So ill get straight to the point. A couple weeks ago before 1st semester exams, I started talking to this girl.

So the first day was pretty cool. She was in the library by herself and I came and sat with her. We talked for a bit and I asked if we could chill during lunch, shes said ok.

So lunch was pretty general too. We did a bit a flirting, but mostly talked a lot. So after school I asked her for her number and she gave it to me.

Me being the dumbass, I forgot the number, so I would ask her next week (it was a Friday.)

SOOOoooOOOooo...On monday, I went up to her and said whud up, she said hi and walked off...Im like WTF? So I thought to myself, shes probably late for class or something. So at lunch, she was sitting in the cafe and I came up and asked her to chill with me outside. She said she was helping her friend right now and that I should come back later. So im like ok fine. I came back and she was gone...Right.

So I forgot about her for a week or so, saw her a couple times and then today I got the courage to actually ask her to hang after school. So me and my friends were near her locker and her friends were standing in front of it. They were ALL giving me dirty looks, or it seemed.

She came by and I asked what she was doing after school. She said in a real sarcastic and smart ass way "Going home?"

So I ask you all.

WTF totse, WTF

What do you all think, do you think shes a bitch?

I have a feeling her friends are gossiping about me though. Not sure. So tell me.

Girls don't make any fuckin' sense. Try not to think about it too hard, it'll only cause you mental stress.

She's pissed you didn't call?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

She's pissed you didn't call?

Oh...Shit...

Im a dumbass. I didn't even ask for it back.

So I did read that right then.

I think you need to apologize and get things cleared up.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

So I did read that right then.

I think you need to apologize and get things cleared up.

GOOD plan. But I still think her friends are gossiping about me or something, telling a whole bunch of bullshit about me. And plus, wouldn't most girls actually stand up and ask why I didn't call?

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

GOOD plan. But I still think her friends are gossiping about me or something, telling a whole bunch of bullshit about me. And plus, wouldn't most girls actually stand up and ask why I didn't call?



Some would, some wouldn't. I wouldn't.

Yes, they're probably talking about you. It might be bullshit because they (or she) lacks some information.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Some would, some wouldn't. I wouldn't.



I would not want you to know that I was hurt or offended by you not calling. After all, no relationship has been established.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Yes, they're probably talking about you. It might be bullshit because they (or she) lacks some information.

FUCKING HELL...How do I figure what they talk about and how to stop it...Please

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

FUCKING HELL...How do I figure what they talk about and how to stop it...Please



You don't. You deal with what you know, what you did. Period.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



You don't. You deal with what you know, what you did. Period.

FUCK...I have nothing more to say.

Edit: Wait, yea I do...So, I'm screwed? Should I just forget about her and move on?

[This message has been edited by xiahoudun (edited 02-17-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

FUCK...I have nothing more to say.



Me neither. Get things straightened out, or let it go.

Good luck...and good night.

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

FUCK...I have nothing more to say.

Edit: Wait, yea I do...So, I'm screwed? Should I just forget about her and move on?



Uncanny!

No. You tell her what happened. That's all. The rest will work itself out. Either it will fix things, or you move on.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Uncanny!

No. You tell her what happened. That's all. The rest will work itself out. Either it will fix things, or you move on.



Alright thanks, but how about her friends though, how about if they just keep enforcing her to not hang with me?

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

Alright thanks, but how about her friends though, how about if they just keep enforcing her to not hang with me?



Then...she's weak and is not worth your time.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Then...she's weak and is not worth your time.

Hmm...Makes sense...Gonna be thinking alot this weekend...

They are talking about you, don't kid yourself. Paranoia is only a fine line between reality. I doubt she'd be choked about not getting a phone call from you, otherwise she would of shown interest when you made an attempt at talking to her.

Don't make yourself crazy over it.

Rest well.

Nite nite.

quote:Originally posted by flash:

They are talking about you, don't kid yourself. Paranoia is only a fine line between reality. I doubt she'd be choked about not getting a phone call from you, otherwise she would of shown interest when you made an attempt at talking to her.

Yea, like I remember that i saw her sitting with her friends, and I wasn't sitting too far from them with my friends, and they were all just staring at us, giving us the dirtiest looks. WHY!?!?!?! Makes no sense.

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

Yea, like I remember that i saw her sitting with her friends, and I wasn't sitting too far from them with my friends, and they were all just staring at us, giving us the dirtiest looks. WHY!?!?!?! Makes no sense.

next time you catch it, have all your friends stare back at them, REALLY obviously. Get up and walk halfway over and just stand there staring silently for a minute.

It wouldn't help in getting her back, but if her friends know they're continuously staring at you, it will make them feel like tools, which is always fun.

