So, yesterday on the 16th my girlfriend and I were having sex. After about ten minutes, I pulled out and there was blood. The blood was just there and after we cleaned up she hadn't been bleeding anymore. She hasn't bled since. This got us thinking about things.

Let me give you some background info:

On the 4th of February she started her period. Four days later, on February 8th, she finished her period.

We had sex sometime in between now and when she went to the doctor. I wore a condom and I pulled out before I came too. I'm absolutely positive there were no rips in the condom.

She threw up twice one day between the end of her period and when she went to the doctor. It wasn't anytime in the morning. She hasn't thrown up sick. She also had been sick with a cold for a while; I'm not sure if she had it during her period. It wouldn't go away so she went to the doctor. He said that it was a sinus infection and gave her antibiotics. She started taking the antibiotics two days, on the 14th of February, before we had the sex when she started bleeding.

As mentioned above, the sex was on the 16th of February. I pulled out after about 5 minutes and there was blood. She wiped herself off and there was no more blood, and she hasn't bled since.

Today, on the 17th of February, she said she had discharge from her vagina. I'm not sure what it looked like, but it wasn't blood, is what she said.

Now I'm worried about what it could be. She is calling for a doctor's appointment on Monday. She is going to try to get an appointment for Wednesday. I'm going with her because she wants me to be there.

She thinks it's cancer or something. I think she might be pregnant, even though with the dates it's not possible. I also think it might be a cyst because of the bleeding.

She complains of stomach pain and feeling sleepy. She has stomach pain often, but thats because of another reason.

I'm not sure what the bleeding and the discharge mean. Is it just the antibiotics fucking with her system? Either way shes going to the doctor, but I want to know.

Mis-carriage?

They sex, may have aggrevated the newly devoling placenta, and cause the bleeding, and if it is a mis carriage. the things that came out of her vagina that werent blood was probably a small fetus.

Im crossing my fingers, that my gf isnt pregnant now too. Be glad it was a mis-carriage if it turns out to be, and that shes not pregnant. and I would imagine shes going to be very emotional, about the whole situation.. so.. yeah. be wise with knowledge.

I don't think it's a miscarriage simply because it is impossible that she is pregnant. I'm still not sure what it is... Any advice would be appreciated.

quote:Originally posted by Nitz:



We had sex sometime in between now and when she went to the doctor. I wore a condom and I pulled out before I came too. I'm absolutely positive there were no rips in the condom.

She threw up twice one day between the end of her period and when she went to the doctor. It wasn't anytime in the morning.

As mentioned above, the sex was on the 16th of February. I pulled out after about 5 minutes and there was blood. She wiped herself off and there was no more blood, and she hasn't bled since.

Today, on the 17th of February, she said she had discharge from her vagina. I'm not sure what it looked like, but it wasn't blood, is what she said.





A condom is good but it's not perfect.

Antibiotics fuck up EVERYTHING.

Morning sickness does not always happen in the morning. It should be called pregnancy sickness or something..

Sometimes I bleed a little bit during or after sex. No big deal. Is it a lot of blood?

She might just have some sort of infection or something.

Don't get worked up about cancer, cysts, or pregnancy yet. She has an appointment, wait and see!

Good luck!

There are a number of reasons that can cause vaginal bleeding after intercourse, and most of them are an infection of some sort, or maybe even an STD. Going to see a doctor is the best option, and it's good that you're going with her for support. It can be something as routine as a yeast infection, or something as serious as chlamydia or early stages of cervical cancer.

How many times has she had sex? If this was one of her first few times, that can be another reason. As for the discharge, it is normal and can varry during and immediately after a menstral cycle. Some causes for concern would be a strange greenish/yellowish color, irregular texture, and odor.

quote:Originally posted by myscars:



A condom is good but it's not perfect.

Antibiotics fuck up EVERYTHING.

Morning sickness does not always happen in the morning. It should be called pregnancy sickness or something..

Sometimes I bleed a little bit during or after sex. No big deal. Is it a lot of blood?

She might just have some sort of infection or something.

Don't get worked up about cancer, cysts, or pregnancy yet. She has an appointment, wait and see!

Good luck!

There was blood only really on me. Just on me dick and my pubic area. I wasn't soaked just it was there. The reason she is taking the antibiotics is for a sinus infection.

We had sex today, and later in the day she had spotting. I'm not sure what that is...

I think I'm just exaggerating things.

quote:Originally posted by Nitz:



We had sex today, and later in the day she had spotting. I'm not sure what that is...

I think I'm just exaggerating things.

Spotting is just a bit of blood, between periods. Sometimes it happens awhile before or after your period. Not usually like blood pouring out of you, just maybe when you wipe yourself or whatever there might be some. Is your girlfriend on the pill?

Sometimes if I have a big sex session and I go to the bathroom after there will be a little blood. Not much just a little.

Some things that can cause bleeding after sex are small cuts or tears in her skin, or maybe you were hitting her cervix or something.

Is it just after you have sex and then it goes away? Or does she keep bleeding?

quote:Originally posted by myscars:

Spotting is just a bit of blood, between periods. Sometimes it happens awhile before or after your period. Not usually like blood pouring out of you, just maybe when you wipe yourself or whatever there might be some. Is your girlfriend on the pill?

Sometimes if I have a big sex session and I go to the bathroom after there will be a little blood. Not much just a little.

Some things that can cause bleeding after sex are small cuts or tears in her skin, or maybe you were hitting her cervix or something.

Is it just after you have sex and then it goes away? Or does she keep bleeding?

It stopped as soon as we quit having sex the first time. The second time there was just blood on her underwear I think. It's not pouring out of her, it's just kind of there and then it stops. She's not on the pill.