She appears to be quite active with her masturbating. I want to ask your advice. About 6 months ago I happened to walk past my daughter's bedroom late at night and heard a buzzing sound. I stopped and stood silently close to her door to try to figure out what it was, and soon I realized that she was probably masturbating with a vibrator. I have absolutely no sexual desires toward my daughter, but I was very surprised and somehow spellbound to just stand there listening to her. I could hear soft moans and occasionally more audible sounds that indicated she was orgasming. I was shocked and amazed at how long she went on; probably for close to an hour (with numerous apparent orgasms).

The next day when she went to school I stayed home to look around in the room, and eventually I found a box with several sexual aids behind a pile of sweaters in a closet. I was just stunned at how seriously she seemed to be experimenting with masturbation. The massager I had heard had several different attachments for clitoris massage. There were also several dildos of different shapes and sizes and various oils and lotions. But the most disturbing was a big pile of e-mail printouts, correspondence between her and a married man in his 40s in Canada. I spent some time going through this material, and the bottom line is that she had posted an ad for a sexual pen-pal a year ago and started an e-mail relationship with this guy. She writes about being constantly turned on and describes in detail how she masturbates and what her orgasms feel like. The guy encourages her to try new ways to make herself come stronger and more easily. It turns out he sent her all these things that she uses on herself. I got the impression that they guy is not really attempting to meet her, but who knows what it may yet turn into.

I am thinking about somehow approaching my daughter about her sexuality, but I haven't decided how to do that without disclosing that I know what she is up to. It would be nice to know what other people think about all this.

Sounds fucking hot.

Look, dude, you need to find another place to ask advice. Try a therapist. Your daughter is experiencing what's known as "projection" she's projecting herself into the role of a married woman, which is probably why she's seeing older men through the internet.

Or she's seriously fucked up. Sometimes a daughter with one parent can idolize her parents in a sexual manner, and try to find someone just like them.

...

THERAPY!

What the fuck? A 15 year old girl that sexually open ought to have a boyfriend, preferably one who her single parent met on Totse with a screen name referring to a fictional planet.

But seriously, you should probably just let it slide, but maybe keep a closer eye on your daughter. For example, how did she get these things in the mail? Do you let her accept strange packages no questions asked? Did she have him send it to a friend of hers?

Basically, try to get more involved with your daughter, and keep an eye on her in case things get any more weird.

Oh good, I guess she got my packages.

Troll.

Dildo fight ? .



I will edit the lightsaber noises in afterwards

EDIT: typo

[This message has been edited by inverted (edited 02-20-2007).]

Ok.

quote:Originally posted by robinhoody:

Oh good, I guess she got my packages.

Hehe.

Not much you can do mate. Keep your eye on it.

1) Pics

2) Secret cameras in her room, upload vids

3) Fuck her + 1 and 2

Approach her and let her know that your concerned about the married guy she's in contact with, but don't attempt to stop her from doing anything. If she wants to do it, she will do it no matter what.

quote:Originally posted by Goregasm:

Approach her and let her know that your concerned about the married guy she's in contact with, but don't attempt to stop her from doing anything. If she wants to do it, she will do it no matter what.

Not if she is locked up in the sex prison in the basement.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Not if she is locked up in the sex prison in the basement.

I like the way you think.

Why were you nosing through her stuff?!?!



And why the hell did you stand outside her door for near on a full hour listening to her masturbate!??



Now that's really fucking sick.

You had no right to snoop through her stuff, and allthough I can understand your concerns about her conversations with some guy online, you'd allready started snooping through her stuff before you even knew that she was doing something like that.



It's not like she was smoking drugs. You shouldnt have rummaged through her sex toys like she was doing something wrong. And if you really stood outside her room for that long listening to her, you are the one that needs therapy.



Anyway. I declair shennanigans on this. No way would a grown adult turn to an internet forum about something like that.

..I hope?

I can't see anything wrong with turning to an internet forum for help and advice, that's what they're there for...

It seems that your daughter is what's called...NORMAL...(except for the married paedophile bit, you need to do something about that.)

You won't stop her masturbating...ever...so don't worry yourself with that.

BUT doing what you did by snooping around her stuff is exactly what breaks down parent-daughter relationships, especially when you are a single parent.

1) Enquire - BUT DO NOT OPEN BEHIND HER BACK - as to what are in the packages she is having sent to the house.

2) Perhaps try and be subtle about bringing up what you know about her with her. Hint things like "internet paedophiles are bad..." (needs elaboration).

3) Be open about masturbation. Maybe talk with her about it as if you did not know that she was doing it? Saying that it's perfectly normal, nothing wrong with it and that it's actually healthy etc...

The main thing to worry about is the paedophile, like ive said. If it seems likely that she is trying to meet up with him THIS IS WHEN YOU STEP IN.

