After being rejected once by a certain girl...HARD...I havent felt the same. Its not so much that I still have feelings for the girl . I lack feelings when it comes to relationships in general. I have women wrapped around my finger wanting me, yet as soon as I find out they are attracted to me I lose interest completely. I lose whatever attraction I had for them. And they just become bleh to me. I try to care, but it doesnt work. Ive also been in some really good moods, by really good I mean pretty narcissistic moods I enjoy it, but few others do. I need a fixin, and I need it soon. Help.

Can anyone offer any advice, Im never like this, usually for every 1 rejection Id just go and hookup with a few chicks and be fine, but its different now for some reason.

Life's a lot easier without feelings and emotions.

I would have agreed when I had them, but now that I dont, I actually want to feel something...anything. Wow, that sounds depressing,Im not depressed or nothing though.....I think

Alcohol!

Nah, but seriously, stay away from relationships for a while.

"find yourself"..

Focus on something, man. Something easy like video games. Or whatever you do as a basis.

Don't worry. It's not permanent. The right girl will hit a switch, so to speak.

quote:I think Im dead inside

Emo, much?



Anyways try self harm, 'poetry' and drawing mangas.

Seems to work for most of the teenies here.

How could you type that if you were dead?

quote:Originally posted by Ali G in da house:

After being rejected once by a certain girl...HARD...I havent felt the same. Its not so much that I still have feelings for the girl . I lack feelings when it comes to relationships in general. I have women wrapped around my finger wanting me, yet as soon as I find out they are attracted to me I lose interest completely. I lose whatever attraction I had for them. And they just become bleh to me. I try to care, but it doesnt work. Ive also been in some really good moods, by really good I mean pretty narcissistic moods I enjoy it, but few others do. I need a fixin, and I need it soon. Help.

I feel the same. So far the only solution is keep going after new girls.

sounds like you need a fifth of captain, an eightball and a respectable hooker.

Yes i can give you advice: the edit button is a little pen and pencil icon

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Emo, much?



Anyways try self harm, 'poetry' and drawing mangas.

Seems to work for most of the teenies here.

I never understood the magma thing. Self infliction, understandable, it releases some good chemicals, poetry, though most of its pretty crappy. (though if written correctly you can come up with genius pieces when depressed)

But anime!? WTF!?

To the OP: Um, since your dead on the inside, and Mansons sounding pretty good (I say this as I'm pretty happy and listening to his music), common sense says if your dead on the inside, find a way to be livin again.

Wow, it took me a while just to say that one line.

quote:Originally posted by missing_cipher:

"find yourself"..

nigga, find some drugs.

Have sex with one or two, seriously. This will change your perspective back to what you want it to be.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Emo, much?



Anyways try self harm, 'poetry' and drawing mangas.

Seems to work for most of the teenies here.

Nah,Ill never cut my self thats fucking pathetic and disgraceful,poetry is usually shit....like the one person said, and anime is pretty fucking gay.

Maybe women are not for you.

Try the gay club.

Make a concious decision you want to feel better. Then go out there and keep working on it.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Emo, much?



Anyways try self harm, 'poetry' and drawing mangas.

Seems to work for most of the teenies here.

Did your kid tell you to say that?

quote:Originally posted by Ali G in da house:

I would have agreed when I had them, but now that I dont, I actually want to feel something...anything. Wow, that sounds depressing,Im not depressed or nothing though.....I think

you might want to talk to her about it personally. just say now you feel different because she really affected you, you care about her opinion of you and you think she was harsh. women are mostly pretty caring and realistic as long as you didn't have sex with someone else or something

So...whats it like being a complete little bitch?

STart doing yoga. Then you can self-pleasure yourself without relationship.

so, what's it like being gay?

Welcome to club.

Really.

Hopefully you won't be a lifetime member.

quote:Originally posted by cegha:

nigga, find some drugs.

Same thing...

im pretty similar.

i don't really care about too much other than myself. i have become very arrogant and find it difficult to empathise with almost anyone. i don't feel a connection with anyone but my friends, and i don't really care to change that. i'm happy with my own company, and i keep busy with study and work.

actually it does wonders for study. i like to be better than other people and it gives me incentive to do that (see, i am arrogant).

i am just impulse and ego. and im happy. perhaps one day ill start taking an interest in new people, when i meet someone i actually connect with, but until then im just going to enjoy what i have.

but if you have nothing material to focus on then shit goes downhill. fast. find something, work out, a hobby, one of a thousand things and youll get by.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Focus on something, man. Something easy like video games. Or whatever you do as a basis.

Seriously man, I've been where you are.

Start a healthy $400 a week cocaine habit.