because you think she likes you back, but then get second thoughts because you think you are reading to much into it? I've been getting that lately and want to go out with her (with no high expectations on it lasting, just casual) but I'm not sure if she really does like me.

I mean I figured she does because she has dreams of making out and dating me, but seriously, it's probably a coincedence.

She gave me her numbers but maybe it's because she likes me as a friend.

Anyway to get over this? I'm probably gonna ask her out soon but I dunno if I really should or not.

you know what, you should just ask her out.. forget the over reading into it type stuff take responsibility for what you feel and ask her. if she doesnt like you back youve lost absoloutly nothing anyhow. You sound young, you might get disillusioned when a girl turns out to be a bitch.. just be ready to bounce back and tell yourself she obviously wasnt worth shit to you. Move on and find the real deal and hopefully many of the real deal if thats your thing.

The longer you wait the harder it'll get. Besides, if she rejects you now you don't lose too much.

Don't think, just do.

The whole "asking people out" instead of just doing the slow progression from friends to more than friends, just sets people up for failure.

It can happen both ways, one way, she says no.

The other way, you lean in for a kiss, and she leans away. At least with this way you can say you REALLY tried.

I had the same deal a few years back (1 or 2 I think). Actually I knew for a fact she liked me, and I really didn't mind the idea...

the only reason I kept putting it off was because everyone kept telling me I should ask her out and I'm a stubborn bastard so I held off for a good few weeks just to show them that I did because I wanted to, not because they told me to.

My two cents...

The one thing that separates losers from winners: Action.

You can meet a complete stranger and have her pants off in under 10 minutes without saying more than 3 sentences.

You get a bag of flour.

Paint your skin olive.

Find a woman, and say, "For Allah!", "Jihad!", then "Death to America!" and pour the flour on her. She'll be naked in seconds.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

The whole "asking people out" instead of just doing the slow progression from friends to more than friends, just sets people up for failure.

It can happen both ways, one way, she says no.

The other way, you lean in for a kiss, and she leans away. At least with this way you can say you REALLY tried.

QFT!

Just ask her out. You might get rejected, you might not. It's not even that bad. I asked out two chicks yesterday and got rejected. No big deal.

Yeah I did that. Turned out she had a boyfriend.

How the fuck do you know she's dreaming about you? Or are you just a metrosexual conceited fuck?

And about that tired thing... What a lame ass excuse.

dont do it.

If you do you'll look like a twat.

(first hand experience)

yeah dude, if you think about it, no one likes you

Yes theyre is reading too much into it..and its normally over somethign small and retarded. being given her number number means shes into you though (well 99%)...Go for it, dont look fucking back, I know im a hypocrite because i've never taken risks but you must do this. Dont end up regretting stuff...jump on the chance.

quote:Originally posted by trippydeath:

because you think she likes you back, but then get second thoughts because you think you are reading to much into it? I've been getting that lately and want to go out with her (with no high expectations on it lasting, just casual) but I'm not sure if she really does like me.

I mean I figured she does because she has dreams of making out and dating me, but seriously, it's probably a coincedence.

She gave me her numbers but maybe it's because she likes me as a friend.

Anyway to get over this? I'm probably gonna ask her out soon but I dunno if I really should or not.



Ask out,making out,sounds like a crazy preteen.

Yeah I get that a lot, but since it turns out that I'm right 9/10ths of the time I don't worry about it too much.

...wtf...

Dont ask a girl out because you think she likes you. Ask girls out that you like. If they say no, oh well. Move on to the next.

Yep. And I always kick myself for not doing it.

Message: Do it, even if it doesn't work, then atleast you made your play.

dont do it! the risks are too great

dude, its not gonna end well.

Asking girls out is easy, as long as what you're asking her to do is fun or takes no bother.

Add a smile and be sure to learn her name, while she is aware of yours. Keep it very casual and be open.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:



The other way, you lean in for a kiss, and she leans away. At least with this way you can say you REALLY tried.

true story.....

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

The one thing that separates losers from winners: Action.

You can meet a complete stranger and have her pants off in under 10 minutes without saying more than 3 sentences.

You get a bag of flour.

Paint your skin olive.

Find a woman, and say, "For Allah!", "Jihad!", then "Death to America!" and pour the flour on her. She'll be naked in seconds.

