So, I left her. I told her I didn't want her to mention the idiot's name around me.

A bit of background: This guy, first of all, is her ex's fucking BROTHER. She talks about him nonstop. He smokes weed like a chimney and is a complete loser who lives in government-subsidised housing. 22 years old, no car, no license. She's a recovering addict so you can probably see why I don't want her aroudn this asshole.

She told me today she was sick of me hating on him, so I told her this: I'm not gonna stop, so choose right now. It's either you hang with him and shut the hell up about him to me, or I'm leaving you.

She told me she didn't want to stop mentioning him all the time and interrupting my phone calls to her when he calls the other line.

So there you have it guys, bitches like loser potheads more than loving boyfriends.

I hope you all get raped.

PWNED and condolences.

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

PWNED and condolences.



Joke's kind of on her. I have this female friend of mine she hated to death cause she was basically a bar slut. I'm gonna fuck her this weekend. Just for spite.

she sees you ass trying to control her, let her do what the fuck it is she wants to do. she wants "danger" in her life, bu only a bit and this guy is "living" on the edge, which i bet is 100% different then you.

what you need to realize is that as long as she comes back to you, there should be no reason for you to give a shit who she chills with. i am best buddies with my best friends girl friend, she'll answer the phone when i call even when she is with/talking with him. girls do that kinda thing to make you jealous.

quote:Originally posted by shrek45:

she sees you ass trying to control her, let her do what the fuck it is she wants to do. she wants "danger" in her life, bu only a bit and this guy is "living" on the edge, which i bet is 100% different then you.

what you need to realize is that as long as she comes back to you, there should be no reason for you to give a shit who she chills with. i am best buddies with my best friends girl friend, she'll answer the phone when i call even when she is with/talking with him. girls do that kinda thing to make you jealous.



I'm a really, REALLY jealous person. I can't fucking handle it. And she knows this.

"So there you have it guys, bitches like loser potheads more than loving boyfriends.

I hope you all get raped."

HAHAHA! You want to know one of the reasons why she doesn't give a fuck about you? Try the last two sentences of your post dipshit. Not only are you a whiny little faggot, but you throw temper tantrums like a drunk drag queen. You must really suck if she would rather hang out with a total loser than you. I mean REALLY suck. It's one thing if the bitch just didn't want to be with you anymore or thinks your cock smells bad. But to take HIS call while you are crying on the phone about your feelings to her? HAHAHHA! Oh that is some funny shit. Yeah don't change. Don't realize that no one puts up with controlling bullshit forever and you sticking your lower lip out and having a self pity jerkoff is so damn fucking unattracitve, that no decent human is going to want to be with you.

Hold on a moment...I'm going to call all my female friends, co-workers, and relatives and read your post to them. So that even more women can laugh at you right now, besides your girlfriend.

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:

"So there you have it guys, bitches like loser potheads more than loving boyfriends.

I hope you all get raped."

HAHAHA! You want to know one of the reasons why she doesn't give a fuck about you? Try the last two sentences of your post dipshit. Not only are you a whiny little faggot, but you throw temper tantrums like a drunk drag queen. You must really suck if she would rather hang out with a total loser than you. I mean REALLY suck. It's one thing if the bitch just didn't want to be with you anymore or thinks your cock smells bad. But to take HIS call while you are crying on the phone about your feelings to her? HAHAHHA! Oh that is some funny shit. Yeah don't change. Don't realize that no one puts up with controlling bullshit forever and you sticking your lower lip out and having a self pity jerkoff is so damn fucking unattracitve, that no decent human is going to want to be with you.

Hold on a moment...I'm going to call all my female friends, co-workers, and relatives and read your post to them. So that even more women can laugh at you right now, besides your girlfriend.



That was funny.

Good. I mostly did it for lulz. Now go smoke a bowl and find a better bitch.

It seems as though he was only asking the girl to stop TALKING about this guy not to completly stop hanging out with him. Id say thats a very resonable request. I wouldn't care if my girlfriend hung out with guy friends but if she always talked about a particular guy to me all the time id tell her to shut the fuck up about him or find someone else to date. I mean im not that jealous but if my girlfriend was always talking about some otherguy and taking his calls over mine id be a bit suspicious she was fucking him and wanted his nuts over mine.

But still your a whiney bitch, and hope you get an std from the bar slut your going to bang. Way to get back at your girlfriend go get an std that willg et back at her.

You did the right thing, respect

ya, my roommate is in a comparable situation...i keep telling him to leave the ungrateful, disrespectful bitch....but won't, because he's in "Love", and he just knows that she will change eventually and come to be the responsible girl he deserves.....ya fucking right....sometimes, as much as it hurts, you have to do yourself a favor and make a clean break....

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

It seems as though he was only asking the girl to stop TALKING about this guy not to completly stop hanging out with him. Id say thats a very resonable request. I wouldn't care if my girlfriend hung out with guy friends but if she always talked about a particular guy to me all the time id tell her to shut the fuck up about him or find someone else to date. I mean im not that jealous but if my girlfriend was always talking about some otherguy and taking his calls over mine id be a bit suspicious she was fucking him and wanted his nuts over mine.

But still your a whiney bitch, and hope you get an std from the bar slut your going to bang. Way to get back at your girlfriend go get an std that willg et back at her.



