My boyfriends best friend turned 18 in december and my boyfriend had promised to take him to a strip club on his birthday, that being only if he was single. Well his birthday came and went, he decided not to go to the strip club since he was in a relationship with me and knew I would get upset, he promised me he wouldn't go. I told him as soon I turned 18 I wouldn't mind taking them both to a strip club myself. They liked the idea and were shocked at the fact that I was up for going too.

I trusted him not to go to the strip club, but one day he finally decided to tell me he already went to the strip club, got a few lap dances (which he didn't fail to mention he enjoyed alot) and he couldn't decide whether or not to tell me. I was so upset that he went, especially while promising that he wouldn't go to one without me. I forgave him eventually, but I don't know if i'm doing the right thing or not. I can't trust him now, whenever he is with his friend without me, he never picks up his calls or calls me back the rest of the night. It never used to be like that. It's hard to trust him, but I try. Am I doing the right thing? Should I even be upset about it?

Help.

Look its just a strip club. He wants to hangout with the guys. Its not like he is fucking a stripper. I go to them all the time with my platoon but I don't go after them.

Going to a strip club is not cheating. Best get used to it love.

Are you a troll?

If he wanted to go, all he had to to was tell me. He knows that. I wouldn't have cared as much. Since he told me he wouldn't, but then decided to sneak it, that made me upset.

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

If he wanted to go, all he had to to was tell me. He knows that. I wouldn't have cared as much. Since he told me he wouldn't, but then decided to sneak it, that made me upset.

But then he told you afterwards. You'd have more to worry about if he didn't tell you. Don't make a big deal out of it.

quote:Originally posted by Solid Squall:

But then he told you afterwards. You'd have more to worry about if he didn't tell you. Don't make a big deal out of it.

He didn't plan on telling me to begin with though. Who knows if he will next time he does something he knows will upset me.

Some girls don't mind this sort of thing, some do. Guys have to be fair by respecting how their gfs feel about it, otherwise they should just stay single. He did have the honesty in him to tell you about going there and getting a dance so give him that much. Make sure that he feels like he's able to tell you the truth about such, don't react too heavily. I'm sure that once you get a chance to check it out yourself, you'll see that it isn't really a big deal. His ignoring you while he's out with his guy friends is pretty lame though.

quote:Originally posted by Leduc:

Some girls don't mind this sort of thing, some do. Guys have to be fair by respecting how their gfs feel about it, otherwise they should just stay single.

So the man in a relationship has to give up anything he enjoys if his woman objects to it for any reason? You're nuts.

He wants to have some mindless fun and see some titties, big fucking deal. Goregasm, you're way too uptight.

quote:Originally posted by Soda_Can_Sniper:

So the man in a relationship has to give up anything he enjoys if his woman objects to it for any reason? You're nuts.

Obviously that's not what I said.

Basically when it comes to the enjoyment of watching other girls display themselves naked, good boyfriends need to consider how their s/o feels about. And likewise if girlfriends want to watch other dudes wave their penises around for entertainment.

He sounds dodgy. Him going to a strip club isn't a big deal. It's quite worrying though that he lied about it. But then he half redeemed him self by owning up to it. The worst thing, is that he doesn't answer/ring you back. THAT is a HUGE fucking deal in my books. It takes 5 seconds to pick up a phone, and 1 minute to assure your girlfriend you're behaving. If he can't do this, he's NOT worth your time.

Any way

Here's how I would have handled it in the past: Doubt everything he tells you, but still try your hardest to believe him. Only see the good in him, and be blind to the bad.

Here's how I would handle it these days: Cheat on him. Never tell him. So if he ever fucks you over and cheats on you/breaks promises/lies to you again, I could just think to my self "He fucked me over. But I fucked him over first, thus, I win"

Immaturity is good, give it a shot.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Going to a strip club is not cheating. .

Actually it is.

quote:Originally posted by Leduc:

Obviously that's not what I said.

Basically when it comes to the enjoyment of watching other girls display themselves naked, good boyfriends need to consider how their s/o feels about. And likewise if girlfriends want to watch other dudes wave their penises around for entertainment.



Definitely agree with you. Thanks.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Actually it is.

No it isn't.