I already have an olive complexion and a bag of flour! SWEET!

The only way to truly know she likes you with out asking is if shes having sex dreams of you like you obviously are of her.



DAMN i gotta get laid again soon.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Don't think, just do.

QF-fucking-T

Just take a deep breath and do it.

From the signs, worst that happens is she says she wants just to be friends.

Just say you're not promising anything and things will go where they will, and don't give up.

don't listen to them man... its either your in or your out... you do not want to be friends with girls... your allying with the enemy man!

in order to truly find this chicks answers, is to tease her a little bit... like make sarcastic comments to her like for example... "oh you think im so hot, stop playing" ... and if she hits you on the shoulder man... your in, hits you on the face...maybe not.. but you have to keep on using your espionage skills to get answers...

NEVER directly ask a question... like "do you like me?" because she will think that you need her and your self esteem is too low for her... immediately.. :O your

"just friends" :O who woulda thought

and you cant say anything like "i want to see you again" or "i like you.." because thats a sound of desperation my friend

if you really have to say it.. say it like... "i sorta like you..."in a sarcastic tone.. or "your so cute when your angry"... haha

~note: this isn't being an asshole.. its being a funny jerk... thats where your supposed to be... a comedic jerk..

you got it?:O

Do it man, the worst that can happen is that she will just want to stay friends.

My current gf now we were great mates before we started going out, we would sit together for ages and just talk, so one day i decided to ask her out, she blushed nodded and said yes. And that was that we have been going out nilly 2 months now and things are all sweet.

Dont listen to the people on here that are saying no, sure things might be awkward for a while if she doesnt say yes, but that will past and then things will be back to normal..

"Just do it"

i have the same thing now. i was 100% sure she liked me, because she has told people, and she started talking to me and making strong eye contact. i was a day away from asking her out, and long story short, i over thought and now idk. for all i know now, she could be crazy about me still, or hate my guts and it's killing me.

i have a question, and i don't mean to hijack but i think it will help us both, OP.

that question is, how well should you know a girl before asking her out? i have had conversations with this girl about 6 times, proper ones so idk. considering you can pick someone up on the street and have coffee, i think it is time to ask her out...advice?

i dont think the coffee with stranger thing happens a great deal outside of something like sex and the city and when it does its awkward as hell/guy tryna pic up gets laughed at.

If your going to do it, dont for christs do the 14 yr old approach and be red and say nervously through chewed cuff 'wannagooutwithmesometime?'

If your going to ask her say at least...

'hey, do you want to get a coffee together sometime?'

If you are 14, just ask to go to the cinema but without chewing your cuffs =D

I need better internet connection.

Anyways I am going to ask her out. It doesn't even matter what happens because the thing isn't going to last long because I'm moving out of state to texas.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

The whole "asking people out" instead of just doing the slow progression from friends to more than friends, just sets people up for failure.

It can happen both ways, one way, she says no.

The other way, you lean in for a kiss, and she leans away. At least with this way you can say you REALLY tried.

I was just thinking the same thing. It's retarded to say "we're going out". It should be we're dating or we're seeing each other. Going out would mean you're going out to dinner or to a movie.

quote:Originally posted by Mojo Savage:

I had the same deal a few years back (1 or 2 I think). Actually I knew for a fact she liked me, and I really didn't mind the idea...

the only reason I kept putting it off was because everyone kept telling me I should ask her out and I'm a stubborn bastard so I held off for a good few weeks just to show them that I did because I wanted to, not because they told me to.

My two cents...

I tried that with pretty much the only girl that liked me and i liked back, and so I waited a little while, some other guy got in there and asked her out

quote:Originally posted by OrganizedChaos:

Originally posted by Mojo Savage:

I had the same deal a few years back (1 or 2 I think). Actually I knew for a fact she liked me, and I really didn't mind the idea...

the only reason I kept putting it off was because everyone kept telling me I should ask her out and I'm a stubborn bastard so I held off for a good few weeks just to show them that I did because I wanted to, not because they told me to.

My two cents...

I tried that with pretty much the only girl that liked me and i liked back, and so I waited a little while, some other guy got in there and asked her out

Early bird gets the worm.

Always assume the sale.