I've never really been with a girl before now. Anyways, this girl really likes me. She's a freshman, I'm a junior.

We didn't do much, physically. We made out twice, both times in the movies, both times got a little hot and heavy, i.e. me going up her shirt.

When we would talk though, I found it rather difficult because she just wasn't on the same level as me, maybe it was the age difference, maybe she was just stupid, but it was difficult to keep conversation going. Every time we'd talk, I'd start talking about something, and she would go yell at her brother. I would listen to her, but I felt like she was just ignoring me.

Then when I started to call, she would send me to voice mail. I was annoyed.

I never got her anything for valentines day, because I thought I would break it off with her. I didn't.

Then one day I found out about something important through a mutual friend, and I confronted her about it. She told me she was never going to tell me about it. I was pissed to say the least. I stopped talking to her until we went on mid-winter break. She went on vacation. We haven't talked since she got back and I just don't know what to do.

I'm not sure if I should just cut off all contact with her or ask for some closure on everything that happened. I just don't know.

Well you can't expect us to contribute unless you tell us what this 'important thing' is that makes you so pissed off that you can't know about it.

Freshmen are 14-15. They don't count as real people yet. There are exceptions, but for the most part, they are immature little dipshits who are incapable of making logical, rational decisions, especially when it comes to being in a relationship with another person. You should have realized this before dating a little girl.

Anyway, now that you know not to do that again, since she seems at fault, let her talk to you first. If you still have feelings for her, remind yourself that she's stupid and they will go away in a reasonable amount of time. Find another girl of higher intelligence and maturity and you will be happy.

I wrestle, and our coach got suspended, and the school instated a new coach. This other kid and I, we didn't like the practices, so we decided to work out with other schools and not show up to our school's practices.

The Athletic Director heard about this, someone must have said something, and he said that we could go to practice and wrestle in the state qualifier or we could not wrestle at all.

She was the only one that knew about what we were doing, and then when she found out about our AD's ultimatum, she had no intentions of telling me. She was going to fuck me over.

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You know she wanted to fuck you over? Then what the fuck are you doing asking what you should do with her?

I stand by my word.

I mean, honestly, what the hell do you want us to tell you?

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You know she wanted to fuck you over? Then what the fuck are you doing asking what you should do with her?

I stand by my word.

I mean, honestly, what the hell do you want us to tell you?

I'm not sure if she was just stupid and thought not to tell me or if she seriously wanted to fuck me over. I guess I just want some fucking closure on the whole thing.

I advice that you close the whole thing. The only good way that you can sort this our is by having an honest conversation with her. Tell her to grow up if she sounds like a kid...