Alright... so ill break down my situation

ive been friends with this girl in 8th grade and recently came back into contact with her now via AIM (were in 11th grade) since catching up and talking lots over aim / phone we went on two "dates" going to the movies as friends and hanging out and what not

shes really attractive and i would classify myself as inshape/cute so thats all good and what not

heres the issue: we play flirt... like she'll just say things like "Hey, wanna come over ? " / "wanna fuck?" and i play along with it too

the thing is... i wish she would really be asking them. how do i make a move? do i? or do i wait? or what approach would be most wise...

she has a sour past of being used by her ex boyfriend and she made we aware of that and the reason she came to me is because she knows im a "good boy" in that sense

so totse, what should i do? id like to be closer with her... what should i do and even tho she jokes around like that, could it be possible she wants to be closer with me too?

-any advise / suggestions are appreciated

if she says 'wanna fuck' in a playful sarcastic manner, she wants to fuck. And you've been too much of a pussy to make any moves so far, so she's giving you a gentle nudge in the right direction.

The next time she says something like that, just do it. Try and start with something that's a little less, if you have the opportunity, but i mean...i think you've got a clear runway. Just do it.

Kiss her, see where it goes.

in my mind i was leaning torward what silentmind is talking about...

id appreciate more advise / insight / possibly past experiences that could help me?

She offered, jump on that!

Next time she's like "Wanna fuck?" be like "Seriously? Yes!"

Worked for me.

son -she wants to fuck you. She mind as well put a tattoo on her forehead saying "FUCK ME" and you'll probably still be unsure.

she's in 11th grade = she's horny all the time.

Can't you see you're driving down the lonely road to Friendzone LA?

Her attraction to you will die in a couple of months.

Women can sense feelings, and hesitation and doubt is very unattractive.

Just fuckng go for it.

And of course all of this advice is very easy to give over the internet I know.

Easier said than done but still.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

if she says 'wanna fuck' in a playful sarcastic manner, she wants to fuck.

quote:Originally posted by gator:

she's in 11th grade = she's horny all the time.

quote:Originally posted by Bean_Doodle:

Her attraction to you will die in a couple of months.

Women can sense feelings, and hesitation and doubt is very unattractive.

Just wanted to sum up the key points, since I have nothing to add that hasn't already been said.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Next time she's like "Wanna fuck?" be like "Seriously? Yes!"

Worked for me.

i did, once

she then said "ha, all guys are ez"

and i played it off pretty well and continued to be sarcastic w/ her (we just fool around with stupid shit like that)

neway... do you think shes just teasing or serious

What a fuckin idiot! She really is saying that, you asshole. Fuck her!

DOOOOOO HER

be like, alright i gotta know if your being serious cuz i just cant handle you fucking with me like that, your blue ballin me girl

only say that shit if ur serious or some variation of that thereof

well.. today we went drinking. it didn't go so well, she got fucked up and i got tipsy

i had to walk her home while trying to keep her from falling over

ill keep you guys posted lol

Don't be indecisive about it. Don't get her drunk first.

It was her idea to go drinking...lol

I wasnt going to use alcohol to get in her "panties"

neway, we have another date planned for tonight... ill see how it goes, if i notice more "hints" being dropped ill act on them and see whats up

update...

no progress to report in that area but we did have one hell of a time going to the mall today

bump, feel free to post any helpful feedback

I disagree with all of the advice given so far. Yes, its obvious she wants to fuck you for whatever reason.....but I don't think you should, if for no other reason than to save many folks alot of grief. If you do, I see one of 2 scenarios playing out....

1)You are just as much a stumbling fool in the bedroom as in everything else, and you completely embarass yourself in a sexual manner. Whether its having a tiny dick, cumming in 4 seconds, or farting on her while she is giving you head, or some other unpleasant scenario playing out. Because of this and your hesitancy she WILL dump you sooner than later, just putting your already tattered ego further down the road of Loserdom. At that point you will only get more reclusive and akward around women, making it harder to date. Finally you'll succumb to being a serial killer and leave a trail of innocent corpses in your path.

2)You are really a fag and this is why you are so aloof and mindless about this gal. You really are her true love, and about 7 years and 2 kids later you'll finally come out of the closet admitting you rather be sucking cock. She'll divorce you, take the kids with her...and when the kids' friends find out they have a cocksucking fag as a dad the word will get out. At that point the trauma they'll endure from the beatings and mocking they'll grow up with.....one of them will become a serial killer leaving a trail of innocent corpses in their path.

My solution for all of humanity?

Just block her AIM, and don't accept phone calls......PROBLEM SOLVED!

DaGuru, I'm thinking you were a little harsh on the man. Sure he has no idea when a girl is practically opening her legs for him but maybe hes not that bad.

If you guys make jokes about that stuff alot then just say to her "you wanna go to the movies and then go back to my place to fuck, or... just to my place to fuck?" then see how she reacts and decide if your gonna play it off as a joke or as if you were serious.

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daguru - you've been spending to much time in internet land. thats not how real life works , sorry

and yea... suicide mouse knows more about where its at

we just joke around about having sex / fucking / ect.

boomp

ne more helpful advice?

Possible scenario: It is just a ploy for attention?

She seems cool. I mean, if I were you i'd invite her to my house. Watch a movie in my room on my bed, slide under the covers and let the CUDDLING BEGIN!!! :o!

I think she might just be a tease

does she know you like her?

Just fucking kiss her you pillock. AGHHH She will get bored if you make no move.

KISS HER.

She sounds like a tease and an attention whore.

It must be freaking great to be able to drag a guy around and do whatever the fuck you want and know he'll be sitting there dribbling like a hungry dog, just waiting for you.