If you're friends are too self concious, just do it on your own when you catch one of them staring at you. Stare back at her, and then after 10 seconds when its uncomfortable, wave, and continue till she stops.

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

next time you catch it, have all your friends stare back at them, REALLY obviously. Get up and walk halfway over and just stand there staring silently for a minute.

It wouldn't help in getting her back, but if her friends know they're continuously staring at you, it will make them feel like tools, which is always fun.

If you're friends are too self concious, just do it on your own when you catch one of them staring at you. Stare back at her, and then after 10 seconds when its uncomfortable, wave, and continue till she stops.

Lmao...That...Might work...My friends would be down to do it too though, they were willing to actually go cuss them off.

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

Lmao...That...Might work...My friends would be down to do it too though, they were willing to actually go cuss them off.

yeah but theres no funny and no personality behind just swearing at them. It's just being a dickhead, and reassuring their beleif in you.

But if you make it painfully obvious how painfully obvious THEY are, it makes them look like dickheads.

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

yeah but theres no funny and no personality behind just swearing at them. It's just being a dickhead, and reassuring their beleif in you.

But if you make it painfully obvious how painfully obvious THEY are, it makes them look like dickheads.

Hmm...Makes sense...

her friends will be whores and ruin everyhting..it happens all the time.

either they heard some rotten shit about you, or shes mad you didn't call.

just talk to the whore.

What would he (http://kongming.net/dw4/i/portraits/xiahoudun.jpg) do?!

Basically they're just stupid teenagers who think they figured you out as some jerk. Really though, they're wrong.

Just walk up to her and say it like it is something like... Hey, I lost your phone number last week so I didn't call. I'm glad I did lose it though becuase you do seem pretty immature judgeing me like that, see you around. Then just smile and walk off.

If she:

Apologises, at least she's confident enough to approach you and has some dignity. You may want to pursue it furthur...

-Says nothing or tries to snap back at you, just leave it.

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-The Goddess and Sexual Panzer that is MrMojoRisin

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

-The Goddess and Sexual Panzer that is MrMojoRisin



Exactly. I have purposely avoided reading this thread. Except for that bit.

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

next time you catch it, have all your friends stare back at them, REALLY obviously. Get up and walk halfway over and just stand there staring silently for a minute.



then he'll just look like some dumbass standing in the middle of the lunchroom staring at a table full of chicks

If she acted like this, it probably meant that it was REALLY important for her that you call her back. That's why she decided to play the game "You don't give me attention so I won't either". But she's really just testing you to see if you're a man and how you'll proceed to fix up things. Then she'll judge if you're worth her attention or not.

So talk to her. There's obviously a misunderstanding and communication is the only way to solve it.

She wouldn't be pissed about you not calling when you just met her the day before the weekend. If she is then she is *really* immature, but I doubt it. Maybe she was just being friendly at lunch and wasn't interested in the first place? Seems that way to me.

So all this is happening because you didn't call her, despite not being in any type of relationship? Do you really want to get involved with someone like that?

Whats she going to do when you "accidently" blow your load in her mouth?

I say move on, and start looking for intelligent women that aren't carrying around a shitload of self-esteem issues. The best revenge would be to be seen with your new girlfriend, or better yet, a few different girlfriends.....

quote:Originally posted by xiahoudun:

So ill get straight to the point. A couple weeks ago before 1st semester exams, I started talking to this girl.

So the first day was pretty cool. She was in the library by herself and I came and sat with her. We talked for a bit and I asked if we could chill during lunch, shes said ok.

So lunch was pretty general too. We did a bit a flirting, but mostly talked a lot. So after school I asked her for her number and she gave it to me.

Me being the dumbass, I forgot the number, so I would ask her next week (it was a Friday.)

SOOOoooOOOooo...On monday, I went up to her and said whud up, she said hi and walked off...Im like WTF? So I thought to myself, shes probably late for class or something. So at lunch, she was sitting in the cafe and I came up and asked her to chill with me outside. She said she was helping her friend right now and that I should come back later. So im like ok fine. I came back and she was gone...Right.

So I forgot about her for a week or so, saw her a couple times and then today I got the courage to actually ask her to hang after school. So me and my friends were near her locker and her friends were standing in front of it. They were ALL giving me dirty looks, or it seemed.

She came by and I asked what she was doing after school. She said in a real sarcastic and smart ass way "Going home?"

So I ask you all.

WTF totse, WTF

What do you all think, do you think shes a bitch?

I have a feeling her friends are gossiping about me though. Not sure. So tell me.

...sounds like a teen spirit.

She has a boyfriend now. She wouldn't have told her friends about you (girls don't unless it's moving forward.) and if she was flirting earlier it's probably not you.

Deal wit it.