As probably none of you know, I am celibate. I get a lot of shit for it because I'm young and a dude. But in all honesty, I don't think I'll ever get laid, so why try, ya know? I'm pretty ugly even though all the girls I know say I'm hot. I'm prude, virgin and haven't had a girlfriend. I'm doing the 40 Day thing since the only thing I have left to tame is my over-average sex drive. To me, women are predictable, hypocritical, and in the end, it's not even worth it. I've given up on love, since it was never there for me.

And by the way, for those of you who don't know what celibacy is, it is the act of abstaining from love, affection and sexual behavior .

You're not celibate, you're just too scared to try. I'd like to see how celibate you are when you've got a couple of porn stars bouncing up and down in nothin' but their skivvies in yr bed...

One less horny dude to compete with, thank you for sitting it out.

Christ, people just give up too easily these days, you just gotta keep trying, learn some skills.

I'm not advocating it entirely, but look into the pick up artist scene, it's better than just deciding to be sad and lonely..

Yeah okay man, it's not that big a deal.

You want to be celibate, well, go for it.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 02-12-2007).]

I'll drink to that.

I congradulate you my friend. If you can do 40 days, then all the more to you.

Just a question. Why you worried bout getting laid? If your still young, you shouldn't expect it to have happened yet.

It isn't anything special, I'd prefer a good blow job myself.

I'm pretty pissed off right now because I accidently ashed my cig into my beer. I can only imagine what sort of rage/frustration you will be feeling by the end of this. And at least broken/lost love is sort of a good, all be it, gut wrenching pain.

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

You're not celibate, you're just too scared to try. I'd like to see how celibate you are when you've got a couple of porn stars bouncing up and down in nothin' but their skivvies in yr bed...

Actually I'd politely leave the room. No Joke. My friends themselves are amazed when they asked "If three hot girls wanted to have sex with you, would you do it?" and I replied "No".

And I am not afraid to try. In fact I've tried for a while before giving up. I just don't seem to care. Sex is overrated. Making out is nothing special. Love's a lie

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

Sex is overrated.

virgins aren't allowed to say that.

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

Actually I'd politely leave the room. No Joke. My friends themselves are amazed when they asked "If three hot girls wanted to have sex with you, would you do it?" and I replied "No".

And I am not afraid to try. In fact I've tried for a while before giving up. I just don't seem to care. Sex is overrated. Making out is nothing special. Love's a lie

Someone sounds depressed. I think you need some peanut butter fudge, that could cheer you up....either that or crack.

I think your lying to yourself. Deep down inside you must have the urge to love and be loved.

Either that or:

a)Your not human.

B)Your fucking insane.

quote:Originally posted by Leduc:

virgins aren't allowed to say that.



haha.

But sex is overrated.

-deus-

I like to quote Green Day and say, "Don't knock it until you've tried it."

I guess I just don't understand the viewpoint. When I was a virgin, all I wanted was to get laid.

If wome are predictable and hypocritical, why not just get with one JUST for the sex, and not a relationship, just to see if you like sex?

I was. Until I found Her. But I still have no sexual interest outside of my beloved.

I think it's a good idea. I always have been attracted to the ascetic life. Let's become Buddhist monks/Catholic priests/Hindu holy men together!

Edit: Oh yeah. Your generalization about women is no more true than the statement "all blacks are stupid" or "all Asians love math." People are people, and they vary. Beside that, I'm ugly as sin and I somehow landed me the girl of my dreams... so don't give up.



[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 02-12-2007).]

Ahh, look at this, another disillusioned teen who thinks all girls are bitches and loves' a lie.

How original!

quote:Originally posted by Leduc:

virgins aren't allowed to say that.



PWNT FAGGIT

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

Actually I'd politely leave the room. No Joke. My friends themselves are amazed when they asked "If three hot girls wanted to have sex with you, would you do it?" and I replied "No".

Talk is fucking cheap. When it happens IRL and you turn them down let us know, okay?

Stop looking for pity/attention.

No one cares that you're ugly or that you're giving up. You're the only one who loses when you say/think shit like that.

Are you giving up sex because you can't get any or because you really do want it?

If it's the second option, then I respect you and wish you all the luck.

If it's the first one, I think you're giving up too soon. You're (probably) young and you've got a lot of life to go.

(If you're young) I would suggest you just say you're abstaining from sex, not going celebate. Celibacy is something you do for life. Not just something you do for a couple of years and then just change your mind.

Maybe I'm looking too much into this...

So... anyways... I wish you all the best. :]



EDIT: Spelling.

[This message has been edited by kayla-tastikk (edited 02-13-2007).]

Don't give up man. An oppurtunity will sneak up on you, and from there, you'll have no problem with finding more opportunities.

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

Sex is overrated.

No. No its not.

girls are stupid overestimated beings with peanut sized brains.

its your job--no your natural and underlying duty as a man to tame this wild breast and fuck it.

god speed.

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

As probably none of you know, I am celibate. I get a lot of shit for it because I'm young and a dude. But in all honesty, I don't think I'll ever get laid, so why try, ya know? I'm pretty ugly even though all the girls I know say I'm hot. I'm prude, virgin and haven't had a girlfriend. I'm doing the 40 Day thing since the only thing I have left to tame is my over-average sex drive. To me, women are predictable, hypocritical, and in the end, it's not even worth it. I've given up on love, since it was never there for me.

And by the way, for those of you who don't know what celibacy is, it is the act of abstaining from love, affection and sexual behavior .

I'll drink to that, but hate to break it to you man, celibacy ain't the answer unless your becoming a catholic priest.

Do what I do, live life to the fullest, and one day, God help us all, you'll find that one girl, who'll like you in all that great crap, and well, you know how the story goes.

Yeah, its safe to come back from the toilet, you can quit puking now. (Cause its my fuckin turn!)

quote:Originally posted by Solidus:

Talk is fucking cheap. When it happens IRL and you turn them down let us know, okay?



Happened at least 3 times. It seems women want what they can't have. I find it similar to the "instinct" to where girls are attracted to assholes. I must say I am sad to inform these ladies of my oath. I hate making people feel rejected. I've had my share of them.

please take your emo pity grab somewhere else. All you'll get here is people making fun of you.

The more you try to repress something, the more it will backfire on you.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

...Catholic priests...

Yes! We have given up on women, but small children.... ahh.

Sorry.

Let's just have a bigass orgy !!!!

Bump. Simply to show that these asses have no respect for the 40 Day idea and they are either copying it because they have nothing better to do with their lives or just start a contest.

Its really easy to be celibate when your a virgin. Once you have sex and then try abstaining from it.. its incredibly difficult. Your young, and scared of the unknown.. go to parties, do some drinking and have some fun. Eventually you'll get your dick wet.

Who knows, you may find the right girl, anythings possible i guess :S

Celibacy is held with high-esteem, you make it sound like some sorry excuse for your detachable penis that you've lost.

quote:Originally posted by ShadedAssassin:

Once you have sex and then try abstaining from it.. its incredibly difficult.

That's what sucks about me. I lost my virginity at the somewhat young age of 15(I'm a guy) and the girl later left me and almost 2 years later I still haven't kissed a girl other than her, let alone had sex.

It just really fucked me up in the head, because you are right. You can't really miss something until you've experienced it, and in my case I got the worst of both worlds.