I met a couple off the internet (gumtree.com), into swinging and stuff. Exchanged messages and photos for a good while, and then met the man for a quick drink round the corner from my house.

So no rape or murder this far.

We eventually arranged to have a threesome yesterday, with him, and his hot MILF girlfriend in her house.

I must stress at this point that they're kinky swingers, and I do indulge in BDSM also.

I waited at their door and he let me in, led me up the stairs to the bedroom. There the lady was, already tied down on her back, wearing fishnet hold-ups, some kind of basque, and a secure blindfold. This excited me, I had brought a camera along, there was an older woman tied up before me, and I was looking forward to reporting back to S&A (including the pics or it didn't happen bit.. with permission).

So the man went over to his girlfriend on the bed, touching her slowly to ease her nerves. The radio was on, drowning out most sound... but she must have heard me put my coat down etc.

Suddenly she panicked and blurted out "WHO'S THERE?!" and started kind of struggling and going "No, I didn't want this.. no... let me go, get off me". She tried to get her blindfold off, but couldn't, and bawled in her yorkshire accent "Who the FOOK is she?!" In my general direction. You know how it is with bdsm.. there's play rape, which is different to real rape. But she really seemed like she didn't want it, so of course I did nothing, and she got untied.

I felt like a total whore all the while, just stood there in my skirt, stockings, and heels etc.. in front of this yelling woman.

She told us both where to get off, so we left the room and went down the stairs.

Just as I was leaving, the guy insisted on groping me, which was fair enough since we had arranged sexual activities. I just realized when he stuck his hand in my pants how old he probably was (ie more than old enough to be my dad).

So I just stood there still till he let me go.. which sounds like I'm a brat who only wants things her way, but I wanted the threesome so I'd not be intimidated by a way older guy on my own.

The whole thing was, the lady had wanted it, but panicked and changed her mind, because she usually only does that kind of thing when drunk, when her nerves are eased. I am pretty damn sure he TOLD her first what was happening!

And the moral of the story is, before doing anything like that, talk to all the people involved personally, don't just go through one person to arrange it all.

And of course be careful meeting people from teh intarwebz as we're always warned.

If I ever succeed in what I yesterday failed, I will post it. With pics if I can!

post pics of yourself.

quote:Originally posted by chickenpoop:

post pics of yourself. Well that sure was a contribution.. :S

I wanted people to share their ideas and experiences.. or something :P

...

Dammit flock.

a/s/l nekkid pix plz

LOL

The path of a true Orgasmanaut was always beset with difficulties.

Anyways, some advice for the future.

Refuse ALL M-F-F 3'somes unless SHE (the other 'F') is the one who contacts you and you MUST meet her first for a glass of wine/coffee/chat

M-F-F is more a male fantasy than female. Some women DO want it. Some because it means they get a bit of lesbian action, some to please their partner and some who just have a kink a mile wide (for example in BDSM).

However there is too much risk that it's something she feels somehow complelled to do or has only agree to when drunk etc.

Thanks for the Ketchian wisdom, you're right.

I would much rather have arranged it with a woman.. but the reason I didn't this time was because she's a sub and I figured she just wanted her master to arrange it because she was shy. I was supposed to meet her first, but college got in the way.

I'll keep looking for kinky three-way action.

And hot lesbian sex!

Yeah - I have to agree with Jackketch. These sort of things have to be organised with all 3 (or 4 or more) people present.

Our experience was with another couple, but everything was lined up beforehand, we met in a pub for a few drinks, walked around a bit, got to know each other before finally retiring to a hotel room. We had chatted and cammed on the internet a few times too. They were just normal, down to earth people like us.

It is a big thing to spring on a partner - you should always be wary if only one partner is involved with the organisations.... Guys especially. I could buy the line of a woman getting another woman for a "surprise birthday present" for her husband, but thats about it...

Just out of curiosity - you haven't got any like-minded friends in Sydney by any chance, do you Flock? lol - most people that respond to personal ads are just weird.....lol

Cheers,

Chris

I did'nt read it but I'm sure it was interesting

I've often though about doing the M-F-F threesome thing, where my boyfriend and I get another female. The idea seems so sexy and fun. I fantasize about it a lot.

I wonder if I could do it and actually be comfortable with it. I might get jealous and emotional, and no woman wants a girl crying into her vagina.

If it ever did happen, It'd have to be with a lot of planning, and we'd both have to discuss what we wanted/expected out of it, and lay down some rules and restrictions.

Also, the girl! She'd have to be someone we didn't know... or else it would be to weird. But also... could be very weird with someone who is just a stranger too.

I'm hoping some other women here in totse have experienced something, like flock here... I wonder how the ffm thing works out for the women. I know the men don't mind :/

quote:Originally posted by KamiKaze:

I've often though about doing the M-F-F threesome thing, where my boyfriend and I get another female. The idea seems so sexy and fun. I fantasize about it a lot.