Getting an STD won't get back at her, but fucking a girl she hated to death and was convinced I was only friends with because she was hot, now that is good revenge.

ZOMG TELL THE CRAK HORE TO SPEEK TO FRANK!!1

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

So, I left her. I told her I didn't want her to mention the idiot's name around me.

A bit of background: This guy, first of all, is her ex's fucking BROTHER. She talks about him nonstop. He smokes weed like a chimney and is a complete loser who lives in government-subsidised housing. 22 years old, no car, no license. She's a recovering addict so you can probably see why I don't want her aroudn this asshole.

She told me today she was sick of me hating on him, so I told her this: I'm not gonna stop, so choose right now. It's either you hang with him and shut the hell up about him to me, or I'm leaving you.

She told me she didn't want to stop mentioning him all the time and interrupting my phone calls to her when he calls the other line.

So there you have it guys, bitches like loser potheads more than loving boyfriends.

I hope you all get raped.

you're a fucking dumbass.

That guy sounds like a far better person than you.

OMG HE HAS NO CAR WHAT A LUTZER!

it sounds like this guy has more personality and character than you, and doesnt stereotype or bitch about people soley on substances they choose to ingest.

I hope that guy fucks your girl.

you sound like a pathetic fuck "loving boyfriend"?

You're a fucking asshole, if you love someone, and i mean really love them you actually want them to be happy, you dont just say it and then bullshit them with aload of things you think will make you happy.

go fucking kill yourself you piece of shit.

quote:Originally posted by -Mephisto-:

you're a fucking dumbass.

That guy sounds like a far better person than you.

OMG HE HAS NO CAR WHAT A LUTZER!

it sounds like this guy has more personality and character than you, and doesnt stereotype or bitch about people soley on substances they choose to ingest.

I hope that guy fucks your girl.

you sound like a pathetic fuck "loving boyfriend"?

You're a fucking asshole, if you love someone, and i mean really love them you actually want them to be happy, you dont just say it and then bullshit them with aload of things you think will make you happy.

go fucking kill yourself you piece of shit.



You obviously have never had a girlfriend.

And he can fuck her all he wants, she ain't mine anymore. He can fuck her with a broom handle and a hot curling iron for all I care.

I try not to flame people, but you're a fucking douchebag. In case you haven't noticed, girls HATE controlling, jealous pricks.

A loving boyfriend can be quite a pest.

Over controlling, Over worried ect. (Dare I say over expressive/enthusiastic? Its a total turn off for me)

I'd choose a potheaded friend over a boy who thinks he owns me. (And really, whats wrong with potheads? They can be the nicest, most theraputic people on the plannet.)

I'm not a relationship person though.

Being single is more fun.

quote:Originally posted by PurplePuppy:

A loving boyfriend can be quite a pest.

Over controlling, Over worried ect. (Dare I say over expressive/enthusiastic? Its a total turn off for me)

I'd choose a potheaded friend over a boy who thinks he owns me. (And really, whats wrong with potheads? They can be the nicest, most theraputic people on the plannet.)

I'm not a relationship person though.

Being single is more fun.



Therapeutic? You call staying up until 3:30AM and ordering cheap pizza and watching videos on collegehumor.com therapeutic?

quote:Originally posted by -Mephisto-:

you're a fucking dumbass.

That guy sounds like a far better person than you.

OMG HE HAS NO CAR WHAT A LUTZER!

it sounds like this guy has more personality and character than you, and doesnt stereotype or bitch about people soley on substances they choose to ingest.

I hope that guy fucks your girl.

you sound like a pathetic fuck "loving boyfriend"?

You're a fucking asshole, if you love someone, and i mean really love them you actually want them to be happy, you dont just say it and then bullshit them with aload of things you think will make you happy.

go fucking kill yourself you piece of shit.

So says the other poor man...

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



Therapeutic? You call staying up until 3:30AM and ordering cheap pizza and watching videos on collegehumor.com therapeutic?



Sounds better then going to bed at a resaonable hour because you have work the next day. Nothing wrong with smoking pot, I mean stoners do suck in my opinion because there are much more things out there way better then drugs but yea. Also what was your ex in rehab for?

Obviously you do care if she gets fucked otherwise you wouldn't be bitching about how her stoner friend got picked over you would you fucking moron.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

It seems as though he was only asking the girl to stop TALKING about this guy not to completly stop hanging out with him. Id say thats a very resonable request. I wouldn't care if my girlfriend hung out with guy friends but if she always talked about a particular guy to me all the time id tell her to shut the fuck up about him or find someone else to date. I mean im not that jealous but if my girlfriend was always talking about some otherguy and taking his calls over mine id be a bit suspicious she was fucking him and wanted his nuts over mine.

But still your a whiney bitch, and hope you get an std from the bar slut your going to bang. Way to get back at your girlfriend go get an std that willg et back at her.

Yeah you were very reasonable with your request, if she cant try and shut her mouth when around you then obviously she doesnt give two craps about anybody but herself. If she knows you are a jealous person she should have tried to make you feel at ease about him, not flaunt him in your face and make you feel insecure. OH WELL, shes probably gonna come crawling back after a few months of this loser... when she does DONT TAKE HER BACK!...

Slam the door in her face, thats what u get BITCH.

Wow reading this, I'm realizing that I too must be a "whiny little bitch".

