Okay, this is somewhat similar to a post someone else has posted in regards to weaning themself off porn. I sorta want to do that...but my primary goal is to try and remember the face of a girl I had a massive crush on.

Thing is, I cant remember her face, I know that sounds dumb but its the truth...I can remember her body, her clothes but when I try to visualise her face I draw a total blank

Is there any way to improve my ability to visualise/fantasise about her?

What, did you forget her face 5 minutes after you talked to her or 5 years?

I have the same problem, but its really not an issue unless you dont even recognize the person.

I suppose its a good way for the brain to compress database information on people by remembering specific things about a person instead of every single aspect.

Same thing has happened to me before...

cept i actually didn't recognise her once :O embarassing, but it made for conversation later..

No ideas here for help.. look forward to some myself

Where do you know her from?

I last saw her a year ago...here is the really weird thing, I found it very very difficult to masturbate about her, I mean I did think about her sexually, and she did bring a smile to my face, the main thing is she made me feel happy...and thats why I want to remember her.

use a hammer

oh you got to be fucking me...

YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T HAVE A CRUSH ON HER THEN DUMBASS!!

Use a photo.

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

oh you got to be fucking me...

YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T STALK HER THEN DUMBASS!!

If I did have a photo then yeah

quote:Originally posted by don_stracci:

Thing is, I cant remember her face, I know that sounds dumb but its the truth...I can remember her body, her clothes but when I try to visualise her face I draw a total blank

That's funny, I actually have the same problem when it comes to one of the chicks that I like. I basically got to hang out with her one or two times before I was forced to leave down for a little while. Now I just message her online and stuff, but I do infact have a really tough time remembering her face. Maybe I just smoke too much weed or someting.

I can't ever picture people in my head. I know what they look like, but that's not the same thing. They're descriptions, not pictures.

You'll probably wake up at 2am in six months when you've forgotten all about this stuff and remember exactly what she looks like. That's always the way things like that work.