I ran across some girl's profile, and looked at her pictures.I was mesmerized, I couldn't stop looking at these pictures, but I didn't know why, there was just something about them.I even bookmarked her profile.

And i sat there looking at her pictures for a bit listening to a song. Then i finally realized it. She looked Exactly like my Ex, when i realized that, "hey that's the reason why i've been looking at this picture for the past 5 minutes!", I felt like my mind was being flooded in memories and thoughts and everything started feeling like i was in a trace.

It's been 3 Months, is it wrong to still miss what i had? I've forgiven her, and I'd do whatever it takes to be with her again.

Without her I feel like I'm losing part of me daily, I laughed when I convinced myself some fucking chick on myspace that I don't even know looked exactly like my Ex, How fucking pathedic is that, Every girl I see reminds me of my ex.

I've tried.

I really have, I've tried to find her replacement, Going out of my way,when i meet a new girl none ever seem to meet my standards, and i think How the fuck can i learn to love this girl and i realize i can't since she's not what i want, so i keep trying and trying.

maybe I'm trying to hard.

Which is kinda ironic

Since my Ex once told me

"Never go looking for Love, Just wait and It'll come to you"

Fuck

i need a cigarette



[This message has been edited by brianSCENE (edited 02-16-2007).]

Shit happens, give it time.

quote:Originally posted by brianSCENE:

Fuck

i need a cigarette

SMOKE THAT CANCER STICK BOY!!!!!!

Bro it's rough I know, time does heal, I'm still waiting too.

It's not wrong to miss it. Don't have the mind set of looking for a replacement, because you'll never find one, you'll only find better.

Why did you break up?

Travel. Seriously, go somewhere. It will help immensely. Obsession like this is a result of your brain being flooded with chemicals, and studies show that a change of scene can help to clear them.

quote:Originally posted by brianSCENE:

I've forgiven her

For what?

I didnt read the thread. Theres no way to end the sentence 'I was browsing myspace and...' while keeping my interest.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Why did you break up?

Travel. Seriously, go somewhere. It will help immensely. Obsession like this is a result of your brain being flooded with chemicals, and studies show that a change of scene can help to clear them.

don't coincidentally move to where she's moving though. Then you'll imagine you see her everywhere.

And yes it was a coincidental move (same university).

I'm guessing she was your first girl. Here's my advice: stop trying to replace her. Or trying to find another girl. That will only end badly. Just let yourself have time to get over her. Let yourself think of her occasioanlly, but don't dwell on it. Think about her, then let the thought go.

You could easily still have feelings for her, it takes a long time to forget about.

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

SMOKE THAT CANCER STICK BOY!!!!!!

instead of looking for someone to replace her, look for chicks to hook up with.

cause then you have fun, and if you happen to develop an emotional connection, so be it!

do you have the myspace link??? i could introduce you to her or something.

No matter how hard you try, you will never be able to replace her. you will never, ever have a relationship just like the one the two of you had together, no matter how hard you try. the trick isn't about replacing, it's about getting over your feelings for her so you don't need to replace it - so you can find something new and different.

Whether it may not seem like it at the time, time DOES heal practically everything, I was in the same position as you, thinking it would never end, I would've sold my soul for her, but now I realize how stupid I was back then. One really great strategy is to pick apart every single one of her flaws, try to make yourself grateful that you don't have, it works trust me bud.

pics?