One thing I've noticed about all dumb bitches is that they seem to think that babbling non-stop about other guys that they think are 'cool' around their bf's (or guys they like) is a jealousy-driven seduction technique. OP is the man for tossing her. Those of you who are trying to throw him into the "controlling bf" category are obviously the pathetic doormatt types, u can all pss off while your girls get nailed by some other fuck

i dont see why you people are hating on chronos139, i agree with him on his views. i'm the jealous type too, and my route, in that given situation, would also lead to the girl having an ultimatum.

she seems cunty. i hate how a girl can act like a heartless inconsiderate bitch-goddess and NOT be seen as a cunt just because it's the norm of so many women.

why not be jealous and why not be selfish, you know no one else in this world gives a shit about you. you have to live for yourself and your own enjoyment, might as well get as much as you can for yourself.

quote:Those of you who are trying to throw him into the "controlling bf" category are obviously the pathetic doormatt types, u can all pss off while your girls get nailed by some other fuck

seriously. as magnolia put it "it's not what you need, it's not what you deserve, it's what you TAKE".

it's fucking idiotic NOT to be selfish when everyone else is, especially when your significant other is. why not be the MORE manipulative and controlling one??

+1 for jealousy and essentially coming out on top of the situation

You can choose your own friends, but you can't choose other people's. It doesn't seem like this guy was hurting your girl in any way, which WOULD be grounds for you to tell her to end the friendship. If you can't handle your girlfriend being friends with someone just because you personally don't like him, then you're a selfish prick.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



Therapeutic? You call staying up until 3:30AM and ordering cheap pizza and watching videos on collegehumor.com therapeutic?

Personally I prefer staying up until 5:00 am and ordering cheap Chinese food and watching videos on YouTube.com, but that's just me.

Fuck her. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, and you're definitely above him. If those are the kinds of choices she wants to make with her life then she can do it alone. You can do better.

Good luck.

quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

Personally I prefer staying up until 5:00 am and ordering cheap Chinese food and watching videos on YouTube.com, but that's just me.

i wish chinese places around me stayed open at 5am...even midnight would be nice.

quote:Originally posted by chickenpoop:

i wish chinese places around me stayed open at 5am...even midnight would be nice.

I second that ... shit nothing is ever open past 10 pm here

Made the right choice mate.

She'll probably come crawling back in a couple months...They usually do.

So much better if you're doing well for yourself and she's not...makes the burn worse!

Didn't read all the replies but to the OP, just dump that trash bitch she will probably end up being some scabby pot head with 5 kids and 5 ex's. She will either sell drugs or just bum off the goverment. DUMP HER

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:



HAHAHA! You want to know one of the reasons why she doesn't give a fuck about you? Try the last two sentences of your post dipshit. Not only are you a whiny little faggot, but you throw temper tantrums like a drunk drag queen. You must really suck if she would rather hang out with a total loser than you. I mean REALLY suck. It's one thing if the bitch just didn't want to be with you anymore or thinks your cock smells bad. But to take HIS call while you are crying on the phone about your feelings to her? HAHAHHA! Oh that is some funny shit. Yeah don't change. Don't realize that no one puts up with controlling bullshit forever and you sticking your lower lip out and having a self pity jerkoff is so damn fucking unattracitve, that no decent human is going to want to be with you.

Hold on a moment...I'm going to call all my female friends, co-workers, and relatives and read your post to them. So that even more women can laugh at you right now, besides your girlfriend.



QFMFT!

OP, you are a profound loser on many levels. First off, you critiquing the stoner dude's life is pretty comical. How about coming back to us and describe us YOUR situation? Please note, if you tell us anything about still living with Mommy and Daddy, driving a car they bought for you, or living off any kind of money they provide you....then we are just going to LOL at you that much harder.

And you anti-drug goody goody always make me laugh. "He smokes pot!" WHOOOOOOOAAAAAA! Dude you are a such a walking stereotype its fucking comical. You are the kind of guy that as soon as Mommy and Daddy are gone (like going off to college) they'll party themselves, and probably wind up in the ER over alcohol poisoning because they finally let loose. Either that or they leave for a weekend away, and you pick up a 12 pack of Coors Lite thinking your some manly man, and wind up arrested after peeping in the neighbor's 11 year old daughter's window after chugging 2 1/2 beers.

But the biggest reason you are a LOSER is where you say "I'm really REALLY jealous", as if that is something to be proud of. Your self-esteem is in the toilet, and you will NEVER attract a quality woman with such insecurity issues. Poor little bitch boy...the only way he can keep a woman is by sheltering her in a bubble keeping her away from the rest of the world. Think about how assinine that sounds. Better yet, think about what someone else said about how when she is with YOU, she is thinking about other people. Seriously, if you were ANY kind of quality boyfriend in the least....you would be wowing her in such a way she wouldn't have time to focus on anything else or want to be anywhere but right by your side.

Again she made a choice...."loser stoner dude" (your words) vs. your charming manly personality. Go look in the mirror and then REALLY examine why she made the ABSOLUTE RIGHT CHOICE!

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



Therapeutic? You call staying up until 3:30AM and ordering cheap pizza and watching videos on collegehumor.com therapeutic?

Quite.

quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

Personally I prefer staying up until 5:00 am and ordering cheap Chinese food and watching videos on YouTube.com, but that's just me.

