Help with crazy ex girl
This is my situation its a little long so please be patient
Around the end of October I hooked up with a girl who everyone thought was hot. I thought it was a good opportunity. At first I just liked hooking up with her because I liked the action, and I was way overdue for it. Then I actually started liking her. She would always call me up, do what I wanted, and didnt care about any insecurities I had. Sounds like a great girl right?
She often would get calls from her Ex boyfriend who was pretty much stalker status, so I already had some trust issues with her. I wanted her to cut off communication completely from her ex and she said she would, but then never did. She said it was because he doesnt get it, he just shows up to my house if I dont pick up. Anyways she lied to me for the longest time about her actually still having feelings for her ex and not knowing if what we had was just a fling. I found out and we had a big fight. I debated on whether or not to take her back, because I was pissed. I decided to give her a second chance. Things were pretty good after that, and she slowly gained her trust back in me. But I still had a grudge because I was lied too, and once that happens, I never truly trust that person again.
Now around Christmas time I was finally planning on asking her out. I would have earlier but we had some trust hurdles we needed to get over. I went down to Beverly Hills to buy her a tiffanys necklace and was planning to ask her out on Christmas and give her the present. About a week before Christmas, I pick her up from work because she didnt have a ride and drop her off she said she was going to go to a party. I said ok cool ill hang with my friends tonight. The next day I heard that she was talking smack about me at the party and wanted to hook up with other guys. I was baffled because SHE usually puts all the effort into the relationship, and I would never have thought she would jeopardize our relationship. So I called her up and said do you want to talk about this tonight or tomorrow because I needed to talk to her in person, and she just wanted to talk on the phone. Then she hooked up with a guy the next day
I was done with the relationship for good. I was traumatized at first, but soon realized it was the best thing that happened to me.
Now I was totally over the relationship and have hooked up with many girls since. Its about 2 months later but she is still calling me wanting to just be friends. I know for a fact she still has feelings for me and wants to get back together. This is undisputable because she has told me. I know for sure I dont want to get back together with her, I dont want to be friends, I dont want to talk to her, I just want her out of my life. She shows up uninvited to my house, and calls me up still. She plays very devious games with my head. She threatened that if I was not her friend, she would start rumors about me at school and tells everyone to hate me (she has a significant amount of power at school.). Her manipulations are extremely good, and I can barely catch them sometimes. She wont stop calling, if I dont answer, she shows up at my house, and she practically stalks me. Shes clinically bi-polar, I found out first hand and from previous boyfriends that shes fucking crazy. This girl is ruining my life, as she scares away all other girls that I might have a chance with. Yet she claims she doesnt scare anyone away, and only wants to be my friend. I hate her with all my might and passion. Honestly, I wouldnt wish for her to die, but if it did happen, I wouldnt shed a tear. She knows I want nothing to do with her, but she says Im being immature and keeps talking to me.
What the fuck do I do to get her away from me?
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