At this point You MUST confront her fully and openly about what you know.

It could save her being RAPED. It is worth the embarressment that it will cause both of you to talk about it, but do it.

However if this point is not reached do not worry, just pay close attention to her.

Three things that children want from their parents above all;

1) Be honest and truthful

2) Do NOT do any more sneaking around behind her back - seriously bad idea

3) To be let known that whatever mistake you make your parent/s will always be there for you, love you and take you back.

Good Luck

This troll is surprisingly effective, especially considering he has the word "troll" in his name.

Lol @ serious posts.

She will get so upset when you tell her you searched her room and read her emails.

keep us updated, troll

You're actually getting really good at writing these first-person recountings. You've made everyone forget that you're trolling.

I too am assuming your nick is apt.

However on the offchance that you are being straight up I'll give a serious reply.

Being a parent of teenagers myself I have to say my first thought was you need to take a sledge hammer to the computer, a belt to your daughter and put the bloke on crutches.

However on further thought:

If there isn't already then you should put a'fuck off and die lock' on your daughter's bedroom door that only she has the key for.

Then sit her down and say simply 'Here's $20 for fucks sake go buy yourself a vibe that doesn't make enough noise that the whole street knows what you are doing!'

While she's still reeling in embarrassed shock then go onto say. "The lock is so you know I won't be going through your room again. I found your dildo collection and his emails.

So I'm guessing you are adult enough now to have the privacy to explore your own sexuality etc."

And before she even has chance to respond finish off by saying:

" what or who you sleep with/wank for is your own business' I won't interfer but I am your Dad and want to protect you still. The guy is 'grooming' you, which is illegal, and you understand he wanks to the thought of you using his toys? He feels he is fucking you vicariously! Its a form of perversion, and he will probably 'up the ante' to pics of you penetrating yourself soon, remember that please"





[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 02-20-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

he will probably 'up the ante' to pics of you penetrating yourself soon, remember that pleaseOoh, that's a good idea.

Cave Troll, be on the lookout for this in my next randy letter to your daughter.

quote:Originally posted by robinhoody:

Originally posted by jackketch:

he will probably 'up the ante' to pics of you penetrating yourself soon, remember that pleaseOoh, that's a good idea.

Cave Troll, be on the lookout for this in my next randy letter to your daughter.

HA! Thank god all of robinhoody's emails are automatically forwarded to me!

I had the same problem with my dog when I was in Iraq... horny bitch.

i dunno i start wanking as soon as i could get it up lol



just some how track her e-mails with this dude

and watch whats going on if it gets serious tell her you know and so on



Good luck

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:



This is a forum called "Sex and Affection" not "Family Fucking Counseling". I suggest you google Dr. Laura, Dr. Phil or Oprah.

I hope this helps.

I suggest you STFU.

We understand 'affection' as covering the whole multi coloured spectrum of human relationships. Parent/Child relationships inculded (especially when they involve a sexual theme).

i think he ought to write lesbian stories for the erotica section. xD

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Parent/Child relationships inculded (especially when they involve a sexual theme).Well what would Totse be without sexual Parent/Child relationships?

[/QUOTE]Well what would Totse be without sexual Parent/Child relationships?[/QUOTE]

LEGAL

quote:Originally posted by H4T3:

Look, dude, you need to find another place to ask advice. Try a therapist. Your daughter is experiencing what's known as "projection" she's projecting herself into the role of a married woman, which is probably why she's seeing older men through the internet.

Or she's seriously fucked up. Sometimes a daughter with one parent can idolize her parents in a sexual manner, and try to find someone just like them.

...

THERAPY!

Your overreacting.

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quote:Originally posted by Solid Squall:

1) Pics

2) Secret cameras in her room, upload vids

3) Fuck her + 1 and 2

IM with you i say pics or bullshit

quote:Originally posted by m0ckturtle:

hi every1 im new!!!!!!! *holds up spork* my name is katy but u can call me t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!! lol...as u can see im very random!!!! thats why i came here, 2 meet random ppl like me ^_^... im 13 years old (im mature 4 my age tho!!) i like 2 watch invader zim w/ my girlfreind (im bi if u dont like it deal w/it) its our favorite tv show!!! bcuz its SOOOO random!!!! shes random 2 of course but i want 2 meet more random ppl =) like they say the more the merrier!!!! lol...neways i hope 2 make alot of freinds here so give me lots of commentses!!!!

DOOOOOMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <--- me bein random again ^_^ hehe...toodles!!!!!

love and waffles,

* ~t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m~*

Thanks for that.

quote:Originally posted by m0ckturtle:

hi every1 im new!!!!!!! *holds up spork* my name is katy but u can call me t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!! lol...as u can see im very random!!!! thats why i came here, 2 meet random ppl like me ^_^... im 13 years old (im mature 4 my age tho!!) i like 2 watch invader zim w/ my girlfreind (im bi if u dont like it deal w/it) its our favorite tv show!!! bcuz its SOOOO random!!!! shes random 2 of course but i want 2 meet more random ppl =) like they say the more the merrier!!!! lol...neways i hope 2 make alot of freinds here so give me lots of commentses!!!!

DOOOOOMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <--- me bein random again ^_^ hehe...toodles!!!!!

love and waffles,

* ~t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m~*

How depressing that that's a fairly accurate representation of a 13-year-old girl.

quote:Originally posted by Solid Squall:

1) Pics

2) Secret cameras in her room, upload vids

3) Fuck her + 1 and 2



Word

quote:Originally posted by m0ckturtle:

hi every1 im new!!!!!!! *holds up spork* my name is katy but u can call me t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!! lol...as u can see im very random!!!! thats why i came here, 2 meet random ppl like me ^_^... im 13 years old (im mature 4 my age tho!!) i like 2 watch invader zim w/ my girlfreind (im bi if u dont like it deal w/it) its our favorite tv show!!! bcuz its SOOOO random!!!! shes random 2 of course but i want 2 meet more random ppl =) like they say the more the merrier!!!! lol...neways i hope 2 make alot of freinds here so give me lots of commentses!!!!

DOOOOOMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <--- me bein random again ^_^ hehe...toodles!!!!!

love and waffles,

* ~t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m~*

Thats some tasty copypasta.

This thread is fucking awesome.

=CK=

quote:Originally posted by m0ckturtle:

hi every1 im new!!!!!!! *holds up spork* my name is katy but u can call me t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!! lol...as u can see im very random!!!! thats why i came here, 2 meet random ppl like me ^_^... im 13 years old (im mature 4 my age tho!!) i like 2 watch invader zim w/ my girlfreind (im bi if u dont like it deal w/it) its our favorite tv show!!! bcuz its SOOOO random!!!! shes random 2 of course but i want 2 meet more random ppl =) like they say the more the merrier!!!! lol...neways i hope 2 make alot of freinds here so give me lots of commentses!!!!

DOOOOOMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <--- me bein random again ^_^ hehe...toodles!!!!!

love and waffles,

* ~t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m~*

Hijacked.

and i agree with Ketch.

quote:Originally posted by Cave Troll:

She appears to be quite active with her masturbating. I want to ask your advice. About 6 months ago I happened to walk past my daughter's bedroom late at night and heard a buzzing sound. I stopped and stood silently close to her door to try to figure out what it was, and soon I realized that she was probably masturbating with a vibrator. I have absolutely no sexual desires toward my daughter, but I was very surprised and somehow spellbound to just stand there listening to her. I could hear soft moans and occasionally more audible sounds that indicated she was orgasming. I was shocked and amazed at how long she went on; probably for close to an hour (with numerous apparent orgasms).

Dude, weak.

quote:Originally posted by Solid Squall:

1) Pics

2) Secret cameras in her room, upload vids

3) Fuck her + 1 and 2

quote:Originally posted by m0ckturtle:

hi every1 im new!!!!!!! *holds up spork* my name is katy but u can call me t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!! lol...as u can see im very random!!!! thats why i came here, 2 meet random ppl like me ^_^... im 13 years old (im mature 4 my age tho!!) i like 2 watch invader zim w/ my girlfreind (im bi if u dont like it deal w/it) its our favorite tv show!!! bcuz its SOOOO random!!!! shes random 2 of course but i want 2 meet more random ppl =) like they say the more the merrier!!!! lol...neways i hope 2 make alot of freinds here so give me lots of commentses!!!!

DOOOOOMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <--- me bein random again ^_^ hehe...toodles!!!!!

love and waffles,

* ~t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m~*

the OP's daughter's girlfriend?

lol post pics of toys!

Dude,that bites.

But is &TOTSE the best place to inquire?

quote:Originally posted by Neenjah:

lol post pics of toys!

I was in her room that night her toys havent been used in a while i do make a buzzing sound while making love but beyond that im mostly silent[eg:how i got into her bedroom and also stole some of your pornos and liquor]thanks hombre.

Rape her!

Troll.

BTW, for everyone that said "hawt" for all you know she's 110kg and has disfiguringly bad acne and teeth.

quote:Originally posted by pianoSpleen:

Troll.

BTW, for everyone that said "hawt" for all you know she's 110kg and has disfiguringly bad acne and teeth.

and the problem is? *confused*

*opens bag of troll food*

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

How depressing that that's a fairly accurate representation of a 17-year-old girl.

Fixed, for my town at least.

-deus-

quote:Originally posted by moby_dick:

*opens bag of troll food*

*eats bag of troll food*

*waits with puppy dog eyes*