Long story short:

Earlier today, my younger sister ate my sub-sandwich that literally had my name on it. She continually ignored me and lied to my face when I asked her what had happened to my sandwich.

I finally went and told my dad that the sandwich disappeared. He looked in the fridge once and then asked my my sister, "where is your brother's sandwich?". She paused and finally said meekly, "in the trash...". A lecture from my pops followed and we found out that she ate it, but I couldn't help but think that she was hiding something. She had already had a huge sandwich of her own not much earlier. Two of these sandwiches is a huge amount of food for a person to eat! The way she lied and avoided questions was just so suspicious.

After the argument, I became microwaving some macaroni and my sister went into the bathroom. She turned on the vent/fan and I heard coughing and what sounded like vomit hitting the toilet's water. This could have just been her shitting, but the time between the sounds of the plop in the toilet and sink water running was just too short. Keep in mind that she is a high school cheerleader and is not fat, but borderline chubby.

So what should I do? I've already told my mom that I'm suspicious, but not certain, that she was making herself throw up. I'd rather not confront her about it since we don't get along too well anyway. Is there any way I can find out for sure?

[This message has been edited by Neptune (edited 02-25-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Neptune:

Long story short:

Earlier today, my younger sister ate my sub-sandwich that literally had my name on it. She continually ignored me and lied to my face when I asked her what had happened to my sandwich.

I finally went and told my dad that the sandwich disappeared. He looks in the fridge once and then asks my my sister, "where is your brother's sandwich?". She pauses and says meekly, "in the trash...". A lecture from my pops followed and we found out that she ate it, but I couldn't help but think that she was hiding something. She had already had a huge sandwich of her own not much earlier. Two of these sandwiches is a huge amount of food for a person to eat! The way she lied and avoided questions was just so suspicious.

After the argument, I became microwaving some macaroni and my sister went into the bathroom. She turned on the vent/fan and I heard coughing and what sounded like vomit hitting the toilet's water. This could have just been her shitting, but the time between the sounds of the plop in the toilet and sink water running was just too short. Keep in mind that she is a cheerleader and is not fat, but borderline chubby.

So what should I do? I've already told my mom that I'm suspicious, but not certain, that she was making herself throw up. I'd rather not confront her about it since we don't get along too well anyway. Is there any way I can find out for sure?

Please forgive me, but pics.

Other than that, you need to tell someone who can help. This could fuck her up good, yo.

You should cnfront her.

I've seen statistics and shockingly many girls actually die from eating disorders.

And if not her than someone at least.

Keep an eye on the situation, but take no action yet. You've reported it to your superiors, and such at this time, have performed your duty.

I hope it does work out, but there will be no quick fix. Be patient, and glad you caught onto it at all.

Move into the bedroom aka weekend camp out, you sleep in the tub. Or you could wait for your sister to binge then go hide in the bathtub waiting for her to come throw up and pop out and scare the shit out of her by saying something like "DEATH FLIES ON SWIFT WINGS FOR YOU!" With some convincing you should get the prep to stop doing bulimia cause its just plain stupid.

quote:Originally posted by Behexen:

"DEATH FLIES ON SWIFT WINGS FOR YOU!"

That sounds like the curse on King Tut's tomb.

It's none of your goddamn buisness, basically.



And if you snitch to your mum about such shit, you're scum.



If your sister is bulimic she's got enough to deal with without you making things worse for her.



Just forget about it. She'll get over it.



I would advise that you hide any food that you dont want mysteriously dissapearing in your room though.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I'm bulimic, myself actually.



Telling your mum would be the smartest thing to do.



You're sister has a serious problem and needs to get some help



Tell someone as soon as possible. She may be angry at you now, but she will thank you later.



Useless without pics!



fixed



[This message has been edited by SeventhSon (edited 02-25-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by SeventhSon:

fixed

Perfect. Get help yoyo

well if she did eat 2 of those huge subs then there is a pretty good chanced that she puked just cause she overate

quote:Originally posted by reborn thief:

well if she did eat 2 of those huge subs then there is a pretty good chanced that she puked just cause she overate

Mmm, that's a good point. Any other traces of bulimia?

Neptune, you are not the God of your sister.

You've done everything you can do by informing your parents of these suspicions.

Sit back, wait. See if you notice anything else, but don't take any actions; other than what you already have taken.

