So after reading some of the threads here I got thinking about my relationship with this girl I met a couple months ago.

Basicly, I still love her. But, I know it will never work out. Don't make me have to explain it. It's long and complicated. Thats not what I'm here for. I'll just leave it as that we'll both be happier in the end, even if we both hurt for a while right afterwards.

How do I end it and be as easy on her as I can? Should I try to start a fight? Just wait for it to blow up and get nasty? Please, what do I do?

You're deluding yourself. It never works out to be better in the end, believe me. You'll end up regretting it.

Unless your situation is really weird.

i'm just about to start a long distance relationship. we met overseas and were together for a couple of months there, but we live on opposite sides of the country (australia). when we left each other i said that i didn't want to continue it because it would be way too hard to have a long distance relationship and we'd both be miserable.

turns out we were both miserable apart from each other, and we decided we'd give it a try. we don't have anything to lose, really.

i think that if you do want to end it with her, be open and honest about how you feel. but you might want to give the relationship a go.

Explain it.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Explain it.

I've been fucked over by the whole concept a few times. But yours will work because your someone worth giving two shits about...or more even!! (Hint: Take that as a compliment )

Really, just say the truth... the truth is allways the best, keep things clear, its the best you can do.

The greatest relationship of my life was long distance. Australia/Germany.

Just go with it. If your heart leads you in a different direction later, you can follow that.

Well, thanks for the advice. It didn't really help that much, but I guess this isn't something simple.