How ever, getting a lap dance is cheating

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

He sounds dodgy. Him going to a strip club isn't a big deal. It's quite worrying though that he lied about it. But then he half redeemed him self by owning up to it. The worst thing, is that he doesn't answer/ring you back. THAT is a HUGE fucking deal in my books. It takes 5 seconds to pick up a phone, and 1 minute to assure your girlfriend you're behaving. If he can't do this, he's NOT worth your time.

Any way

Here's how I would have handled it in the past: Doubt everything he tells you, but still try your hardest to believe him. Only see the good in him, and be blind to the bad.

Here's how I would handle it these days: Cheat on him. Never tell him. So if he ever fucks you over and cheats on you/breaks promises/lies to you again, I could just think to my self "He fucked me over. But I fucked him over first, thus, I win"

Immaturity is good, give it a shot.

At times that seems like a good idea, but I really don't want to turn into that kind of person. If this was me in this situation a few months back, that's exactly what I would have done. I can't go and back myself up by trying to hurt the person I love.. it's not right.

But trying to contact him.. it upsets me, I don't know what to do about it. Every day now it just gets worse. He used to call me atleast at the end of the day, right before he went to bed. Now he doesn't even do that. I'll call him and he will answer and immediately say he will call me back, and then he doesn't. This happens almost always.

Should I just put on the 'i don't care' face on and stop calling/texting..etc. too?

My best friends ex bf started like this, going to the strip club isnt cheating but he lied about it. Then when he would go out he wouldnt pick up, he was still going and making up lies about where he had been. Then he started cheating, got another gf on the side etc.. I know its far fetched but its not the fact he went to the strippers, its the fact he lied and made up shifty stories.

Your boyfriend is a player. If you cant get his attention when hes with his boys you should do yourself a favor and leave him. You're already clearly secondary. If you want to take a relationship seriously you should at least know that you are at least sharing his higher respect, and if you're not and you keep on going you're a dumb cunt.

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

He used to call me atleast at the end of the day, right before he went to bed. Now he doesn't even do that. I'll call him and he will answer and immediately say he will call me back, and then he doesn't.

Okay, three possibilities I think as plausible.

First one: He's cheating on you.

Second one: He's losing interest in toy.

Third one: I did the same with my ex. After she fucked me over a few too many times, I just started being less interested. Do you fuck up a fair bit?

If so, I'm guessing the third one.

If not, I'm guessing he's cheating on you.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

No it isn't.

How ever, getting a lap dance is cheating



If he went there with the intent to watch naked women then yes its cheating (and yes I do count 'porn' as cheating too).

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quote:Originally posted by Soda_Can_Sniper:

So the man in a relationship has to give up anything he enjoys if his woman objects to it for any reason? You're nuts.

He wants to have some mindless fun and see some titties, big fucking deal. Goregasm, you're way too uptight.

So your saying that if your girlfriend went to a MALE strip club you'd have no problem with some guy waving their dick in her face and giving her a lap dance?

I don't know about you but I would kind of have a problem with my girlfriend wanting to go look at hot guys nude even if it is to be with the girls. Theres plenty of other things to do besides go look at someone naked BESIDES your girlfriend.

Strip clubs are not that fucking great, I don't see why a girl shouldn't be upset. Whats so differnt about going to a strip club to see some girl get naked then seeing any other girl naked? Except the girl gets paid to. But the principal of you wanting to see another girl naked besides your girlfriend is still there.

It's just a strip club.

You don't go there to fuck strippers, you go to get fucking drunk and watch women get naked. And there's nothing wrong with that.

Are all women such whiney fucking bitches about the dumbest of shit?

Get over yourself you whiney little bitch. There is no good reason for you to have told him he couldn't go in the first place. IMO by telling him no and putting him in a position where he had to choose between his friend and you, you were just asking for deceit on his part.

Quit being such a cunt about it and fucking grow up.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

(and yes I do count 'porn' as cheating too).

Then you and I have very different views.

I don't even know how many times i've been called a cunt and to grow up in here. It's kind of hypocritical...

For the guys who said it's no big deal, would you be somewhat bothered if your girlfriend went to see some guys whip out their dicks in front of their face and dance on them?

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Okay, three possibilities I think as plausible.

First one: He's cheating on you.

Second one: He's losing interest in toy.