Shut up, yoyobek.

eating disorders are way deeper then just food. they are serious mental disorders, the food is just a symptom. there is something wrong with her mindset, shes not thinking straight, she could be looking in a mirror and see something that is totally unreal, and NO she wont get over it without help or being in a horrible situation. she could die or be fucked for life if it goes on any longer than what it is.



do something before she ends up in the hospital and you end up regretting.

quote:Originally posted by youngnastyman:

eating disorders are way deeper then just food. they are serious mental disorders, the food is just a symptom. there is something wrong with her mindset, shes not thinking straight, she could be looking in a mirror and see something that is totally unreal, and NO she wont get over it without help or being in a horrible situation. she could die or be fucked for life if it goes on any longer than what it is.



do something before she ends up in the hospital and you end up regretting.

QFMFT

yoyobek is the only person in here that you should listen to in any way shape or form.

punch her in the clit for eatin' your food

I think the same thing about my sister....but I don't give a shit.



Thats her problem, and her decision.

quote:Originally posted by reject:

Shut up, yoyobek.

Well if your not close then thats the first problem, you have to work on your friendship with your sister. Otherwise you'll force her (most likley) into a situation she doesnt want to be in.

quote:Originally posted by LostieDrunkard:

That sounds like the curse on King Tut's tomb.



Actually I got that from The Mummy

Not sure if its the same exact phrase but it has to do with swift wings.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

It's none of your goddamn buisness, basically.



And if you snitch to your mum about such shit, you're scum.



If your sister is bulimic she's got enough to deal with without you making things worse for her.



Just forget about it. She'll get over it.



I would advise that you hide any food that you dont want mysteriously dissapearing in your room though.





Lots of females die from this eating disorder cause they don't tell anybody about it and they never get help...and they die from it, I know this because a good mate of mine had a sister die from it.

Its practically the same as if your brother had an addiction to cocaine, would you snitch about it and save his life? Or would you just let him continue on doing it and get killed, or be put in prison for a long time?

Don't confront her, she'll chop your willy off.

My Dad calls me miss bulimic and makes "hilarious" jokes about it (i'm not bulimic) and if it wasn't for the fact that he'd beat the shit out of me, i'd total his car with a hockey stick. It's SO annoying.

mmmmmm ask Lauren2749 and just keep your ears opennn and see if you keep notcing weird stuff

She can read minds?

I dont know wtf everyone else is thinking, but unfortunately you've provided only one instance, which could be tons of things. Ranging from just having a stomach bug, to something serious, or even deadly. What other facts do you have to back up your claim?

If your claim is valid, yoyobek is the last person you need to listen to. http://www.webmd.com is the first. They have medical experts, and know what to do.

Borderline chubby...pics? Then put her on here and we can reassure her she's not fat.

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:



If your claim is valid, yoyobek is the last person you need to listen to.

Yoyo, shut the fuck up.

You probably shouldn't confront her, as that's just going to make her find better ways to hide it. You already voiced your concerns to your parents, there's nothing else you need to do.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Yoyo, shut the fuck up.



Neptune: If I were you, I'd eat some food and as soon as she goes to purge again, open up the bathroom door and go, "OH MY FUCKING GOD" and start puking on her.

Do this every single time.

Problem solved.

[This message has been edited by Rizzo in a box (edited 02-26-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

Neptune: If I were you, I'd eat some food and as soon as she goes to purge again, open up the bathroom door and go, "OH MY FUCKING GOD" and start puking on her.

Itd be more funny if it turns out she wasnt purging and just changing her tampon.

Dexedrine/Benzedrine...Meth...

Bulimic chicks are hot.

oooh wait

if your sister is anything like me

then she probably was really stoned and ate some mad food

but then took some opiates

and was like

oh fuck

BLEHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Thanks for all the advice and sorry for my late reply. I always forget to check on SA.

There was another little family fight last night about my sister. Basically she was whining loud and obnoxiously when the rest of my family was about ready for bed. After finally letting her have her way if she would just shut the fuck up, she immediately ran to the bathroom, turned on the vent I heard what sounded like crying/coughing. It seems that she almost always turns on the vent fan whenever she goes into the restroom. The most obvious speculation would be that the fan noise is to cover up what she doesn't want heard. I don't watch her eating habits closely but, my mom believes that she is overeating. I plan on just encouraging my mother to watch her more closely and also telling her what I observe.

