so, last friday... i think it was a friday. anyway.

there was a concert thing here for some benefit thing. girl i have class with and have been hanging out with on some weekends asks me to sit at the russian club booth/table thing with her.

after the concert, there was a party for people involved. we went, drinking and fun times commenced. she started getting flirty and kind of touchy with me, but that was nothing new.

our only way back was the public transit, so we left before it stopped running. we managed to find the bus stop and get on the right one. she invited me to her apartment, so i went.

had a couple more shots of some better alcohol. went into her room, she told me to pick a movie to watch.

put on a movie and we got into her bed, she was quite touchy/feely.

after some time, she starts tickling me, i retaliate. get her hands pinned down, she kissed me. we started making out, moved on to a more than just making out.

she seemed to be enjoying things, but before anything too interesting happened she said she thought she was moving too fast.

then things kind of slowed. ended up just sleeping kind of...



we drink together most weekends with a russian club thing. shes invited me to sleep at her place before if i was too lazy to find a way back to my dorm, never really took any action on those invites.



does this seem like something to pursue any farther, either for just some fun times or maybe something a little more serious?

or was this just a one time thing?

some input on this would be helpful.

your retrospection may be favoring your ego a bit much or this girl really was putting the moves on you multiple times. then she goes to say things are going too fast, she seems like a 'tard. if a girl was being flirty and sexual (very subtly of course) and then it lead to nothing, i'd be pissed.

she's either a prude/tease or she wants you to be more aggressive and bone her.

find out which and act appropriately.

Personally I think she just wants you to formally date her before she gives up the sex.

That way she's not a "slut" etc.

quote:Originally posted by darksidez4:



i retaliate. get her hands pinned down,



This is when you rape her.

her "moving too fast" statement makes some amount of sense to me with what she has told me earlier.

both

quote:she's either a prude/tease or she wants you to be more aggressive and bone her

and

quote:she just wants you to formally date her before she gives up the sex

seem like fairly logical options to me, neither of which i would mind. i just cant figure out which one it is...

quote:Originally posted by indermaur:

This is when you rape her.

touchy subject with this one =/

[This message has been edited by darksidez4 (edited 02-20-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by darksidez4:



she just wants you to formally date her before she gives up the sex

Is the one that is less likely to lead to my afore mentioned suggestion. It is also the most likely to be true.

From the suggestions made, I say they are on the right track.

All that's left for me to ask is what do you want?

Do you want to pursue it?

Do you want something serious?

You gotta take the step into the void and see what's there.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

From the suggestions made, I say they are on the right track.

All that's left for me to ask is what do you want?

Do you want to pursue it?

Do you want something serious?

You gotta take the step into the void and see what's there.

i would like to pursue it, shes quite a cool person.

i would not be apposed something serious.

edit:arg@typo.

[This message has been edited by darksidez4 (edited 02-21-2007).]

The problem here is that she is afraid that you just want sex and not a serious compromise.

Girls always think a lot about that kind of stuff.

So yea, start dating her, show her that you are serious, then she will give you all the pussy you want.

You seem to have done all the right things, up until a certain point.

She tested you, you failed, and thats that. You may have another chance, you may not.

I am guessing she wanted you to take control, or at least slow down and get her more turned on before proceeding.

Or her beer goggles cleared up for a sec....;-)

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

She tested you, you failed, and thats that. You may have another chance, you may not.

I am guessing she wanted you to take control, or at least slow down and get her more turned on before proceeding.

shes had troubles with people in the past, so i thought it was something to do with that.

she brought me food in class yesterday 0_o