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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-02-14, 12:33
Flock Flock is offline
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Default Noobtastic question about blowjobs!

Ok, so I was with one guy for three years, I was very good at giving him head by the end of that. He was circumcised.

Now, I have had uncut cock and stuff, but I'm nowhere near as confident with handling one of these. I worry about being too rough, or doing it wrong.

I've read it's the same in principle, only you have to be a bit more delicate. It's not like I'd launch in there with anything rough.. I'm careful.

So I just wanna know if there are any tips to remember, because I'm worried about the foreskin getting in the way or confusing me.

I know it sounds stupid, but without a penis in front of me, it seems a complicated concept.

Should I lick at the frenum while the skin is retracted, or will that be too intense? Should I hold the cock so that the skin stays back, or should it move around?

Arg, I feel like a right noob.. please answer guys and girls, without getting into a cut/uncut debate!
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Old 2007-02-14, 12:37
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Default Re: Noobtastic question about blowjobs!

When he's erect then there will very lttle difference to a cut cock.

SO quit worrying!

But by all means play with the foreskin, its highly sensitive.

Rule of thumb: treat his foreskin the way you treat (ie handle/touch) your clit hood.He'll tell you if you can be rougher etc.
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Old 2007-02-14, 12:41
Flock Flock is offline
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Default Re: Noobtastic question about blowjobs!

Thanks Jack, I just feel a little apprehensive towards going about it. This is the kind of advice that makes me feel more confident!
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Old 2007-02-14, 13:02
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Default Re: Noobtastic question about blowjobs!

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

Thanks Jack, I just feel a little apprehensive towards going about it. This is the kind of advice that makes me feel more confident!



I'm uncut. Basically, foreskin works in the same way as a dog with excess skin on it's neck. It's so there's some leeway. Foreskin means that there's no need for lube, because there's extra skin to move. You don't need to be gentle. Just give him normal head.
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Old 2007-02-14, 13:07
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Default Re: Noobtastic question about blowjobs!

I'm uncut, too. I don't know why you think you can't be rough, I wouldn't have it any other way ... When you see your bf next, just play around with it for a bit... You'll get an instant feeling for it.
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Old 2007-02-14, 13:11
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Default Re: Noobtastic question about blowjobs!

I'm uncut but I like my foreskin pulled back when being blown and I like blowjobs fairly rough (ie: I like a bit of gentle biting).
 
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