Ok, So both me and my girlfriend are virgins... hell she's never even masturbated, but have gotten intimateas of late. we both now want sex, but our foreplay and making out has lasted up to three hours, in between which i've gotten hard and soft alot. She also has some strong vaginal muscles, my finrgers we're actually clamped when she orgasmed and i couldn't take them out. This seems to be what i think is the problem, as i'm usually hard when we are ready to do it and i get the condom on and i try to push in and i pretty much can't. I'm unsure as of what is the real problem because out of the couple times we tried, i wasn't hard enough to push in, it felt like it wasn't going in right, and the last time i popped early before we even started i'm at a loss at what i can do. I have very little experience in the art of lovemaking and no experience with intercourse so i can't tell if it's a problem with me, a problem with her, or a little of both. any help would be appreciated

I usually don't post things this helpful, but I can really take pitty on your whole situation man, so I'll give you some guidance, for free even .

Anyways, stay in school. Don't do drugs. Learn how to write. Learn how to express whatever ideas you have bouncing around in your head, with proper grammar, punctuation, and complete sentences.

Try some lube. And just push.

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I usually don't post things this helpful, but I can really take pitty on your whole situation man, so I'll give you some guidance, for free even .

Anyways, stay in school. Don't do drugs. Learn how to write. Learn how to express whatever ideas you have bouncing around in your head, with proper grammar, punctuation, and complete sentences.

^ that and just relax braahh. You're most likely nervous. Chill out, its just pussy. I can gurantee that its not what you expected anyways. And dont just push it in unless you want her to yelp in pain.

[This message has been edited by xRadical_Wankerx (edited 02-22-2007).]