Third one: I did the same with my ex. After she fucked me over a few too many times, I just started being less interested. Do you fuck up a fair bit?

If so, I'm guessing the third one.

If not, I'm guessing he's cheating on you.

I'm trying to see where I may have fucked up to make him lose interest in me, but I really can't think of anything major. I don't want to think that he's cheating on me though..

When we started dating, he completely lost interest in his friend, every single one of them. He would ignore their calls basically..what he's doing to me now. I didn't like the whole idea of him ignoring his friends, especially his best friend because I knew he was sad about it. I tried to figure out why he was doing that and tried to get him to keep in touch with his friends atleast. He didn't care too much about it. But then all of the sudden it just shifted around, i'm secondary now. At first I was glad to see him being more active with his friends, but after the ignoring ..I didn't know what to think.

I'm not sure what his deal is.

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

I don't even know how many times i've been called a cunt and to grow up in here. It's kind of hypocritical...

For the guys who said it's no big deal, would you be somewhat bothered if your girlfriend went to see some guys whip out their dicks in front of their face and dance on them?

I'm needlessly harsh to people, and if you were a cunt, I'd tell you. You're not.

Look, you're seriously over reacting about him visiting the strip club. Be more worried that he lied to you, that he doesn't answer your calls or ring you back. Something is wrong. Have a talk to him about it.

But yeah, going to a strip club IS just harmless fun. When you go for a lap dance that's when the line is crossed. That should bother you. But as some one said earlier, it was unfair of you to expect him to choose between you and his friends.

You need to be reasonable.

Now you asked if I'd be annoyed in a similar situation, little story for you:

Me and my girlfriend were going great. Clubbing a lot and our relationship was staying strong. Any way, a club we both frequented (we took turns, we never went at the same time) was having an event where ManPower (a traveling male strip group) went there. I knew they were there, I felt a bit weird about it, but nothing more. I'm reasonable. She sent me this photo over MSN:

http://tinyurl.com/2n5pkt <- That was her and the stripper. That night he took a fancy to her and gave her his number. Still, hugging a stripper for a photo, purely innocent.

I would always check the club's website because I was always in the photos. Well I looked, and I found this:

http://tinyurl.com/2octjz <- I got so pissed off. Kind of like you are. But it's irrational, because I realized it's just a kiss on the cheek. There's no REASON to get pissed off. It just causes fights. It's all in good humor and innocent fun.

Seeing those photos, more than anything, pissed me off because how much better looking the stripper is. Great body, etc. I felt like I wasn't enough. I'm assuming that's, even as much as you deny it, why it bothers you. Because you feel inferior due to him visiting such beautiful girls.

But you know what, my girlfriend came home, and sexed me up. That's what matters. Does he come back to you at the end of the day? Yeah. So he's obviously happy with you (providing he isn't cheating with his dodginess)

So the strippers isn't the issue. Trust me on that. Have a talk to him, ask him why he doesn't talk to you as much any more.

Do you think, if given the choice between the girls, and you, he'd choose you?

Hmmm, the last thing I guess I want to tell you is that there's no reason to be paranoid. Jealousy is a natural emotion, but you need to get over it.

(sorry if this was a crazy ramble, kind of...altered state of mind)

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 02-20-2007).]

You are what 18 years old ? im guessing so as your boyfriends best mate has just turned 18.



For men 18 is a big thing or is in England. Being able to legally drink and watch pornography and various other pleasures otherwise restricted to teenagers.

I don't condone what he has done at all i have been to strip clubs a few times (all of which times i was bladdered, i couldn't take it seriously if i were sober)

Now you have every right to give him an ultimatum in this situation it is entirely jutified in any adult relationship.

BUT ...

What you have to take into consideration is the fact that he and his friend are going through a phase in which they try to assert their masculinity in ways that they couldn't before . This is immature disrespectful and ... well pitiful but it doesn't mean he is trying to hurt you . Perhaps he is simply trying to act all tough in front of his friends.

This is similar to what young children do when they stop viewing their parents as the best things in the world and simply begin to think of them as "out of touch" and "un-cool"

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It is wrong . You cant take it back. He sounds too immature for you . Dont talk to totse about it talk to him ... then tell us nosey buggers lol

Good luck ...