Chinese food.. or pizza...

I can't choose.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



She told me today she was sick of me hating on him, so I told her this: I'm not gonna stop, so choose right now. It's either you hang with him and shut the hell up about him to me, or I'm leaving you.

She told me she didn't want to stop mentioning him all the time and interrupting my phone calls to her when he calls the other line.

.

Ok I hate to point out something in this guys favor because he is kind of a douche but to all those that are saying his dumb for trying to control her by choosing her friends. IT SAYS RIGHT HERE he was ok with them hanging out he just hated her fucking talking about the guy all the time and interupting their calls. Now whether he is a shitty boyfriend or a loser whiny bitch the girl is a complete fucking cunt ass bitch for mentioning another guy all the time. Maybe its her way to HINt to this whiny bitch to step up and be more of a man and act cooler so she wants to talk about HIM instead of the stoner but still not a fucking cool thing to do. If my girlfriend talked about ANYONE all the time whether it was boy or girl or family im sure I would ask the same thing because it would get annoying, I have a friend that takes about guys that she likes and I want to tell her to shut up because its annoying. And theres no controlling thing about it because shes just a friend and Id rather just hang out and not hear about other stupid shit.

Seems to me a lot of people are getting pissy because he called a stoner a loser. Like, way to generalise, man.

The OP was fairly reasonable. Let's see,

He admitted that he was jealous,

He asked her to stop going on about this other guy, not to stop seeing him,

He ended the relationship rather than make empty threats and issue ultimatums, which a lot of people might do,

This girl is a recovering addict. Hello? He had fairly valid concerns.

The only thing I'm not impressed with is the comment at the end, but hey. When it comes down to it he dealt with it well.

And yknow, weed is all well and good, but there comes a time when you need to grow up, take responsibility, support yourself, and not be constantly stoned. By age 22 most people should have worked that one out.

Jx

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Blah blah blah.

Wow. Shut the fuck up...

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:



But the biggest reason you are a LOSER is where you say "I'm really REALLY jealous", as if that is something to be proud of.

But did he really?

No.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Seriously, if you were ANY kind of quality boyfriend in the least....you would be wowing her in such a way she wouldn't have time to focus on anything else or want to be anywhere but right by your side.

Isn't that implying he SHOULDN'T be himself? And infact adding extra triats to his personality, just to impress her, therefore creating a sense of CONTROL over her? And wouldn't that also make him insecure, which you're also critisizing?

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Some of you lot are fucking stupid.

If what happened to him, happened to you, in the same way but different context, you would be crying too. So shut up. People live different life styles, get the fuck over it.

quote:Originally posted by Tokolosh:

Isn't that implying he SHOULDN'T be himself? And infact adding extra triats to his personality, just to impress her, therefore creating a sense of CONTROL over her? And wouldn't that also make him insecure, which you're also critisizing?

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Some of you lot are fucking stupid.

If what happened to him, happened to you, in the same way but different context, you would be crying too. So shut up. People live different life styles, get the fuck over it.

Tokolosh, you are as profoundly ignorant as the OP. Go back to his second post where he said..."I'm really REALLY jealous....and she knows this". Done, end, period. He isn't saying..."I realize this is a flaw and I'm trying my best to fix it". Instead he suggests she should just DEAL WITH IT. Bullshit! His insecurity issues are just that...HIS problem, not hers.

As for you saying "this could happen to all of us, but in a different way"...sorry braniac you are DEAD WRONG again. This doesn't/wouldn't happen to me. I don't have esteem or insecurity problems, and my wife isn't on a leash. Nor do I try and dictate who she wants to be around, or what the subject of conversations should be.

Tokolosh you are just as much an insecure little boy as the OP if you actually think this nincompoop has any justification in his thought process. The both of you don't deserve ANY women. Hell, you wanna control something to these extents mandating every nuance of that beings behavior? Go buy a fuckin puppy then. But if you want to have REAL relationships with human beings, then get your head out of your ass, treat women properly and quit whining like some fuckin 3d grader.

As much as it would annoy me that a girl would constantly be talking about some other guy, I still think you sound like a cunt.

Watch this youtube video and gain a little more understanding:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VSt7ZBYDtc

You are the guy that goes to the pub.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Tokolosh, you are as profoundly ignorant as the OP.

Ignorant.

First of, just like to say, I really hate people who throw this word around like they know how to use it in attempt to belittle someone. Do you know what ignorance is?

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Go back to his second post where he said..."I'm really REALLY jealous....and she knows this". Done, end, period. He isn't saying..."I realize this is a flaw and I'm trying my best to fix it". Instead he suggests she should just DEAL WITH IT. Bullshit! His insecurity issues are just that...HIS problem, not hers.

Sorry, who the fuck made you judicator of what he’s trying to highlight?

He’s saying he’s a jealous person, like a lot of people are, and she knows this, therefore SHE goes out of her way to talk considerably more about this kid. Therefore, he HAS to ‘deal with it’ and do shit for her.

Sorry, who was controlling who again?

And in a relationship, one problem is both problems you selfish dipshit. If she had depressive problems, would you say he’d be fully justitifed to say ‘lol not my problem’? No you fucking twat, once in a relationship you act upon each others problems and help each other out. Not exploit it for your own desires and in time make it their own damn demise. Your logic is obscene.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

As for you saying "this could happen to all of us, but in a different way"...sorry braniac you are DEAD WRONG again. .

