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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-02-16, 02:13
Ballin Ballin is offline
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Default So...i had sex for the first time today

after talking about it with my girl for a while... we decided to go for it

neway, we're both 16 and after fooling around and stuff...

is it supposed to feel like you are sticking your penis into a coca cola bottle?

it was really bad on my dick, it felt almost painful, like sticking your dick into a narrow coca cola bottle?

is this normal...or can any1 give me advise?
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:22
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Ft. Liquordale
Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

Lubrication. Lubrication. Lubrication.

Astrodglide. Rub it on you, rub it on her. And go for it. No more coke bottle.
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:22
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Sounds like she's really tight. Try fingering her for a while before having sex, and make sure she's very wet as well.

Then again, I haven't had nearly enough sex to be advising you on this, but I think my advice makes sense.
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:24
SublimeNirvana SublimeNirvana is offline
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Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

If it was her first time too then that might be it. Or she could just be tight or was just nervous and tensed up. It'll get better dont worry.
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:24
Ballin Ballin is offline
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Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

i probably should have stated this before... but we were both virgins yesterday

we used lube, it was still borderline painful, only helped a little
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:35
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quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

No more coke bottle.

lol
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:36
Vflo Vflo is offline
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Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

wrong hole fool
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:38
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

Sounds like you got the wrong hole :P

ok, seriously now

For it to work she really needs to feel both safe and secure.Then she'll be able to relax, widen and get real wet.

Make sure she knows that there is NO chance of her getting pregnant (ie discuss contraception together), that she can trust you and that no one will walk in.

Remember she is bound to be very self conscious the first few times.

A little alcohol can help...but I do mean a little...no more than a 'double' or so.
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:38
Ballin Ballin is offline
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Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

no... it was the correct one, as we could see what we were doing
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:42
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Ft. Liquordale
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quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

i probably should have stated this before... but we were both virgins yesterday

we used lube, it was still borderline painful, only helped a little

In that case, a wise woman once sang:

You've got lick it

Before you stick it.

This rings true even in the new millennium.
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:44
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dodging the rain and tractors
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quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

In that case, a wise woman once sang:

You've got lick it

Before you stick it.

This rings true even in the new millennium.



QFMFT!
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Old 2007-02-16, 02:50
Paul Kemp Paul Kemp is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

...it was really bad on my dick, it felt almost painful, like sticking your dick into a narrow coca cola bottle?...

Now I feel like I have to ask. Have you actually tried giving the ol' in-and-out to a coke bottle? This sounds like its from experience...
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Old 2007-02-16, 03:01
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dodging the rain and tractors
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quote:Originally posted by Paul Kemp:

Now I feel like I have to ask. Have you actually tried giving the ol' in-and-out to a coke bottle? This sounds like its from experience...

Too many years on &totse have taught me that someone was bound to ask and that someone here has already done it and posted pics to prove it.
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Old 2007-02-16, 03:09
DesertRebel DesertRebel is offline
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Default Re: So...i had sex for the first time today

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Too many years on &totse have taught me that someone was bound to ask and that someone here has already done it and posted pics to prove it.

Link to thread please? It sounds like such a thread would be archived, look at highlighter up the ass dude. That threads been immortalized.
 
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