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

For the guys who said it's no big deal, would you be somewhat bothered if your girlfriend went to see some guys whip out their dicks in front of their face and dance on them?

No.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

He sounds dodgy. Him going to a strip club isn't a big deal. It's quite worrying though that he lied about it.

QFT. The issue is more that he lied to you and went behind your back, more than the fact he went to a strip club.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

QFT. The issue is more that he lied to you and went behind your back, more than the fact he went to a strip club.

^^this.



It's not the stip club, it's the way he lied, broke a promise, and deceived you.

....And the strip club.



I'm very old fashioned. If my boyfriend found me so unsatisfying he had to pay a stranger to rub her cunt in his face, I'd find him a bit laughable and pathetic.

I'd also beat seven shades of shit out of the stipper, but that's just me..

I'm with you on this one.

If my girl did something behind my back that I'd previously told her makes me really uncomfortable, I'd be fucking fuming!

Find out what would make him really uncomfortable...Something as innocent as a strip club and go do it! Maybe a male strip club with your girlfriends!

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I'm very old fashioned. If my boyfriend found me so unsatisfying he had to pay a stranger to rub her cunt in his face, I'd find him a bit laughable and pathetic.

I think strib clubs are harmless fun, as long as he's not fondling her.

When I'm with a girl I'm loyal as hell, she's the only girl I want to touch...but definitely not the only girl i want to look at.

But this forum has shown me I'm a fucking weirdo, so..

[This message has been edited by rabbitweed (edited 02-20-2007).]

ApChemist, no, I wouldn't have a problem with my girlfriend going to a male or female strip club. It's just something to laugh at, knock a few drinks back, and get out of the house.

You guys act like it's a massage parlor with happy endings. There's no contact, and it's not 'cheating' either, so long as your partner knows where you are.

I'll concede a private dance is a bit much, but there's even bars that dance for you right on the floor. Hell, half the time you and your friends might meet a cool dancer that hangs around shootin' the shit for like an hour. It's a tittybar, leave your morals and cross at the door.

I still want to know why are his other friendships are suffering because you're uncomfortable, for whatever reason. That sounds pretty selfish, you're not his only obligation.

You guys are so uptight. Never thought I'd say that on Totse. He probably lied and didn't pick up his phone because he didn't want to justify every action he does to you, and I'd have done the same thing. I'd never cheat on my girl, but shit, I shouldn't have to have a GPS or leash on me.

But I guess I have more faith in my significant other, I won't mind her going out on the town with friends, as long as they're not all whores.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

He sounds dodgy. Him going to a strip club isn't a big deal. It's quite worrying though that he lied about it. But then he half redeemed him self by owning up to it. The worst thing, is that he doesn't answer/ring you back. THAT is a HUGE fucking deal in my books. It takes 5 seconds to pick up a phone, and 1 minute to assure your girlfriend you're behaving. If he can't do this, he's NOT worth your time.

Any way

Here's how I would have handled it in the past: Doubt everything he tells you, but still try your hardest to believe him. Only see the good in him, and be blind to the bad.

Here's how I would handle it these days: Cheat on him. Never tell him. So if he ever fucks you over and cheats on you/breaks promises/lies to you again, I could just think to my self "He fucked me over. But I fucked him over first, thus, I win"

Immaturity is good, give it a shot.

quote:At times that seems like a good idea, but I really don't want to turn into that kind of person. If this was me in this situation a few months back, that's exactly what I would have done. I can't go and back myself up by trying to hurt the person I love.. it's not right.

Your a cheater i spit on you, bitch

I didn't read the thread, but here is my opinion anyway.

I've never been to a strip club. I never saw the purpose, personally, but I understand that some guys just like to check out naked ladies with their friends. That's all fine and good when you're single, but doing it when you're in a relationship is a little disconcerting to me.

Maybe it's just me, and maybe I am a douchebag, but I always want to see my girlfriend. If she's not in the mood then I deal with it, but I don't go look at other girls instead.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:

I am a douchebag

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I'd also beat seven shades of shit out of the stipper, but that's just me..

How on earth would it be her fault?, thats so fucking stupid.

Fair enough you wouldnt want him to go, but if he didnt stay true to your word and went anyway you would have no right to waltz in and beat the shit out of the dancer in your rage.