Did I say that…?

Don’t farce a quote from me then try and destroy it. Read what I said properly, digest it, then comment on it. kthx. What I said and what you just said I said, are different. Ironically. Eh?

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

This doesn't/wouldn't happen to me. I don't have esteem or insecurity problems, and my wife isn't on a leash. Nor do I try and dictate who she wants to be around, or what the subject of conversations should be.

Hmm, you obviously didn’t comprehend the ‘people live different lifestyles’ part either did you?

You’re comparing your life, to some kids life who ex glorified some stoner buddy over and over.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Tokolosh you are just as much an insecure little boy as the OP if you actually think this nincompoop has any justification in his thought process. The both of you don't deserve ANY women. Hell, you wanna control something to these extents mandating every nuance of that beings behavior? Go buy a fuckin puppy then. But if you want to have REAL relationships with human beings, then get your head out of your ass, treat women properly and quit whining like some fuckin 3d grader.

You don’t even know me, so don’t talk as if you do. Now hell, I can now use the word IGNORANT.

You’re just some pseudo-intelligent pussy-whipped arsehole who talks like a feminist who just got their book rejected from a publicist.

Sorry to hear it.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Tokolosh, you are as profoundly ignorant as the OP. Go back to his second post where he said..."I'm really REALLY jealous....and she knows this". Done, end, period. He isn't saying..."I realize this is a flaw and I'm trying my best to fix it". Instead he suggests she should just DEAL WITH IT. Bullshit! His insecurity issues are just that...HIS problem, not hers.

As for you saying "this could happen to all of us, but in a different way"...sorry braniac you are DEAD WRONG again. This doesn't/wouldn't happen to me. I don't have esteem or insecurity problems, and my wife isn't on a leash. Nor do I try and dictate who she wants to be around, or what the subject of conversations should be.

Tokolosh you are just as much an insecure little boy as the OP if you actually think this nincompoop has any justification in his thought process. The both of you don't deserve ANY women. Hell, you wanna control something to these extents mandating every nuance of that beings behavior? Go buy a fuckin puppy then. But if you want to have REAL relationships with human beings, then get your head out of your ass, treat women properly and quit whining like some fuckin 3d grader.

Theres nothing controling about telling a bitch that he doesn't like it when she talks about someone else all the fucking time. I mean you said he should deal with his problems right because its HIS problem not hers? Well lets see his problem was he was annoyed that she talked about some stupid stoner all teh fucking time and disrespected her boyfriend, he tried to handle it in a reasonable manner by letting her know he has no problem with them hanging out but that she should quit talking about this other guy all the damn time. Well when he tried to be mature about it by talking that didn't work so he took the next step to solve his problem he got rid of it.

I mean seriously you guys that say hes a controlling cunt because he doesn't want to hear about some other guy all fucking day are retarded. If he had told her he doesn't want her to hang out with this guy that would be controlling.



Edit- That street song is pretty true, except that fucker is hard as hell to understand half the time. But yea smoking weed is better then alcohol.



[This message has been edited by AprenticeChemistBITCHS (edited 02-20-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Tokolosh:

You don’t even know me, so don’t talk as if you do. Now hell, I can now use the word IGNORANT.

You’re just some pseudo-intelligent pussy-whipped arsehole who talks like a feminist who just got their book rejected from a publicist.

Wow, its obvious Totse doesn't require an IQ for the Mods to become one....because the blather above is barely lucid.

You are right, people are allowed to live their lives however they see fit. And when this fool keeps having failed relationship after failed relationship, he can continue to post about his problems and probably whine about "what is wrong with women".

I find it extremely comical how you put the burden of HIS problems onto her shoulders. So if someone was discussing a woman that left them because he beat on her, you would still approve of a comment of "I have a very very short fuse, and am prone to anger...she knows this". With your absurd logic it would be HER obligation to walk on eggshells for the duration of the relationship, so as not to trigger HIS PROBLEM.

And comparing his insecurity and controlling issues to depresseion is exponential stupidity at its finest.

Talking like a feminist????? ROFLMFAO! Because I learned early on if you treat a woman a certain way it will only come back to you in return 10-fold???? Newsflash for ya genius....you treat a woman like a dog, you get the same thing back. Or at the very least that is the only kind of women you'll ever have any serious relationship with.

Dude, I'm more of a chauvanist than you could ever IMAGINE being....the problem with you is you are too stupid to even be a legitimate one. Clearly from the thoughts you post on this topic you can't go beyond...."me Tarzan, you Jane".

How about this Tok....why don't you post to us about YOUR successful relationships, so we can all witness how this wonderful whimsical outlook on women really gets you anywhere in life. Cue the fuckin crickets.....

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

Wow, its obvious Totse doesn't require an IQ for the Mods to become one....because the blather above is barely lucid.

You are right, people are allowed to live their lives however they see fit. And when this fool keeps having failed relationship after failed relationship, he can continue to post about his problems and probably whine about "what is wrong with women".

I find it extremely comical how you put the burden of HIS problems onto her shoulders. So if someone was discussing a woman that left them because he beat on her, you would still approve of a comment of "I have a very very short fuse, and am prone to anger...she knows this". With your absurd logic it would be HER obligation to walk on eggshells for the duration of the relationship, so as not to trigger HIS PROBLEM.

