simple. would you tell your two best friends you care about someone and have this feeling that this guy is going to be the one you are going to marry, if you dont mean it?

i was drunk laying on a couch at my friend I's house. (i was the only one drinking cause i just meet up with them)

anyways as i was layng there. i had my eyes shut. and i didnt say anything for like 15 mins. so they thought i was asleep. and i over heard this girl K say that she feels like i am the one she is going to marry.

she doesnt know that i know and the only two other people there were her two best friends (both girls)

now i have been noticing weird things coming from K for awhile now but i wasnt sure what to think.

please ladies help me out.

How old are you? And how old is she?

If she's young, i.e. < 18, then you should end it now, before she gets anymore attached, because if you don't it's gona' get really shitty for you, an worse for her.

If your both older, mature and responsible people, you wouldn't be asking us for help.

[This message has been edited by Strakynyar Krongoth (edited 02-27-2007).]

well i'm 20

and she's 18

i usually wouldnt ask, but this just threw me for a loop. i couldnt understand if she was serious or not.

we are great friends and i have liked her for awhile now. and she tells me she cares for me more than i will ever know. yet she is still with her current man.

i dont know i guess i was just wondering what people on here had to say about the subject

Well, she hates being with her boyfriend an loves your comparitevly mature attitude, also your stuble.



If she breaks up with her current boyfriend and asks you out, tell her you want to wait a while.

If she still wants you a month later, then she likes you, if she doesn't, then she only wanted you because wanting you was an outlet for her dissatisfaction with her current boyfriend.

Strakynyar Krongoth is completely right. Becareful on this one, if she's cool you can probably date her for a while and see how things go. But keep your eyes open for freaky behavior. I find it a little disturbing that she is talking marriage this early in the game, that usually means she's not playing with a full deck.

Good luck!

quote:Originally posted by jewelie369:

Strakynyar Krongoth is completely right. Becareful on this one, if she's cool you can probably date her for a while and see how things go. But keep your eyes open for freaky behavior. I find it a little disturbing that she is talking marriage this early in the game, that usually means she's not playing with a full deck.

Good luck!



i really didnt say anything about it, but i have been friends with this girl for like 2 years. and we are really close. but it all started like last summer.

when she would drink. she would call me up and tell me that i dont understand how much she really cares about me. and how she gets jealous when i chill with other girls and not her.

i like this girl alot. i think about her all day. i dont think i go an hour with out thinking of her. she is wonderful and the most genuwine person i know

i think maybe she has liked me for awhile but hasnt been able to tell me. her and her boyfriend have been on and off the last 6 months.

i dont know

That she hasn't just broken up with her boyfriend shows that she isn't very decisive or able to just make a decision, even if she's got 6 months to do it. Also, when it all goes fukkarie between the pair of you, she's gona blame you.

There ain't a way to let her down without hurting her either, which will make if difficult to tell her you don't want her (if your going to do that).

It's unfortunate for her, but if your gona do something, an you want to minimise the pain, do whatever it is sooner rahter than later, thou' thats not to say right now. If you leave it til later then she'll blame you for misleading her (even if you didn't, it's just a way of lashing out and dealing with frustration).