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

How on earth would it be her fault?, thats so fucking stupid.

Fair enough you wouldnt want him to go, but if he didnt stay true to your word and went anyway you would have no right to waltz in and beat the shit out of the dancer in your rage.





Dancers are very fit. They'd be pretty strong.

Also, dancers are VERY connected. Bouncers, drug dealers, pimps, rich men, etc.

So seeing some one try it would be fucking hilarious. They'd be beat to death.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 02-20-2007).]

QFT

EDIT: It said 'arquin,' but I originally said it!

[This message has been edited by malaria (edited 02-20-2007).]

he is looking,not touching.what is the problem?

You cant take your boyfriend to a strip club...Sure, some girls do, but only a small percentage are actually liberal enough to pull it off.

You say it might be cool, but are you going to be okay with watching another girl smother him with her breasts? Or have him feel her up two feet away from you? Or are you going to make him too uncomfortable for him to even enjoy himself?

It's your choice. He sounds like a clod, but guys can be a clod sometimes.

Tell him how you're feeling about it. You're, without question, entitled to that.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

You cant take your boyfriend to a strip club...Sure, some girls do, but only a small percentage are actually liberal enough to pull it off.

You say it might be cool, but are you going to be okay with watching another girl smother him with her breasts? Or have him feel her up two feet away from you? Or are you going to make him too uncomfortable for him to even enjoy himself?

What kind of titty bars are you going to? Any ones ive heard of were HANDS OFF or get thrown out so I don't see how he could feel her up.

And I forgot to add that yes going to a titty bar ONCE say for 18th or 21st birthday for you or your friends is ok because its a celebration of turning 18/21 and doing something you couldnt do before. But if a guy regularly goes its kind of not good. I don't know about everyone else but with the girl im with now shes the only one I want to see naked and she is the only one I see naked. If I wanted to see other girls naked that would mean that my girlfriend is obviously not good enough to satisfy my sexual needs so I need to look at other girls. Maybe im just weird but really like Jacketech said if you go to a strip club with the intentions of getting lap dance or seeing hot naked women its kind of cheating not to a harshe degree but still.

^LOL

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

This happens almost always.

Should I just put on the 'i don't care' face on and stop calling/texting..etc. too?

It sounds to me like your relationship is pretty much over. I think you should stop "everything", but that's up to you.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

You cant take your boyfriend to a strip club...Sure, some girls do, but only a small percentage are actually liberal enough to pull it off.

You say it might be cool, but are you going to be okay with watching another girl smother him with her breasts? Or have him feel her up two feet away from you? Or are you going to make him too uncomfortable for him to even enjoy himself?

Honestly no, I wouldn't mind it because I know I can do the exact same thing to him and I know he would enjoy it much more. I have always wanted to go to one myself. I'm really into that kind of thing. Male strippers..definitely not my thing.

Anyways, what strip bar lets you "fondle" a chick? None that I have ever heard of.

My biggest concern is the fact that he didn't want to tell me at some point. He was the one that decided not to go to it because he didn't want to while being in a relationship with me. I never told him to chose between me and his friend.

I wouldn't be so concerned if he did tell me he was going in the first place. My boyfriend and I have a very easy going relationship, used to be very trusty.. I tried to buy him some hustelers at some point, but he refused. Now that this happened, it gives me a better reason to believe that he's just putting on a face for me.

The fact that he did go after telling me that he wasn't going to.. it upsets me.

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

I don't even know how many times i've been called a cunt and to grow up in here. It's kind of hypocritical...

For the guys who said it's no big deal, would you be somewhat bothered if your girlfriend went to see some guys whip out their dicks in front of their face and dance on them?

Is she fucking him no, its just interactive porn. As for not picking up the phone, how mny times did you call him. I don't always hear my phone or sometimes i am busy and can't pick up.

...are you guys serious about the hands off bit? I've never even heard of that. Where are you guys from? I live in Florida, just outside of Miami. Granted, I dont go to strip clubs all that often, but i've been to three seperate places, and all of them were hands on. The first time, I didnt know what to do, and she actually took my hands and guided them where she wanted them.

Depends on the place you go some place's do hands on. Now these are usually the grimiest places. You will notice most can be found around military bases. But you can't fuck them unless of course you make a deal in the back for how ever much. And thats just fucking a whore.