And comparing his insecurity and controlling issues to depresseion is exponential stupidity at its finest.

Talking like a feminist????? ROFLMFAO! Because I learned early on if you treat a woman a certain way it will only come back to you in return 10-fold???? Newsflash for ya genius....you treat a woman like a dog, you get the same thing back. Or at the very least that is the only kind of women you'll ever have any serious relationship with.

Dude, I'm more of a chauvanist than you could ever IMAGINE being....the problem with you is you are too stupid to even be a legitimate one. Clearly from the thoughts you post on this topic you can't go beyond...."me Tarzan, you Jane".

How about this Tok....why don't you post to us about YOUR successful relationships, so we can all witness how this wonderful whimsical outlook on women really gets you anywhere in life. Cue the fuckin crickets.....



How the hell is him saying he hates when she talks about other guys all the time when she knows his jealous type, the same as him saying he hit his girlfriend but it was her fault because she knows hes an angry person? Theres a big difference. I think he was pointing out the fact that hes jealous and she knows it in light that what she is doing is bullshit even if he wasnt the jealous type, yet knowing hes the jealous type makes talking about some other guy ALL the time worse.

Im not very jealous guy but if my girlfriend went on and on and on about some guy id start to get a little jealous not to mention annoyed. I mean how many in here have girlfriends that don't mind them talking about the same girl that isnt them all the time and interupting the girls phone call when the girl who isnt the girlfrien calls? Girls would do the same thing girls are hell of more jealous then guys like that.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Theres nothing controling about telling a bitch that he doesn't like it when she talks about someone else all the fucking time. I mean you said he should deal with his problems right because its HIS problem not hers? Well lets see his problem was he was annoyed that she talked about some stupid stoner all teh fucking time and disrespected her boyfriend, he tried to handle it in a reasonable manner by letting her know he has no problem with them hanging out but that she should quit talking about this other guy all the damn time. Well when he tried to be mature about it by talking that didn't work so he took the next step to solve his problem he got rid of it.

I mean seriously you guys that say hes a controlling cunt because he doesn't want to hear about some other guy all fucking day are retarded. If he had told her he doesn't want her to hang out with this guy that would be controlling.



Edit- That street song is pretty true, except that fucker is hard as hell to understand half the time. But yea smoking weed is better then alcohol.





I tell ya what, if you REALLY believe he is NOT a controlling jackass, then I have a challenge for you. Come back to me with just ONE real life scenario, where either partner issued an ultimatum like this fool did...and it ended up nicely. I bet you can find it. Why? Because ultimatums are the ammunition of some disturbed and moronic people. He gave her an "either/or" choice and she walked. Yet here he whines. Now I suppose someone can post an example where after a similar ultimatum, the girl just threw herself into his arms and completely changed her behavior... never having the desire to live out those behaviors ever again. LOL GIMME A FUCKIN BREAK!

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

How the hell is him saying he hates when she talks about other guys all the time when she knows his jealous type, the same as him saying he hit his girlfriend but it was her fault because she knows hes an angry person? Theres a big difference. I think he was pointing out the fact that hes jealous and she knows it in light that what she is doing is bullshit even if he wasnt the jealous type, yet knowing hes the jealous type makes talking about some other guy ALL the time worse.

Im not very jealous guy but if my girlfriend went on and on and on about some guy id start to get a little jealous not to mention annoyed. I mean how many in here have girlfriends that don't mind them talking about the same girl that isnt them all the time and interupting the girls phone call when the girl who isnt the girlfrien calls? Girls would do the same thing girls are hell of more jealous then guys like that.



Apprentice, the reason the scenarios are similar is because it is HIS negative personality traits, and in turn it is an expectation that she alter HER behavior to not impede on HIS quirks.

The problem is he got involved with someone that has a social life BEYOND HIM, and he isn't comfortable with that kind of an outgoing girl. It has nothing to do with stoners, what the girl is talking about or anything else.....just he is NOT comfortable with the fact that he isn't the center of the universe. The only hope for him is if he finds some "needy" woman. The kind that is in love after 3 dates, and will be waiting for him every minute of every hour to call or come over. He should NOT get involved with women that are very social or have lots of friends, because clearly his tattered ego can't deal with it.

And I still say, if he was THAT much of a "catch" she wouldn't be focused so much on these other people during quality time with him. If the OP doesn't walk away from this whole thing and take some time to look inward at what caused this breakup, then he will repeat history again and again and again.....

He probably is a controlling jack ass and probably not that great of a boyfriend because like you said she'd probably be more interested in him if he was a better cooler boyfriend.

But hes not controlling that he doesn't want her to ALWAYS talk about her. How the fuck could you not find it offensive if YOUR Girlfriend talked about some other guy to you more then anything else? I mean guys aren't supposed to talk all the time about their best friend whos a girl to their girlfriend and girls shouldn't do the same. But why should this guy stick around if he doesn't want to hear about some guy that he doesn't like if thats all she talks about? I mean its not like he was that immature if he was super immature he would have tried to kick the guys ass or tell the girl he would. And his problem isnt that she has a social life outside of him HE SAID he doesn't care if she hangs out with the other guy. His problem is that she is an annoying bitch that only wants to talk about some other guy. What ever if you can't see why some girl TALKING ALL THE TIME about some guy to her boyfriend isn't cool then you're just dumb.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

QFMFT!

