Been with this girl for a year + now and when we first started out I was the stargazed lover and she was a bit of an arse. And things started to switch round when she properly fell in love with me and I did as well.

But as of late I've started to go off her and I am not really missing her or care for 'us' much anymore. I still care about her and wish nothing bad to happen to her but I dont care about the actual relationship.

I do not know if it is a phase or not but its been a rather long phase (1month atleast) and I would rather like to be single I suppose but I know that she is the best I will ever get and beats every other girl by ten times...but for me it just isnt working properly. I do not know whether to leave her and be single for a while or carry on unsurefully and see how it goes.

Not every relationship works out.

Let's hope it's just a phase. You'll snap out of it, it just takes some time.

I'm assuming you're young...

Play the field!

Have a relationship with a chick for o maybe six months or so, then find another. You don't want to let it drag on too long because that only makes it harder to break up.

Mmm.

I was in the same situation. Neither of us were feeling it, we broke it off. Worked out for the best.