As for pics. No. Not up to me.

[This message has been edited by Neptune (edited 03-05-2007).]

not for us but ... hide a video camera in the bathroom and see what she does. yeah there might be the times that she actually isn't puking but you can just skip that unless your a sick fuck but it would probably be one of the better things to do. just tell your parents that you are going to be hiding the camera in there so they know and wont get freaked out or some shit.

I would my sister if she even thought of stealing my sammich.

That aside though, ask her about it, and talk to her about it. And don't ask are you bulimic, that's fairly easy to lie about. Ask her if she's been throwing up her food (I know, you might think it's asking the same thing, but trust me, the words you use will trigger a different reaction in her). Depending on her reaction, you can either investigate further, or try and get her to talk to someone qualiifes to help her.

Well, they say that it is a thing girls do that like cutting is to have the gratification of having control over at least something in their powerless lives.

Then again? We all have to swallow so much shit in our lives...it must be a relief to think that you can throw up at least some of it. Which, if you think?

Would be a mighty powerful addiction...or do you like to be good li'l boykins & keep your gorge down?

[This message has been edited by moonmeister (edited 03-05-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Neptune:

She turned on the vent/fan and I heard coughing and what sounded like vomit hitting the toilet's water. This could have just been her shitting, but the time between the sounds of the plop in the toilet and sink water running was just too short.



i lawled hard

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

It's none of your goddamn buisness, basically.



And if you snitch to your mum about such shit, you're scum.



If your sister is bulimic she's got enough to deal with without you making things worse for her.



Just forget about it. She'll get over it.



I would advise that you hide any food that you dont want mysteriously dissapearing in your room though.



You are bulemic, no? Pretty damned defensive you are.

I agree, dont do anything. She will get over it IN A PINE BOX.

quote:Originally posted by Neptune:

Thanks for all the advice and sorry for my late reply. I always forget to check on SA.

There was another little family fight last night about my sister. Basically she was whining loud and obnoxiously when the rest of my family was about ready for bed. After finally letting her have her way if she would just shut the fuck up, she immediately ran to the bathroom, turned on the vent I heard what sounded like crying/coughing. It seems that she almost always turns on the vent fan whenever she goes into the restroom. The most obvious speculation would be that the fan noise is to cover up what she doesn't want heard. I don't watch her eating habits closely but, my mom believes that she is overeating. I plan on just encouraging my mother to watch her more closely and also telling her what I observe.

As for pics. No. Not up to me.



Get up in the fan and disconnect it. Then videotape er reaction to the fan not working.

She's been such a cunt lately, I'm starting to not care. Next time she throws a low blow insult at me, I'm using this. I hope it doesn't happen, but she says some fucking cruel things to me sometimes and I'm ready to attack her insecurities as well.

quote:Originally posted by reborn thief:

not for us but ... hide a video camera in the bathroom and see what she does. yeah there might be the times that she actually isn't puking but you can just skip that unless your a sick fuck but it would probably be one of the better things to do. just tell your parents that you are going to be hiding the camera in there so they know and wont get freaked out or some shit.

Sorry, but no. I don't want a memory of a video like that haunting me through my dreams and waking hours.

When you do say it, scream it as loud as you can. I think the utter shock of it might scare her out of doing it for a while.

Either that or massive lulz will ensue.

quote:Originally posted by ComradeAsh:

She can read minds?

Winner.

Bulimia is an effective way to lose weight. I whole-heartedly support it, along with cigarettes, amps, starvation, and yo-yo dieting. Shit, it works for models. Just give her a BMI chart so she knows what the safe limits of vomitting herself into pretty-ful perfection are...

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Bulimia is an effective way to lose weight. I whole-heartedly support it, along with cigarettes, amps, starvation, and yo-yo dieting. Shit, it works for models. Just give her a BMI chart so she knows what the safe limits of vomitting herself into pretty-ful perfection are...

And if she falls in love with a reconstructive dentist, she is a winnar.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

When you do say it, scream it as loud as you can. I think the utter shock of it might scare her out of doing it for a while.

Either that or massive lulz will ensue.

Massive lulz FTW!

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

And if she falls in love with a reconstructive dentist, she is a winnar.

I'm glad I sat my pop down before opening this thread up...I laughed and sneezed simultaneously at that.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:





lol. For some reason i know why you did that.