Re: Kissing :-/
Actually what you did may be your saving grace. You left the impression that this guy isn't just after the quick lay. Granted it wasn't intentional, but still works. Now that you got the second date though, don't pass up this time. Even if it doesn't feel like the entirelly right moment, go for it. Because after that you run the risk of being slammed into the friends zone. But I say go in for a lite kiss. Nothing heavy, but enough for her to know your intentions.
Now, if she wants to start a serious make out session go for it, BUT, and heres the kicker, don't go beyond that. If she invites you inside to have a drink or whatever, go inside. Make out some, but do not go further than that.
If you think or she actually introduces the idea of sex, politely decline and subtlely as possible too. Tell her you had an amazing night and would love to see her again. And then the next time if she is willing to have at you again, then by all means go wild.
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