So I used too date this girl a few years ago, and now we are talking again. I told her that I missed her, and she feels the same way, except she has a boyfriend. We talk alot online and text once and a while. Whenever she starts or ends a conversation she usually says "Babe", which is obviosuly a good sign. So one day were talking and she sits there and calls her boyfriend a bitch and stuff but yet she still goes out with him? But she calls me babe and stuff? Like wtf don't mess with my head. you guys thinks she's into me? Any help is appreciated.

How old are you both?

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

How old are you both?

16...

quote:Originally posted by nexor:

16...

Just fucking ask her. Worst case scenario: She says no and breaks off all contact with you. That stops the mixed messages, right? You're old enough to have plenty of other friends. But, you have to think to yourself, do you really want to try this again when it didn't work before?

[This message has been edited by Can O Soup (edited 02-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Can O Soup:

Just fucking ask her. Worst case scenario: She says no and breaks off all contact with you. That stops the mixed messages, right? You're old enough to have plenty of other friends. But, you have to think to yourself, do you really want to try this again when it didn't work before?





Yeah, I guess. Thanks

There's no way to tell from what you've written.

So...end your conversations with something similar. You'll find out by how she responds later. (If she does. :P)

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

There's no way to tell from what you've written.

So...end your conversations with something similar. You'll find out by how she responds later. (If she does. :P)



Right, i havent talked too her for 2 days but the last time we did talk it was for a while

quote:Originally posted by Can O Soup:

... do you really want to try this again when it didn't work before?



I would agree with that if you both weren't so young. It's an age of growth and change, so it could still be worth a shot.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I would agree with that if you both weren't so young. It's an age of growth and change, so it could still be worth a shot.

It depends. I'm 18 and I dated a girl when I was about 16 that I would never ever consider dating again. Fuck that crazy bitch. She still has some of my video games. Damn.

quote:Originally posted by nexor:

Right, i havent talked too her for 2 days but the last time we did talk it was for a while



I'd ease into it though. Suggest sublty that if she splits with him you'd be interested. But...that's it. Not while she's dating him.

But remember, girls do like to vent when they're angry. She could just think of you as just a friend. So, be realistic if you can.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I would agree with that if you both weren't so young. It's an age of growth and change, so it could still be worth a shot.

oh and btw I was agreeing with the ask her if she does like me part not the still be worth it part.

quote:Originally posted by nexor:

oh and btw I was agreeing with the ask her if she does like me part not the still be worth it part.

Definately worth it then, huh?

Try it.