I wouldn't see getting a lapdance cheating.

I guess you people don't have very open/trusting relationships...

quote:Originally posted by A-dam:

I wouldn't see getting a lapdance cheating.

I guess you people don't have very open/trusting relationships...

No kidding. You would do the same thing if your girlfriend was turning 18, and you wanted to take her to the bar or something and some guys were hitting on you. Sure, he'd be mad, but he wouldn't be as angry unless you ended up fucking him and all.

arquin has a smoookin girlfriend

daaaaaamn

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

My boyfriends best friend turned 18 in december and my boyfriend had promised to take him to a strip club on his birthday, that being only if he was single. Well his birthday came and went, he decided not to go to the strip club since he was in a relationship with me and knew I would get upset, he promised me he wouldn't go. I told him as soon I turned 18 I wouldn't mind taking them both to a strip club myself. They liked the idea and were shocked at the fact that I was up for going too.

I trusted him not to go to the strip club, but one day he finally decided to tell me he already went to the strip club, got a few lap dances (which he didn't fail to mention he enjoyed alot) and he couldn't decide whether or not to tell me. I was so upset that he went, especially while promising that he wouldn't go to one without me. I forgave him eventually, but I don't know if i'm doing the right thing or not. I can't trust him now, whenever he is with his friend without me, he never picks up his calls or calls me back the rest of the night. It never used to be like that. It's hard to trust him, but I try. Am I doing the right thing? Should I even be upset about it?

Help.

Hell, No!, you shouldn't be upset! My G/F has taken me to strip clubs in Frisco and Vegas, and inevitably the chicks are all over her, I end up getting smashed, calling the stippers effin Lezbos, spending 3-grand and getting asked to leave!

Last time I was in Frisco, my G/F passed out, I went out on the balcony to have a cigar, dropped it (39 floors down) and decided I could find it! I made it to the street when a group of youngsters approached me with a giant bottle of Grey Goose! They said open your mouth and tilt you head; I was drunk so I did what they said. I got several nice shots of vodka (good thing it wasn't isopropyl alcohol); they even told me they had saw a cigar burning down the road! Next thing I know, it's 5am, and I'm 1/2 naked in my favoritge stip club (Broadway @ Montgomery, for those who know Frisco)! I'm drunker, out of money and wondering what the hell I'm doing there!

Moral of the story; Let your guy go to stip clubs! He'll learn soon enough they're a waste of money, and he wont get much anyway... Unless you're in Canada or outside the US!

it would bother me, but for the reasons arquin posted. i would just feel insecure because if she's a stripper, she's obviously way hotter than me. and...i don't know, just the jealousy thing kicks in. just the idea of him seeing another girl that turns him on, and the fact that i could never live up to that.

wait, this thread has been dead for awhile...

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

i would just feel insecure because if she's a stripper, she's obviously way hotter than me.

wait, this thread has been dead for awhile...

Yeah, way to bump.

I've seen some horrid strippers, so I don't think you should worry. They probably just have looser morals or shame, heh. From what I remember you're quite a looker.

no it wasn't me! it was the kid before me!

and i don't know how you remember what i look like, but shame on me for posting pictures.

[This message has been edited by YouLookFourteen (edited 02-28-2007).]

your a dumb bitch for getting mad. the reason your boyfriend lied is because you bitched at him for suggesting it . its your own fault. realize your 18 and he truely doesnt care about you. he will cheat especially if you try to control him you stupid bitch. your probably fat and ugly too and he needed to see a wome that wasnt a pig

[This message has been edited by drugsrbad (edited 02-28-2007).]

Been to a strip club once, don't think I'm ever going back.

The girls are disgusting.

A lot of the people there are disgusting.

And just the whole place is disgusting.

Real clubs are much better then strip clubs.

quote:Originally posted by Radical_Extreme:

arquin has a smoookin girlfriend

daaaaaamn

QFT

*edit*

She has a fat head.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 02-28-2007).]

Stripclubs are a gateway to cheating, lying and decepetion...

OP you are so naive. I personally wouldnt lie about it i beleive yo are being uptight

Why is this thread still going? Nobody gives a fuck anymore. If the OP is that pissed off then she should break up with him, otherwise just get teh fuck over it.