This is interesting to me. I have been with several girls who's favorite position is "Doggie" style.

To me this is just not a very intimate position. I always ask women "how can I please you", this is just sexual S.O.P. for me. If their favorite position is doggie style, I let'em have it.

It really does nothing for me, I only do it for them. I would much prefer a woman on top ride'n Clyde! Anyone have an explanation for why some women like it "doggie style"?

Oh my word...

How about...pleasure?

Why does there have to be some sort of "psychology" behind everything.

It's a power thing. She gets a kick out of presesenting and I get a kick out of drilling her from behind.

It's easier to masterbate at the same time.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Oh my word...

How about...pleasure?

Why does there have to be some sort of "psychology" behind everything.

I have asked them all and the said the same thing, "because it feels good". I am only asking the more advance posters if there is some deep seated psychological reason behind this. (No pun intended)

If the reason is "because it feels good", that's okay. I was just wondering if there was some psychological reason like rape or something is a women's childhood that promulgated this desire? That's all, nothing more!

Thanks for your post.

Please don't think of this post as being flaming, I'm just trying to give you legitimate answers to a sincere question.

Since in the doggy position you are able to go deeper and fuller in her, it could have something to do with the size of your dick. Perhaps you are small (or at the very least smaller than past lovers) and that is the only way she can really feel your thrusts.

Maybe you are just one ugly mug, and this way she doesn't have to stare at some neanderthal looking cretin that is attached to the dick that is pumping her.

Maybe you are a lousy kisser, and this way she doesn't have to have the moment ruined during some great banging by some awful kissing.

Or she could be into anal or spanking, and she is hopeful you do more with her ass thn a place to hold on as you are banging her from behind.

Or it could be just like everyone else said...that is her personal preference. My question is, why don't you just ask her?

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

I have asked them all and the said the same thing, "because it feels good". I am only asking the more advance posters if there is some deep seated psychological reason behind this. (No pun intended)

If the reason is "because it feels good", that's okay. I was just wondering if there was some psychological reason like rape or something is a women's childhood that promulgated this desire? That's all, nothing more!

Thanks for your post.



I am an "advance poster". [thus my response}

Nothing psychological on my part, although I don't care for it these days because it hurts my knees. So, I go for spooning at the same angle of penetration. Which is also good for clitoral stimulation by either partner.

But, some girls might like a feeling of domination. It depends on the girl...and her partner too (imo).

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Please don't think of this post as being flaming, I'm just trying to give you legitimate answers to a sincere question.

Since in the doggy position you are able to go deeper and fuller in her, it could have something to do with the size of your dick. Perhaps you are small (or at the very least smaller than past lovers) and that is the only way she can really feel your thrusts.

Maybe you are just one ugly mug, and this way she doesn't have to stare at some neanderthal looking cretin that is attached to the dick that is pumping her.

Maybe you are a lousy kisser, and this way she doesn't have to have the moment ruined during some great banging by some awful kissing.

Or she could be into anal or spanking, and she is hopeful you do more with her ass thn a place to hold on as you are banging her from behind.

Or it could be just like everyone else said...that is her personal preference. My question is, why don't you just ask her?

Lol way to destroy his self confidence.

its just nature/anatomy. just about all mammals do it in this style (except for marine life).

although missionary is considered the most fertile position, its only because of gravity. 'doggy' style actually allows for deeper penetration, thus a higher chance of conception as nature has designed.

notice the natural angle a man's penis has as well as a woman's vagina. a man's penis is angled slightly above horizontal when fully erect, while a woman's vagina is angled towards the back of her body, thus when penetrating from behind, the two angles match closely.

and last but not least, this position allows for the best stimulation of the g-spot. other face to face positions make for friction against the back wall of the vagina, while back to front positions, especially doggy style, create more friction against the front side of the vagina where the g-spot is. it could possibly be the angling as mentioned above as to the reasoning for the location of the g-spot in that location.

^ this is probably why those women are consciencely preferring doggy style.

Women like doggie style because they are caring people.

I mean, what other position lets you rest your beer on her back while you are going at it?

And if it is not tight enough in that hole.....(you know where I am going with this..).

