Over the weekend my girlfriend and her friend and I stayed in a hotel together for a martial arts tournament in Georgia. Her and I slept in the same bed together and when her friend fell asleep we ended up messing around a little.

We had no condom and she asked if I wanted it in. (This was my first time). In the heat of the moment and my own stupidity I said yes. It was amazing. We only had actual intercourse for about 10 minutes total (I got too overwhelmed with thoughts of a child being brought into the picture so I told her to stop and she just gave me a blowjob until I came). I didn't cum at all, i wasn't even close which was surprising to me considering Ive heard all the stories of how virigins let loose in about 30 seconds lol. Anyway, out of fear for what the possibilities could be I'm ofcourse worried about her being pregnant. I wasn't even close to reaching an orgasm and I've heard that I should be pretty safe and not worry about her being pregnant.

What are your guys opinions? Can pre-cum get a girl pregnant? Because i'm sure I probably had some around. I've read that it can get a girl pregnant, but chances are low. Thanks for your opinions in advance.

lol dude, only about 0.1-0% chance id think pre-cum would get her pregnant.

You would need to come right inside her to have a decent chance.

Start saving for child support.. You've got 18 years worth of payments to make..

Seriously, I'm 99.9999999% positive that you'll be just fine.

quote:Originally posted by canadiansensation:

Over the weekend my girlfriend and her friend and I stayed in a hotel together for a martial arts tournament in Georgia. Her and I slept in the same bed together and when her friend fell asleep we ended up messing around a little.

We had no condom and she asked if I wanted it in. (This was my first time). In the heat of the moment and my own stupidity I said yes. It was amazing. We only had actual intercourse for about 10 minutes total (I got too overwhelmed with thoughts of a child being brought into the picture so I told her to stop and she just gave me a blowjob until I came). I didn't cum at all, i wasn't even close which was surprising to me considering Ive heard all the stories of how virigins let loose in about 30 seconds lol. Anyway, out of fear for what the possibilities could be I'm ofcourse worried about her being pregnant. I wasn't even close to reaching an orgasm and I've heard that I should be pretty safe and not worry about her being pregnant.

What are your guys opinions? Can pre-cum get a girl pregnant? Because i'm sure I probably had some around. I've read that it can get a girl pregnant, but chances are low. Thanks for your opinions in advance.



Wow 10 minutes? im jealous, give me 2 and im spent..srsly

O and I wouldnt be worried about it, if you werent even close to cumming then there probably wasnt much precum anyway, if any.

There's always a chance. Invest in condoms.

Thats what i've been told. I'm just nervous. I definately can't support a child at the time being.

Also, about 2 days later i took the day off school and work and the girlfriend and I had sex about 3 different tiomes. Used a condom each time. Out of paranoid from the situation i've been thinking of anyway I could of gotten her pregnant. The second time we had sex that day I went to put the condom on and it was backwards. Meaning when you put it over the head of your dick and go to pull it down, it would pull down from the inside, not the outside. I flipped it the other way and I was just worried that there could of possibly been some left over cum on the head of my dick and that when I flipped the condom inside out that it could of gotten inside of her. But then I realized that I was told years ago that condoms have a chemical that instantly kill sperm once it comes in contact with the chemical. Is this true?

jesus man you worry about it THAT badly? i dont think theres any chance that youll get her pregnant. you need sperm to do that, and you need balls to make sperm. and it sounds as though you do not posess these football shaped balls of awesome that represent the glory it is to be a man. surely if you had those you would have more pride, and would have fucked the shit out of her regardless of the lack of condoms and pulled out to unload on her face right on the kisser which is a strategy real men like myself use during the cold seasons because the jizz will freeze before she has a chance to catch her breath from the shock and awe she experiences when enduring the power that is my penis, which will disable her speaking abilities allowing me to go straight to sleep without having to come up with a "cute answer" when she asks me what im thinking about and how i managed to "get so cute".

short version: grow some balls, youre fine

quote:Originally posted by Fuzi0nX:



Wow 10 minutes? im jealous, give me 2 and im spent..srsly

O and I wouldnt be worried about it, if you werent even close to cumming then there probably wasnt much precum anyway, if any.

lol, well when he had sex and went all the way until I came I went for roughly 50 minutes straight before I came. My girlfriend was shocked and didn't believe I was a virgin lol. (Not trying to toot me own horn)

Click. (http://tinyurl.com/22jour)

Also click. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-ejaculate)

So apparently, it's possible but unlikely. Make her take a test if her period doesn't start.

quote:Originally posted by canadiansensation:

But then I realized that I was told years ago that condoms have a chemical that instantly kill sperm once it comes in contact with the chemical. Is this true?

No.

[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 02-13-2007).]

That isn't true, unless they were full of spermicide lube. I doubt they were; these types of condoms are frowned upon for various reasons, such as short shelf life and causing infections in women.

quote:Originally posted by plehem12:

jesus man you worry about it THAT badly?

Yes I do. The thought of a child in my life right now definately scares me.

Wrap it before you tap it or don't play the penis lottery.

There are 1,000,000 sperm cells in pre-cum. It takes just one to get a girl pregnant. I say she has a 95% chance of getting pregnant. No joke. Morning after pill? It will work up to 3 days after. if not then your screwed. Srsly everyine knows nothing.

quote:Originally posted by Atticus_Ellis:

There are 1,000,000 sperm cells in pre-cum. It takes just one to get a girl pregnant. I say she has a 95% chance of getting pregnant. No joke. Morning after pill? It will work up to 3 days after. if not then your screwed. Srsly everyine knows nothing.

If thats so true how come the pull out technique works most of the time? Just cruious, not saying I'm doubting you or even trying to bash your opinion, just asking.

quote:Originally posted by Atticus_Ellis:

There are 1,000,000 sperm cells in pre-cum. It takes just one to get a girl pregnant. I say she has a 95% chance of getting pregnant. No joke. Morning after pill? It will work up to 3 days after. if not then your screwed. Srsly everyine knows nothing.

There have been no large-scale studies of sperm in pre-ejaculate, but some smaller-scale studies suggest that any sperm present may be ineffectual at causing pregnancy

quote:Originally posted by Atticus_Ellis:

There are 1,000,000 sperm cells in pre-cum. It takes just one to get a girl pregnant. I say she has a 95% chance of getting pregnant. No joke. Morning after pill? It will work up to 3 days after. if not then your screwed. Srsly everyine knows nothing.

you're retarded. I love how people always say it only takes one, which is bullshit. Only one in roughly 35,000 make it to the eggs. And it takes like multiple sperm to make it into the egg. REad before you post.

According to some literature that comes with the morning after pill, the pull out method is only slightly less effective than condoms over a year of regular use.

First of all, my current partner and I have been having sex regularly for almost a year. We always start out bareback for 10-20 minutes, because...it just feels so much better. And then i'll put on a condom and we'll finish that way. In all this time, she's never gotten pregnant. Not once. Based on those odds, i'd say its pretty safe. But then you have to deal with the constant paranoia. And I guess eventually you'll slip up and the odds will catch up with you.

Also, in a worst case scenario, there are some natural oils you can administer without her knowledge that can cure the pregnancy problem.

"momma told me never stop until I bust a nut, fuck the world if they can't adjust." -2pac

quit worrying about the future. live in the moment.

edit:

besides, you said you do martial arts with her....if it turns out she does become pregnant you can 'accidentally' kick the shit out of her in the stomach when sparring....problem solved.

[This message has been edited by chickenpoop (edited 02-14-2007).]