Its terrible seeing your partner in pain, whethere its physical pain or emotional hurt. I just wish I could take all that away from her or even sacrifice it all for her.

There is nothing worse than seeing her like this . I'm not exactly sure what I want out of this thread, but I guess to see if other people feel the same>? Err.. Sorry if this isn't appropriate, I just figure many people of S&A will understand.

What's wrong with her??? What can you do about it??? Is it something really serious???

More details please...

Worst thing in the world.

Oh, mate, its nothing serious... its just, you know those times where it seems she's going through hell where you can only wish that you could take care of her and what not.

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

Err.. Sorry if this isn't appropriate, I just figure many people of S&A will understand.



Thread is fine and certainly belongs here...infact more than many we get.

mindless...i know exactly what you mean...i feel this way about someone...my ex...and though we are not together, we are still close...and right now she is going through a lot that i just wish i could help her with...but she doesnt want me to get dragged into it...

so, your not alone, not by far. but in my experience, the best thing you can do for her is to be close and make sure she knows you are willing to do whatever you have to in order to help her...thats what i did...and the result was the best few years of my life. and although i was never able to help her in the way she needed, which is why we broke up, i know that i helped her through a period that if i wasnt there, she has said herself, she would not be here.

bah, it's far worse when your PARTNER is the pain and they won't GTFO or STFU

There is always that, but I can see that you've clearly never cared for anyone more than you do yourself.

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

There is always that, but I can see that you've clearly never cared for anyone more than you do yourself.

It's very unhealthy to care for someone more than you care for yourself.

It's one of the worst feelings in the world.

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I know what you mean. Won't go into details but it's heartbreaking. I wish there was more I could do.

Perhaps you both need to stop listening to so much damn Evanescence.