint and some amiable conversation, maybe a kiss or two. Marijuana is an excellent peace offering.

Mindyou, considering how well we did conversing last time - that might not be such a good idea.

quote:Originally posted by chickenpoop:

the two of you above, shut up....it may not be old to people who don't waste all of their time on the internet...

edit: WTF, this isn't the thread I was in and responding to....regardless, I stand by my post.



I laughed...but...I'm serious.

wait..im confused..he got head, fomr someone who wanted to and enjoyed doing it...and now he feels guilty? That isnt adding up for me...i know if i got head out of nowhere, id be pretty damn happy about it.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I laughed...but...I'm serious.

I am too.

Another good thing would be...CONVERSATION. Men like him enjoy the truth. So just tell him you like him for him and want to be with him of YOUR free will.

God damn you both sound pretentious as fuck. How about you relax and be yourself rather than go into worthless self-analysing shit?

quote:Originally posted by The American Infidel:

wait..im confused..he got head, fomr someone who wanted to and enjoyed doing it...and now he feels guilty? That isnt adding up for me...i know if i got head out of nowhere, id be pretty damn happy about it.

Care to try again?

Well I would, I would do it again - but I think he'd only feel worse, and I'm afraid I hurt him last time.

As for the both of us being pretentious fucks - that is so true.

Not complicated. Tell him you wanted to, otherwise, why did you? If he still feels bad, maybe he feels he should return the favor and eat you out or something. Wow that was blunt..

I think you weren't aggressive enough, so he might have seen it as you giving him an obligatory blow job.

You need to just take him by the horns...imo.

69 = conversation sans words

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

give ME a blowjob.

Pounce on him next time.

No messing about with blowjobs, damnit.

You need some too!

Right yoyo. In her other thread she said she won. But now I'm wondering what it is that she's supposed to have won.

lol, oh kirk. You're so much braver than I.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Right yoyo. In her other thread she said she won. But now I'm wondering what it is that she's supposed to have won.

Apparently he treated her to a 'Dinner'?

I thought it was a 'Full Meal Deal'? It looks like it was just a hot fresh snack...kinda a whore'doerve?

Just phone him up or when he comes over say simply (depending on your preference) 1. "I want your huge cock in my arse" or 2. "I was BAD girl and I need to be punished".

No I'm not joking. Either or those two should convince him that he needn't feel guilty.

Sounds like he is a decent caring bloke if he gets all twisted over somehting like that.

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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Sounds like he is a decent caring bloke if he gets all twisted over somehting like that.

Yes, he does.

I wonder...does he know he was the prize in a contest?

If not, I wonder what he would think about that.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Yes, he does.

I wonder...does he know he was the prize in a contest?

If not, I wonder what he would think about that.

We just aren't going to tell him about that.

Damnit, now all I want now is a blowjob.

BASTARD! Some guys don't deserve what they're given.

send him a link to this thread.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

69 = conversation sans words

you spelt 'without' wrong

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

you spelt 'without' wrong

Sir...you are almost completely unsansitary!

quote:Originally posted by Can O Soup:

Uhh... Tell him that if you invited yourself over to his place does he really think that he manipulated you?

Master of Cunning...

>_>

<_<

You blew him and your friend didn't...Score for you!

I'm just worried that your friend will get shitty when she realises she fucking sucks and you won, and tell the guy that he was the 'prize'.

And then he might get pissed off and hate you, which would be a terrible shame if he turned out to be a good lay.



I wanna be young again.

But ^^^ her friend didn't suck & that's the problem?