I wonder if I could do it and actually be comfortable with it. I might get jealous and emotional, and no woman wants a girl crying into her vagina.

If it ever did happen, It'd have to be with a lot of planning, and we'd both have to discuss what we wanted/expected out of it, and lay down some rules and restrictions.

Also, the girl! She'd have to be someone we didn't know... or else it would be to weird. But also... could be very weird with someone who is just a stranger too.

I'm hoping some other women here in totse have experienced something, like flock here... I wonder how the ffm thing works out for the women. I know the men don't mind :/

Two points:

1. I do want a woman crying on my vagina (or in my case, on my penis).

2. I'm a guy and would very much mind a MMF with a girflriend. YOU SEXIST PIG.

My gf wants to get one of her (girl) friends involved with us for a time or two.

My gf is bi and I'm not jealous about times when shes fucked girls because in my opinion a girl has stuff that I just don't have and I have stuff that a girl can't bring to the table so there's a place for all of us.

However if my girl fucked another guy I'd probably be like "what's he got that I don't have?".

So I'm up for a threesome with her and a friend. It's just a matter of time.

quote:Originally posted by Suicide_Mouse:

So I'm up for a threesome with her and a friend. It's just a matter of time.

Do you know how awesome of a learning experience that could be? You could have her friend, who is a girl, teach you how to give girl's oral! She could teach you to be God-like at it!

Yorkhire accent? You can't be that far from Lancaster..

Haha.. find another female and you can share me!

Sexiest failure this week.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Do you know how awesome of a learning experience that could be? You could have her friend, who is a girl, teach you how to give girl's oral! She could teach you to be God-like at it!

Only faggots eat pussy.

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

I met a couple off the internet (gumtree.com), into swinging and stuff. Exchanged messages and photos for a good while, and then met the man for a quick drink round the corner from my house.

So no rape or murder this far.

We eventually arranged to have a threesome yesterday, with him, and his hot MILF girlfriend in her house.

I must stress at this point that they're kinky swingers, and I do indulge in BDSM also.

I waited at their door and he let me in, led me up the stairs to the bedroom. There the lady was, already tied down on her back, wearing fishnet hold-ups, some kind of basque, and a secure blindfold. This excited me, I had brought a camera along, there was an older woman tied up before me, and I was looking forward to reporting back to S&A (including the pics or it didn't happen bit.. with permission).

So the man went over to his girlfriend on the bed, touching her slowly to ease her nerves. The radio was on, drowning out most sound... but she must have heard me put my coat down etc.

Suddenly she panicked and blurted out "WHO'S THERE?!" and started kind of struggling and going "No, I didn't want this.. no... let me go, get off me". She tried to get her blindfold off, but couldn't, and bawled in her yorkshire accent "Who the FOOK is she?!" In my general direction. You know how it is with bdsm.. there's play rape, which is different to real rape. But she really seemed like she didn't want it, so of course I did nothing, and she got untied.

I felt like a total whore all the while, just stood there in my skirt, stockings, and heels etc.. in front of this yelling woman.

She told us both where to get off, so we left the room and went down the stairs.

Just as I was leaving, the guy insisted on groping me, which was fair enough since we had arranged sexual activities. I just realized when he stuck his hand in my pants how old he probably was (ie more than old enough to be my dad).

So I just stood there still till he let me go.. which sounds like I'm a brat who only wants things her way, but I wanted the threesome so I'd not be intimidated by a way older guy on my own.

The whole thing was, the lady had wanted it, but panicked and changed her mind, because she usually only does that kind of thing when drunk, when her nerves are eased. I am pretty damn sure he TOLD her first what was happening!

And the moral of the story is, before doing anything like that, talk to all the people involved personally, don't just go through one person to arrange it all.

And of course be careful meeting people from teh intarwebz as we're always warned.

If I ever succeed in what I yesterday failed, I will post it. With pics if I can!

It's too bad that didn't work out. I must say though, I was very creeped out by the part about an older guy feeling you up, for some reason a 70 year old sprang to mind. If it had been me I don't think I would have let him touch me.

But I don't think you should give up, if this is what you're into. Goodluck finding a couple that works for you.

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

Thanks for the Ketchian wisdom, you're right.

I would much rather have arranged it with a woman.. but the reason I didn't this time was because she's a sub and I figured she just wanted her master to arrange it because she was shy. I was supposed to meet her first, but college got in the way.

I'll keep looking for kinky three-way action.

And hot lesbian sex!

Hot Lesbian Sex (.)(.)'s on (.)(.)'s Yay

quote:Originally posted by jewelie369:

I must say though, I was very creeped out by the part about an older guy feeling you up, for some reason a 70 year old sprang to mind. If it had been me I don't think I would have let him touch me.Well he claims to be only 35, which I don't think is old at all, but he looks so much older, and I get creepy vibes off him.. I think he's lying about his age to try not to freak me out too much.