OP, you are a profound loser on many levels. First off, you critiquing the stoner dude's life is pretty comical. How about coming back to us and describe us YOUR situation? Please note, if you tell us anything about still living with Mommy and Daddy, driving a car they bought for you, or living off any kind of money they provide you....then we are just going to LOL at you that much harder.

And you anti-drug goody goody always make me laugh. "He smokes pot!" WHOOOOOOOAAAAAA! Dude you are a such a walking stereotype its fucking comical. You are the kind of guy that as soon as Mommy and Daddy are gone (like going off to college) they'll party themselves, and probably wind up in the ER over alcohol poisoning because they finally let loose. Either that or they leave for a weekend away, and you pick up a 12 pack of Coors Lite thinking your some manly man, and wind up arrested after peeping in the neighbor's 11 year old daughter's window after chugging 2 1/2 beers.

But the biggest reason you are a LOSER is where you say "I'm really REALLY jealous", as if that is something to be proud of. Your self-esteem is in the toilet, and you will NEVER attract a quality woman with such insecurity issues. Poor little bitch boy...the only way he can keep a woman is by sheltering her in a bubble keeping her away from the rest of the world. Think about how assinine that sounds. Better yet, think about what someone else said about how when she is with YOU, she is thinking about other people. Seriously, if you were ANY kind of quality boyfriend in the least....you would be wowing her in such a way she wouldn't have time to focus on anything else or want to be anywhere but right by your side.

Again she made a choice...."loser stoner dude" (your words) vs. your charming manly personality. Go look in the mirror and then REALLY examine why she made the ABSOLUTE RIGHT CHOICE!



Anti-drug goody goody? No, I just fucking hate loser potheads. I'm not anti-drug in the slightest, I still do coke and PCP. Not that she knows anything about it, though.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

QFMFT!

OP, you are a profound loser on many levels. First off, you critiquing the stoner dude's life is pretty comical. How about coming back to us and describe us YOUR situation? Please note, if you tell us anything about still living with Mommy and Daddy, driving a car they bought for you, or living off any kind of money they provide you....then we are just going to LOL at you that much harder.

And you anti-drug goody goody always make me laugh. "He smokes pot!" WHOOOOOOOAAAAAA! Dude you are a such a walking stereotype its fucking comical. You are the kind of guy that as soon as Mommy and Daddy are gone (like going off to college) they'll party themselves, and probably wind up in the ER over alcohol poisoning because they finally let loose. Either that or they leave for a weekend away, and you pick up a 12 pack of Coors Lite thinking your some manly man, and wind up arrested after peeping in the neighbor's 11 year old daughter's window after chugging 2 1/2 beers.

But the biggest reason you are a LOSER is where you say "I'm really REALLY jealous", as if that is something to be proud of. Your self-esteem is in the toilet, and you will NEVER attract a quality woman with such insecurity issues. Poor little bitch boy...the only way he can keep a woman is by sheltering her in a bubble keeping her away from the rest of the world. Think about how assinine that sounds. Better yet, think about what someone else said about how when she is with YOU, she is thinking about other people. Seriously, if you were ANY kind of quality boyfriend in the least....you would be wowing her in such a way she wouldn't have time to focus on anything else or want to be anywhere but right by your side.

Again she made a choice...."loser stoner dude" (your words) vs. your charming manly personality. Go look in the mirror and then REALLY examine why she made the ABSOLUTE RIGHT CHOICE!



I'm 21, live on my own, work 35 hours a week, I go to college, paid everything out of my own pocket, MY pocket, as in money I worked for and saved. I drive MY car, and pay my own insurance. So go to hell. The last thing my parents paid to me was a U-haul when I moved out when I was 17.

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

^Hey just a suggestion...Delete this!

Coke, PCP etc.





Why?

I love how all the stoners are getting all upset and defensive.

There's a difference between recreationally having a spliff from time to time and being a stoner. Perhaps you all haven't grown up enough to understand that.

BTW that streets video was cool.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Fuck her. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, and you're definitely above him. If those are the kinds of choices she wants to make with her life then she can do it alone. You can do better.

Good luck.

I agree.

I understand where you're coming from.

You're not trying to sound controlling, but think about the situation the other way around.

Think if you used to be on drugs and you're hanging around the same old people, partying and such?

One day you have to give it all up, not all of it, but you really have to get your head on straight. I know what you mean by saying that you don't want her to go down the wrong path.

She should just be quiet about it and not babble on about someone else and respect what you have to say.

It's selfish not to hear someone's opinion and not do anything about it to change, even a little bit.

Good luck, man.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



Anti-drug goody goody? No, I just fucking hate loser potheads. I'm not anti-drug in the slightest, I still do coke and PCP. Not that she knows anything about it, though.

ROFLMFAO! This just gets better and better. A fuckin tweaker dancing with Angel Dust, talking about how STONERS are losers????? Ummmmm, ok...that makes perfect sense!

And I especially liked how you said "not like she knows anything about it though". So you are with this chick and you have to HIDE your behaviors/interests??!!!!??

Yup, you are one helluva "man" (term used VERY loosely).......

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



Anti-drug goody goody? No, I just fucking hate loser potheads. I'm not anti-drug in the slightest, I still do coke and PCP. Not that she knows anything about it, though.

