I got a question for girls here. Would you date a guy who is not skinny? Im not skinny, but not fat just chubby. I want a girl but dont really know if high school girls will date a guy whos not skinny. I'm pretty much a good guy (funny, confident,etc.) but a little on the chubby side. I want to know what the chances are before i go out and try to find someone.

my last boyfriend wasn't skinny. nor was he fat...

AND i'm in high school.

but then again i'm not a typical high school girl.



just emphasize your personality. if they don't like you for that, then do you really want to go out with them?

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

my last boyfriend wasn't skinny. nor was he fat...

AND i'm in high school.

but then again i'm not a typical high school girl.



just emphasize your personality. if they don't like you for that, then do you really want to go out with them?

how big was he and what do you mean you're not a typical high school girl?

by not a typical high school girl i mean i don't often go out with these guys all the other girls find attractive.



and the last guy was:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/dlufihe.jpg

*that's not me. that's his ex...

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

by not a typical high school girl i mean i don't often go out with these guys all the other girls find attractive.



and the last guy was:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/dlufihe.jpg (http: //img.phot obucket.co m/albums/v 239/OrliBl oomLover/p retty%20fa ll/dlufihe .jpg)

*that's not me. that's his ex...

im a little smaller i think.*

what all did you like about him?

quote:Originally posted by riddla on the roof:

I got a question for girls here. Would you date a guy who is not skinny? Im not skinny, but not fat just chubby. I want a girl but dont really know if high school girls will date a guy whos not skinny. I'm pretty much a good guy (funny, confident,etc.) but a little on the chubby side. I want to know what the chances are before i go out and try to find someone.



Just let them know your soft and cuddly.

Yes. If you have a good personality.

I figure people with good lucks can always get dates with superficial people. And people with good personality can always get dates too. I just feel sorry for the people who are ugly and have no personality.

quote:Originally posted by Siash:



Just let them know your soft and cuddly.

will do

I'd actually prefer a guy who is slightly chubby to one who is thin.

quote:Originally posted by xannex:

I'd actually prefer a guy who is slightly chubby to one who is thin.

I'm the same way.

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

but then again i'm not a typical high school girl.



No shit.. you're on toste.

one of the hottest girls i know goes out with a guy that isnt thin, hes a little less than chubby id say, but more than average

quote:Originally posted by riddla on the roof:

im a little smaller i think.*

what all did you like about him?

he had this amazing ability to make me laugh and gave the most amazing hugs EVER.

like. he was my teddy bear :P

quote:Originally posted by Neenjah:

No shit.. you're on toste.



haha. good point.

but also i'm a 15 year old who's pregnant with her rapist's baby. :|

lol slut

No, I wouldn't. Unless he had a cocky as hell personality. Men don't need to be skinny nor all that muscular, but they should be able to take care of themselves and fuck enough to stay fit.

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

but also i'm a 15 year old who's pregnant with her rapist's baby. :|

PWNED?

when my boyfriend and i first started going out in highschool, my friends...hell, HIS friends, referred to him as "pudgy." i never saw that, and there was many a shove towards anyone who did. he will willingly call his younger self fat, which usually results in me getting offended on his own behalf. so did i care? or even notice?

no.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

when my boyfriend and i first started going out in highschool, my friends...hell, HIS friends, referred to him as "pudgy." i never saw that, and there was many a shove towards anyone who did. he will willingly call his younger self fat, which usually results in me getting offended on his own behalf. so did i care? or even notice?

no.

I had to check your profile to make sure you're not from around here, because what you described sounds exactly like a couple I know.

Quit being such a superficial bitch.

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

haha. good point.

but also i'm a 15 year old who's pregnant with her rapist's baby. :|





Meh, sounds like every conversation with any highschool girl I've ever met.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

...the people who are ugly and have no personality...

Talking about me again?

im chubby... 5'9' / 160 lbs

and currently dating a girl who is 5'2'' and 99 pounds (skinny bitch)

so ya, its not all about height and weight

If a girl doesn't like you because your tubby the tugboat, you have two options.

One, forget that bitch. There are plenty of others out there who won't care, as has been evidenced above.

Two, do something about it. http://tinyurl.com/37g3ml

I went to high school and I never had a date.

But then again there were 30 people in my graduating class, so there wasn't much of a selection.

So based on the statistics I've collected, you have a 100% chance of not getting laid and developing a health threatening masturbation habit.

Seriously, I think I have carpal tunnel. I wish I was ambidextrous.



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quote:Originally posted by apocalipstick420:

No, I wouldn't. Unless he had a cocky as hell personality. Men don't need to be skinny nor all that muscular, but they should be able to take care of themselves and fuck enough to stay fit.

Wanna hook up?

Why does it matter?



I wont say that shit about "it's what inside that counts" because to an extent it's about physical attraction.

But you never said you were ugly, so I dont see the problem here.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

But you never said you were ugly, so I dont see the problem here.He already said he was fat, saying "ugly" is just redundant.

quote:Originally posted by robinhoody:

He already said he was fat, saying "ugly" is just redundant.[/QUOTE]

?

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

?Fat is ugly.

I'm being 100% completely honest when I tell you weight means absolutely nothing. I know a 400 pound guy who gets laid all the time. He's not rich either. It's all about confidence. Period. If you think of yourself as a lesser person because you're fat, you won't get girls. You are Jesus Christ himself, and anyone who doesn't see that isn't worth your time.

quote:Originally posted by robinhoody:

Fat is ugly.

Not necessarily. I know guys that are fat that have a handsome face, if they lost some weight and pumped some iron they would be magnificient. It all really depends on the culture and just at what point do you consider someone "fat".

