Alrite totse so im gonna ask for your help. I have this freind. lets call her devin. anyways, we have been pretty good freinds for about 6 months now. We hang out alot on the weekends, maybe once a week or so. but theres just somthing about her that I abosolulty love. besides her being completly sexy, she has a personality I just love.

Shes done alot for me. for example, she got me to quit smoking weed and therefore ended my family problems and all that. well I broke up with someone in early december and devin kinda hated her because she talked shit about devin. anyways, we hung out a few times over winter break and all that. then we went to winter formal in early janruary as freinds, and thats about the point where I started liking her.

now im in a shitty situation. she likes this black kid that lives an hour away, never comes to see her, but they talk on the fone about every other day or so. and they have been kinda fighting the past week or two. she already kinda knows I have feelings for her, but shes not lookig for a relationship. but i was talking to one of her friends and she said that if devin was lokin for a relationship shed definitly go out with me.

Were gonna hang out tomarrow night maybe with one of her freinds but im not really sure yet. Totse, what should I do? I dont wanna get in the way of devin and the black guys relationship, but I absolutly love her. i'm feelin quite lost in what I should do right about now. any experiences would be nice as well.

Go for it. If you love her , then its worth it.

you obviously know we're all going to tell you to go for it. so pretty much you're going to get as much positive advice to go for her, as possible.

of course you go for her, wtf do you expect?

quote:Originally posted by 40ozcasualty:

lets call her devin.

Are you sure she's not a guy?

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Are you sure she's not a guy?

oh, im sure.

quote:Originally posted by 40ozcasualty:

oh, im sure.

Well I read your thread and it makes me a sad panda.

Pretty sure she does want a relationship, just not with you, but rather the black kid.

Her friend's just telling you what you want to hear.

Now, you need to change the way "Devin" (Kevin?) sees you. Try and initiate physical contact. Watch a movie together, in private, while hugging and shit. If she makes prolonged eye contact with you, lean in for a kiss.

Chances are, you wont succeed, and the friendship will become incredibly awkward for a while. She likes the black kid . Remember that.

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quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Pretty sure she does want a relationship, just not with you, but rather the black kid.

Her friend's just telling you what you want to hear.



Chances are, you wont succeed, and the friendship will become incredibly awkward for a while. She likes the black kid . Remember that.





I dont know. i heard it from two of her friends, so i think shes not lying when she said that. as for the black kid, theyve been fighting and shes told me hes been a dumbass lazy fuck for the past few weeks.

she also told me that she was talking to her ex, and she got mad when he said that hes a deadbeat and needs to leave him.

This is the kind of situation roofies were made for.

quote:Originally posted by 40ozcasualty:



I dont know. i heard it from two of her friends, so i think shes not lying when she said that. as for the black kid, theyve been fighting and shes told me hes been a dumbass lazy fuck for the past few weeks.

she also told me that she was talking to her ex, and she got mad when he said that hes a deadbeat and needs to leave him.



You're going to believe what you want to believe.

Have fun kid.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

You're going to believe what you want to believe.

Have fun kid.

true, true. are you a chick? if so i should PROBABLY listen to you.

Why would you call her devin? You'd be hard pressed to find a more dudely name.

quote:Originally posted by Fascismo:

Why would you call her devin? You'd be hard pressed to find a more dudely name.

because thats actually her name. my bad, lets call her rachel.

quote:Originally posted by 40ozcasualty:

true, true. are you a chick? if so i should PROBABLY listen to you.

No. I'm a guy who's been in a similar situation.

She's going to tell you she doesn't want a relationship at the moment. That she wants to be alone. Then with in the next few weeks she'll start dating the black guy, or maybe she'll start seeing her ex again.

Either way, you need to change the way she perceives you. Apparently it takes long periods of absence for a girl to be able to change her opinion on you. I was able to do it quickly.

I stopped talking to her for a few weeks, changed my game, and took another crack at it. All it took me was seeing her in person instead of chatting on the phone all the time.

The biggest thing that will change for her when she decides she can see you as more than a friend, will be her opening her mind to a physical relationship with you.

Start being physically intimate with her.

aight ill wait 2 er three weeks er so and just go from there. thanks for your help tho this is the first friend situation thing ive been in and it sucks ass.

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im not in SG so i wont say the "N" word

but, a black guy? please, move on that shit

quote:Originally posted by anarchyburger2.0:

im not in SG so i wont say the "N" word

but, a black guy? please, move on that shit

exactly my point.

but I figured out what I'm gonna do. im goin with her, her friend and my friend just to chill at the mall. then ill break away for 3 weeks then re-apear as a new person.

Just kiss her bitch.

quote:Originally posted by 40ozcasualty:

lets call her devin.

Hehehe, Devins a guys name silly. I know a guy named Devin.

You should know by now gays arent totally bashed here in Sex and Affection, and other people actually welcome them.

HOLD THE MOTHERFUCKING PRESSES

she likes niggers?

to hell with her shes a contaminated ghetto whore

pic???

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Hehehe, Devins a guys name silly. I know a guy named Devin.



i kno a guy named devin too. but her name is actually devin. whoops.

quote:Originally posted by 40ozcasualty:

as for the black kid, theyve been fighting and shes told me hes been a dumbass lazy fuck for the past few weeks.

Haha, you know nothing. These qualities will make this bitch all over him. Women don't want men that treat them well, they want a lazy good for nothing womanizing deadbeat prick like this guy to walk all over them.