Are you shitting me? You're all pissed about your girlfriend hanging out with this guy because he's a pothead and she went through rehab, and all the while you're doing angel dust behind her back? This not only confirms that you're a douchebag, it also means that you're a goddamn hypocrite.

I think most of you are missing the point. It's not the drug which is the problem, but the situation, and her unwillingness to just shut the fuck up about something he's asked her not to talk about (a reasonable request).

quote:Originally posted by specus_meretricis:

"So there you have it guys, bitches like loser potheads more than loving boyfriends.

I hope you all get raped."

HAHAHA! You want to know one of the reasons why she doesn't give a fuck about you? Try the last two sentences of your post dipshit. Not only are you a whiny little faggot, but you throw temper tantrums like a drunk drag queen. You must really suck if she would rather hang out with a total loser than you. I mean REALLY suck. It's one thing if the bitch just didn't want to be with you anymore or thinks your cock smells bad. But to take HIS call while you are crying on the phone about your feelings to her? HAHAHHA! Oh that is some funny shit. Yeah don't change. Don't realize that no one puts up with controlling bullshit forever and you sticking your lower lip out and having a self pity jerkoff is so damn fucking unattracitve, that no decent human is going to want to be with you.

Hold on a moment...I'm going to call all my female friends, co-workers, and relatives and read your post to them. So that even more women can laugh at you right now, besides your girlfriend.



Hit the nail right on the fucking head

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

I love how all the stoners are getting all upset and defensive.

There's a difference between recreationally having a spliff from time to time and being a stoner. Perhaps you all haven't grown up enough to understand that.

BTW that streets video was cool.

Thank God someone watched it!

I'm going to be the stoner for about a month, I've given up drinking for lent.

quote:Originally posted by ZeroMalarki:

Thank God someone watched it!

I'm going to be the stoner for about a month, I've given up drinking for lent.

A bible-thumping stoner. This is golden.

quote:Originally posted by DaGuru:

ROFLMFAO! This just gets better and better. A fuckin tweaker dancing with Angel Dust, talking about how STONERS are losers????? Ummmmm, ok...that makes perfect sense!

And I especially liked how you said "not like she knows anything about it though". So you are with this chick and you have to HIDE your behaviors/interests??!!!!??

Yup, you are one helluva "man" (term used VERY loosely).......



Heres something I will agree with daguru on. Obviously your such a great loving boyfriend that you hide shit from her. Thats not a fucking good boyfriend GOOD boyfriends don't hide shit. Calling a STONER a looser when you do hardcore drugs is as hypocritical as it gets you fucking faggot. Whether your ex sucked because she talked about that guy all the time you are a major douchebag. Hope you get an STD for sure now.

I think we all need to smoke some chronic.

But watch out, because I get paranoid.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I think we all need to smoke some chronic.

But watch out, because I get paranoid.

Ill second that motion but I have 6 years to wait till I get out of the service.

quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

Are you shitting me? You're all pissed about your girlfriend hanging out with this guy because he's a pothead and she went through rehab, and all the while you're doing angel dust behind her back? This not only confirms that you're a douchebag, it also means that you're a goddamn hypocrite.

I don't talk about the girls I do PCP with when I'm with my girl. As a matter of fact, I severed all ties with my old stoner friends, and she hasn't.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

I don't talk about the girls I do PCP with when I'm with my girl. As a matter of fact, I severed all ties with my old stoner friends, and she hasn't.



Chronos, you'll just never get it and you are a pussy on many levels. You sit on your lofty hill judging people about smoking weed, yet here you are proudly talking about your PCP use. And then to justify your actions you say..."well I don't talk about those girls in front of her", all the while HIDING shit behind her back.

Tell us, why when in a relationship can't you be HONEST with your partner? Is it because you are afraid once she knows the "real" you, you know damn well she'll realize what kind of profound loser you are?

Go ahead Cronos, you keep up this mindset and think you have even a semblance of a clue in regard to relationships and staying in a healthy and productive one. You think you are fooling everyone else, but the truth is you are just fooling yourself. Enjoy your tattered existence....you keep living your life the way you do, you'll eventually see why no girl with 1/2 a brain would want to stay attached to you. Then again, probably not. Sure as hell ain't their loss though.

LOL @ you harder and harder every time you post about this subject.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

I don't talk about the girls I do PCP with when I'm with my girl. As a matter of fact, I severed all ties with my old stoner friends, and she hasn't.

So you can have your PCP cocaine friends yet she can't have stoner friends? Thats some real fucking logic. You sir are a jerk off and I regret ever defending anything you said because I was wrong. Personally ive see the types of people that do cocaine and the people that are stoners, stoners are way less loosers then cocaine users. Im not just talking about Coke HEads, im talking about any coke users. Hope you do become a coke head then you can help guys like some of my friends buy new cloths and jewlrey.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

So you can have your PCP cocaine friends yet she can't have stoner friends? Thats some real fucking logic. You sir are a jerk off and I regret ever defending anything you said because I was wrong. Personally ive see the types of people that do cocaine and the people that are stoners, stoners are way less loosers then cocaine users. Im not just talking about Coke HEads, im talking about any coke users. Hope you do become a coke head then you can help guys like some of my friends buy new cloths and jewlrey.

How does my cocaine use help your friends buy clothes and jewelry?