Chayna is nineteen and feels like she is wasting time. She works full time and lives with two of her friends. Her friends take advantage of her. They are always late with their rent/bills money, and they never clean. Most of the time Chayna and I cover their rent money. And I don't even live their but I know I've cleaned their house more than her two roommates. I don't clean it to help out her roommates, I do it solely to help Chayna out. She has really been having a hard time dealing with her roomates.

Info about us I'm 22 we've been dating extremely seriously for 3 months and we talked for like a month before that. We are very much in love.

So about a week ago her and I were talking and I asked her where she saw herself in 5 years. She realized that I was the only thing in her life that she was happy about. So she decided that we'd have a better relationship if she could be happier in her everyday life. So she decided to sort out her life alone for a while. Last night we broke up.

So why is it that girls will abandon the only thing in their lives that makes them happy while they fix everything else?

Perhaps the cycle of residential unhappiness is more reliable and controllable.

She sees you as a part of her negative life. She wants to make some changes and hopes that maybe you can be part of her positive life, some time in the unforeseen future.

I'd suggest talking to her about it further, if those feelings are there.