Thanks for all the replies!

Unfortunately I have no friends into threesomes or free lovin'.. I always feel quite isolated in my desires.

:O Next time though, I know how to go about things properly. xx

quote:2. I'm a guy and would very much mind a MMF with a girflriend. YOU SEXIST PIG.

I said FFM, dummy

And Flock! Well... toraton and *I* like women! And we know you... ish... But we don't know you TOO much... O_o Maybe you should get the flock over to Seattle... lolz.

The impression I got from your occasional descriptions of yourself Flock is that you're tall and very lean. Is this true?

quote:Originally posted by KamiKaze:

And Flock! Well... toraton and *I* like women! And we know you... ish... But we don't know you TOO much... O_o Maybe you should get the flock over to Seattle... lolz.Pfft, if teleportation had been invented, I would have molested half of totse by now.

If I do some international travel, I will of course consider cities where totseans are residing!

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

The impression I got from your occasional descriptions of yourself Flock is that you're tall and very lean. Is this true?

I'm only 5'5", and sadly, rather on the skinny side. I do wear heels though :P and my legs tend to look elegantly long. But maybe I should hush, or I'll ruin my reputation as a sexy babe!



[This message has been edited by Flock (edited 02-27-2007).]

I kinda got a chubby from reading.

quote:Originally posted by Flock:



I'm only 5'5", and sadly, rather on the skinny side. I do wear heels though :P and my legs tend to look elegantly long. But maybe I should hush, or I'll ruin my reputation as a sexy babe!



That isn't bad!! I'm 5'2 and kind of round. Not fat, but healthy looking. I'd love to be taller and thin.

quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

That isn't bad!! I'm 5'2 and kind of round. Not fat, but healthy looking. I'd love to be taller and thin.

You always want what you don't have.. it's true for most people.

I'd LOVE to have actual real curves!

I like the look of girls who other people tend to call "chubby"(I prefer to think of it as "womanly").

Not that this would potentially help much if you don't have open friends, but I had a MFF threesome with an exboyfriend and a close female friend of mine. We drank a shitload at a party, decided we felt like having a threesome, went home and went at it. It was pretty awesome though we kind of ditched him at the end. Oh well.

I see that KamiKaze already posted here.

Anyway, Flock, you should always make sure that someone knows where you are, even if they don't approve. Always meet everyone involved in a public space and don't give them any of your personal information before you meet them, as you do not want to open yourself up to attack.

As for the threesome bits, I'm not sure how I would feel in the situation. On one hand, I could say that it would have to be someone we don't know. On the other hand, I could say that it would have to be a girl that Kambrie and I both grew to love. Regardless, I'm not sure I would feel jealous if Kam messed around with a girl, but I'm completely sure she'd be jealous/hurt if I messed around with the other girl at all.

No big deal. One woman in my life is enough.

quote:Originally posted by kappelpie:

I had a MFF threesome with an exboyfriend and a close female friend of mine. We drank a shitload at a party, decided we felt like having a threesome, went home and went at it. It was pretty awesome though we kind of ditched him at the end. Oh well. This kind of thing would be ideal for me, but it just doesn't happen! My friends are either straight, in loving relationships, or plain just don't want to do it.

And in reply to Toranton, my friends knew where I was going, and I'd already met the man. But you're right, I wish I had met them both first, as was the intended plan. I'll write this off as "learning from my mistake"!

MFF sounds boring. MMF seems more fun. but the guy would have to be at least vaguely bisexual otherwise it'd all be "OH MY GOD OR DICKS JUST TOUCHED EWW EWW EWW"

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

MFF sounds boring. MMF seems more fun. but the guy would have to be at least vaguely bisexual otherwise it'd all be "OH MY GOD OR DICKS JUST TOUCHED EWW EWW EWW"

very true...but what man doesnt want two women at once? I was asked by my gf to be in a threeseome (she wanted 2 guys) i was ok, but after i get you and another girl, she agreed...a week later we broke up, no threesome for me...

point is, it is really all what the person is comfortable with, me personally, me and another guy with a girl...idk, im not sure if id enjoy it at all...might be too akward...but im open enough to be willing to try...although i dont do the buttsecks (more or less a habbit from SG, but i figured i should clarify)

idk why i even started typing...its 3 AM and i have to be up in a few hours and im tired as hell...so if this has no relivance...just ignore it...

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

I would have molested half of totse by now.

*sings*

There's just something about you babe...

*yells*

SOMETHING THAT MAKES THE WALLS CATCH ON FIRE!!!

*whispers*

And sike out the dormitory rooms, with vigorous ghosts...

*talks*

And some other shit like that.

Stab, is that a complement?! :P