I've been dating this girl for about a month now and before we were dating we had somewhat of a sexual relationship. We've never actually had sex yet but we've done just about everything else. Well most of that was before we were dating. Since we started dating it's like shes over it or something. She just keeps telling me that she hasn't been horny lately.

She's very open about when she's on her period and everything, and she already had hers this month, so I know it's not that.

I'm just looking for a way to turn her back on and get the response i was before the relationship. Because before we started dating its was like she couldn't get enough of it and we would have the dirtiest conversations imaginable, but that hasn't happened in a long time.

Any advice?

Turn your back on her.

Do you persistantly go about trying to do things to turn her back on? Maybe if you are this is annoying her... do nothing, see how she responds to that. See if she'll initiate things if she's in the mood and what not.

Reverse Psychology?

"No! I refuse to have sex with you!!!"

- Watch what happens...

I was hoping this thread was about getting her to keep fucking/blowing after she's had her orgasm.

Now that's a thread I'd like to see.

jump leads? cattle prod? tazer?

Maybe she's just gone off sex due to having SAD for a bit and come spring, when the lambs bounce around the meadow and the sap rises, she'll rape you.

I'd guess one of a few things. One, maybe she's just stressed out. For some people, stress makes them less horny. On rare occasions though it will make the sex drive for some shoot through the roof.

Two, maybe she's the type of person who always needs to be chasing something. There's a word for it that I can't think of, but basically, now that she has you she's not interested any more. Just a guess, though. If it persists you should talk to her about it, and if she avoids it or gives you a bullshit response, I'd say it's pretty much over. Good luck, let us know.

The sex was naughty before, and she shouldn't have been doing it (I am guessing one of you was in a relationship before or something?), and now she can have it whenever she wants, she doesn't want it.

Welcome to female logic. They always want what they can't have, and when they get it, they don't want it any more, and want something else entirely.

Do you have a cat? Watch how it operates, and you'll start to understand women. A cat will sit where it isn't supposed to, crap where it wants, turn it's nose up at a dinner it loved last night, absolutely fawn all over the one person in a room that hates cats, etc...

Do you have a dog? Dogs are similar to men. They will be friends with anyone that will pay them a bit of attention, eat whatever they can, play with whoever they can, occasionally hump your leg, etc...

You get the picture?

[This message has been edited by chumpion (edited 02-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

The sex was naughty before, and she shouldn't have been doing it (I am guessing one of you was in a relationship before or something?), and now she can have it whenever she wants, she doesn't want it.

Welcome to female logic. They always want what they can't have, and when they get it, they don't want it any more, and want something else entirely.

Do you have a cat? Watch how it operates, and you'll start to understand women. A cat will sit where it isn't supposed to, crap where it wants, turn it's nose up at a dinner it loved last night, absolutely fawn all over the one person in a room that hates cats, etc...

Do you have a dog? Dogs are similar to men. They will be friends with anyone that will pay them a bit of attention, eat whatever they can, play with whoever they can, occasionally hump your leg, etc...

You get the picture?



Haha wow it's amazing how true that is. And yeah she just got out of a big relationship a few months before we started dating. Any advice though?

I just want to turn her on without being too forward or anything.

Wow this question is right up my alley. This same thing happened to me, except me being the girl, I wasn't horny for a few months. I guess I was just always tired or stressed so I never felt like it. But then a while later I wanted to do stuff again. I don't have any idea what it was but just give her some time. I'm sure she'll come around.

Turn the switch on her back that says Off to On

This is what most chicks do. They lure you in with sex and once they got ya, it's all "I'm too tired" or "I have a headache" from this point on. Congrats on roping in a succubus

She's bored. The chase is over. Make her chase you again. If you act disinterested in sex as well the whole girl-insecurity thing will pop up and she'll likely start doing anything to get you interested in her again.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

She's bored. The chase is over. Make her chase you again. If you act disinterested in sex as well the whole girl-insecurity thing will pop up and she'll likely start doing anything to get you interested in her again.

^^ Yeah. It sucks, but relationships are just REALLY long, involving games.

In passing, mention your libido has dropped, and you couldn't be fucked having sex even if it was offered. Remember to make it subtle. She'll assume she no longer turns you on, then she'll either:

A. Try to get you to sleep with her.

B. Fuck your best friend.

I'm guessing A if she likes you, B if she's like the majority of girls. No I'm just joshin you. Man, joshin is such a fucking queer word. It's what I imagine a Christian dude with beaver teeth would say. That's not me, okay? Got the clear? Good.

Any way, follow Aseren's advice.