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

by not a typical high school girl i mean i don't often go out with these guys all the other girls find attractive.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/dlufihe.jpg (http: //img.phot obucket.co m/albums/v 239/OrliBl oomLover/p retty%20fa ll/dlufihe .jpg)

*that's not me. that's his ex...

wow his ex is good looking...

oh and so i guess you wouldnt go out with a short guy after having seen that picture...

and the last guy looked tall to me..elaborate

5`9 167 pounds here, got myself a smoking skinny babe. I guess its because im pretty confident and funny.

not impossible my friend!

quote:Originally posted by Icepick Gag Reflex:

5`9 167 pounds here, got myself a smoking skinny babe. I guess its because im pretty confident and funny.

not impossible my friend!

HIGH FIVE!

I'm under the impression that being overweight does not carry the same amount of stigma for guys as it does for girls. I think looks are more important for girls than for guys. In addition, chubby (I'm assuming we're not talking Gustave fat) guys don't look as bad as fat girls.

should i post a pic of myself? you know to give ayll an idea of how i look?

http://i17.tinypic.com/48ghquf.jpg http://i1.tinypic.com/2yvrvwp.jpg http://i15.tinypic.com/29e3byd.gif

They have more shit to grab

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

I had to check your profile to make sure you're not from around here, because what you described sounds exactly like a couple I know.

nope. i am definitely 100%...not in australia. but that just goes to show, boys who think they're chubby usually aren't chubby. unless they are...which is an entirely different story.

quote:Originally posted by riddla on the roof:

http://i17.tinypic.com/48ghquf.jpg http://i1.tinypic.com/2yvrvwp.jpg http://i15.tinypic.com/29e3byd.gif

...where do you live?

Noone says it better than the Keithmeister. http://tinyurl.com/26pa2r

Men are turned on by what they see, women are turned on by what they hear.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

...where do you live?

cali

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quote:Originally posted by riddla on the roof:

http://i17.tinypic.com/48ghquf.jpg http://i1.tinypic.com/2yvrvwp.jpg http://i15.tinypic.com/29e3byd.gif

It looks like your clean cut and have some decent clothes to sport. The majority of women dig guys with a little sense of style in clothing. From your pics you dont look morbidly obese just a little chubby, with a little charm and confidence you can bag yourself a decent looking lady.

I also see your going for the "gangsta" type look, im not going to rag on it because I know first hand about young adults and the need to fit in places. But if you really want to up your hances with the ladies I suggest dropping the "OG" look. I found that with myself when I quit trying to fit in different catagories that the woman came to me easier, I guess because I appealed to all different types of ladies.

Edit: By the way I live in southern cali which is like 60 percent mexican so even though im white dosnt mean I dont know whats up =)

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quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

im chubby... 5'9' / 160 lbs

and currently dating a girl who is 5'2'' and 99 pounds (skinny bitch)

so ya, its not all about height and weight



this guy knows whats up!

I'm 5'10" 190lbs. I'm not fat but I'm in no way look like an A&F model. My gf is 5'4 104lbs" and is seriously the hottest girl I know, and is also one of the greatest persons that I've ever been met.

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^

I had this weird thing for skinny guys for awhile (I mean... deathly skinny.. lol) which I still have a weird thing for, but only to look at. They're really shit huggers.

My current boyfriend is chubby, and it's his hugs that sealed the deal on our relationship. Once he bear hugged me I never wanted to let go. Mmmmm... Point is, they do. Just don't aim for the fake plastic blonde girls and they're crowd. They're mostly shallow whores who need a good looking arm accessory.

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

No..I am homosapian. I only like women.

......

Most chubby guys can get hot girls, if their personality is good.

quote:Originally posted by Icepick Gag Reflex:

It looks like your clean cut and have some decent clothes to sport. The majority of women dig guys with a little sense of style in clothing. From your pics you dont look morbidly obese just a little chubby, with a little charm and confidence you can bag yourself a decent looking lady.

I also see your going for the "gangsta" type look, im not going to rag on it because I know first hand about young adults and the need to fit in places. But if you really want to up your hances with the ladies I suggest dropping the "OG" look. I found that with myself when I quit trying to fit in different catagories that the woman came to me easier, I guess because I appealed to all different types of ladies.

Edit: By the way I live in southern cali which is like 60 percent mexican so even though im white dosnt mean I dont know whats up =)



thanks a lot for that advice. oh and what do you mean by clean cut?

no prob man. Oh and clean cut as in you look like you take care of yourself, nice haircut, clean shaven, not infested with pimples. Which is a good thing!

quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

im chubby... 5'9' / 160 lbs

and currently dating a girl who is 5'2'' and 99 pounds (skinny bitch)

so ya, its not all about height and weight

I am similiar, i think I'm 5'10" or 5'11", I get called "Skinny" and shit. http://tinyurl.com/325ot9

You can't really see my face, but it's the most recent picture of me, about 3 days old. http://tinyurl.com/yv63al

There's me in August.

Those measurements are by no means 'Chubby', and we should have no trouble getting girls. I for one don't, but I am also fairly confident/arrogant.

I wouldn't date any guy. I can quite honestly say that it has nothing to do with body weight.

My little brother is fat. He is confident.. cocky. He gets cuties.

Just go for it, no point in letting your self-esteem get in the way.

If you get a hot chick, congrats, if you don't, you know a bit more about where you stand in this whole situation.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

I wouldn't date any guy. I can quite honestly say that it has nothing to do with body weight.

Me too baby