Women who like doggie style are just being nice and acomodating....

EDIT:

Actually, now that I think about it, I think some women actually enjoy this position....

But it's more about the beer spillage.

[This message has been edited by chumpion (edited 02-21-2007).]

Girl's like guys with small wangs to fuck them from behind for better penetration.

My cock's pretty big, and some girls think I go too deep in doggy style. They usually like to spread missionary style and have me plow them with my johnson while I grab their ass and french kiss them.

You should get a cock extension. Available at porn shops and Chinese stores.

quote:Originally posted by lordsjohnson:

You should get a cock extension. Available at porn shops and Chinese stores.

So that's where you got yours. Don't lie now. Are they like breasts implants? Do they feel "natural" when you touch them?

Well...I'll never know. But, somehow, I think I'll live .

quote:Originally posted by lordsjohnson:

You should get a cock extension. Available at porn shops and Chinese stores.

You recomend any particular brands? Which ones do you use personally?

Can the girls tell, or do they think it is real?

I think your new name should be ladyjohnson after that admission from you....lol

quote:Originally posted by DeusFacticius:



this position allows for the best stimulation of the g-spot

I think that is why girls like it also. I like it because its easier to get in there and it's not as tiring as some other positions, but I also think it gets boring fast.

Deeper penatration.and when the guy has a huge fat dick,it's even better

deeper penetration from that angle.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



It's a power thing. She gets a kick out of presesenting and I get a kick out of drilling her from behind.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Or she could be into anal or spanking, and she is hopeful you do more with her ass thn a place to hold on as you are banging her from behind.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I am an "advance poster". [thus my response}

Nothing psychological on my part, although I don't care for it these days because it hurts my knees. So, I go for spooning at the same angle of penetration. Which is also good for clitoral stimulation by either partner.

But, some girls might like a feeling of domination. It depends on the girl...and her partner too (imo).



Have you considered investing in high quality knee pads? Like the gel ones tradesmen use?

Weird. I never felt submissive in this position at all. I tend to date very tall men, so it's kinda cool to have them standing while you are on all fours on the bed. I like it because it seems guys can really get their thrust on and the angle feels good.

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:

Weird. I never felt submissive in this position at all. I tend to date very tall men, so it's kinda cool to have them standing while you are on all fours on the bed. I like it because it seems guys can really get their thrust on and the angle feels good.

And we like spreading your buttcheecks and looking at your bootyhole, while your anal aroma rises up into our nostrils...

Deeper, tighter.

quote:Originally posted by lordsjohnson:

And we like spreading your buttcheecks and looking at your bootyhole, while your anal aroma rises up into our nostrils...

Just my bootyhole or the people's bootyhole in general?

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Have you considered investing in high quality knee pads? Like the gel ones tradesmen use?

Why spend the money when there is an alternative that works just as well, if not better. :P

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I am an "advance poster". [thus my response}







You are anything but "advanced" in any sense of the word. You're the worst kind of moron: one who is ignorant of their idiocy. Words such as "pleasure" and "anguish" are surface words, there are psychological reasons for why things are "pleasureable"...Thus, you didn't answer the OP's question at all and made yourself look retarded in the process.

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:



You are anything but "advanced" in any sense of the word. You're the worst kind of moron: one who is ignorant of their idiocy. Words such as "pleasure" and "anguish" are surface words, there are psychological reasons for why things are "pleasureable"...Thus, you didn't answer the OP's question at all and made yourself look retarded in the process.

Uh no, no she didn't. Are you intoxicated?

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:



...and made yourself look retarded in the process.

My point, SlapinFoFun, is that sometimes a banana is just a banana.

(Although, he did explain the basis of his questioning. But that post was either deleted by the Cptn or was disintegrated by one of totse's spasm's last night. She's been having quite of time of it lately.)

Oh, and just to enlighten you...the "advanced" comment was a joke about my age. [Thus, the attached smilie.]

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:



You are anything but "advanced" in any sense of the word. You're the worst kind of moron: one who is ignorant of their idiocy. Words such as "pleasure" and "anguish" are surface words, there are psychological reasons for why things are "pleasureable"...Thus, you didn't answer the OP's question at all and made yourself look retarded in the process.



oh dear, you're new around these parts, aren't you son?

Yes OC6, I deleted the post. Sorry if I left you hanging. After I posted my comment I had second thoughts about sharing my true personal life on Totse. I hope you understand.

Edit: Typo

[This message has been edited by CptnCrackHound (edited 02-21-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

Yes OC6, I deleted the post. Sorry if I left you hanging. After I posted my comment I had second thoughts about sharing my true personal life on Totse. I hope you understand.





Yes, I understand. I limit what I share as well.

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 02-21-2007).]

I don't really like doggy style, and I never found it to be very submissive. I feel uncomfortable being far away from the other person.

I could never orgasm from doggy style, due to lack of clit stimulation, lol.

I always thought girls saw it as a casual sex position.. you know, they don't want to get things too personal, so they go doggy style so they don't have to look at you.

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:

Just my bootyhole or the people's bootyhole in general?

The "ladie's" bootyhole - in general, yes.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

It's easier to masterbate at the same time.

lol mabe she lieks doggies

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

oh dear, you're new around these parts, aren't you son?

Nah, I think he's taking lessons from CarbonB.

Peace

quote:Originally posted by rideronthestorm:

The reason in this lies in the psychological aspects of the girl feeling humiliated by the sexual acts toward or against her. In doggy style, she does not have to "face" who or what is happening. Its very common in the type.



I was hoping to create a dialog of posts more similar to this.

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

I was hoping to create a dialog of posts more similar to this.



On totse???!!!!

You on drugs, boy?

quote:Originally posted by DeusFacticius:

its just nature/anatomy. just about all mammals do it in this style (except for marine life).

although missionary is considered the most fertile position, its only because of gravity. 'doggy' style actually allows for deeper penetration, thus a higher chance of conception as nature has designed.

notice the natural angle a man's penis has as well as a woman's vagina. a man's penis is angled slightly above horizontal when fully erect, while a woman's vagina is angled towards the back of her body, thus when penetrating from behind, the two angles match closely.

and last but not least, this position allows for the best stimulation of the g-spot. other face to face positions make for friction against the back wall of the vagina, while back to front positions, especially doggy style, create more friction against the front side of the vagina where the g-spot is. it could possibly be the angling as mentioned above as to the reasoning for the location of the g-spot in that location.

^ this is probably why those women are consciencely preferring doggy style.

Nailed it.

Way to go MoJo!

so we dont have to see your face

G-spot

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



oh dear, you're new around these parts, aren't you son?





Ok, second person to say this...so what's so special about this particular twat with legs?

It seems to be harder to keep from cumming for me in this position

G spot

QFT. I only recently figured this out.

Cheers,

Lost

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:



Ok, second person to say this...so what's so special about this particular twat with legs?

She's well respected and widely liked. Perhaps if you stopped being such a judgmental internet hardman you'd see that.

My girlfriend used to favor doggy style too. She said it was a rush, like the feeling of having your breath taken away, like she couldn't breath.

I used to love staring at her ass propped up in front of me, waiting for me to enter.

I think any sensual woman enjoys doggy style, it taps into their primal nature. A skittish girl couldn't reach that level of comfort, so I don't think she could open that part of her psyche, that animalistic, un-repressed, instinctive part of her mind.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:



Maybe you are just one ugly mug, and this way she doesn't have to stare at some neanderthal looking cretin that is attached to the dick that is pumping her.

Maybe you are a lousy kisser, and this way she doesn't have to have the moment ruined during some great banging by some awful kissing.



learned from personal experience eh? i bet a chick just flatout told you those things lol:P it seems kinda personal lol jk

...we like being banged?

sorry, psychological.

...since birth, we've known that one day we'd like being banged?

QFT

Truth, as told by a woman. Agreed.

quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

I don't really like doggy style, and I never found it to be very submissive. I feel uncomfortable being far away from the other person.

I could never orgasm from doggy style, due to lack of clit stimulation, lol.

SELF stimulation. That's what it's all about.

it could be psychological but the physiological reason is that it allows the penis to penetrate further filling the vagina thus contacting more nerves, and also the penis hangs down and pushes on the g-spot thanks to gravity...