Me and this girl have been talking for about a month now, and we both "like" each other. We talk on the phone and chill at school and all, but she will never hang out with me outside of school.

Shes been used by guys a lot in the past, so she doesnt really trust guys, but seriously, she wont go on an hour long date with me. I'm getting fed up with this, i've talked to her about it before, and she says we'll chill soon, but it never happens.

I really want to be with this girl, but im getting really annoyed and pissed off about the whole situation. What should I do?

I might be a cynic, but if you tell her how you feel, and you get a vibe of bullshit back (something like let's take it slow), she aint worth it.

BEING IN PERSON, if you can't commit to that, you'll never amount to a good relationship. If she can't just go out with you, fuck it, I was in a similar situation.

She likes having someone to talk to, but she isn't actually attracted to you so she doesn't want you to start thinking you'll get anything physical from her, even if it's as simple as a kiss.

In short, start ignoring her and see what how she responds.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

She likes having someone to talk to, but she isn't actually attracted to you so she doesn't want you to start thinking you'll get anything physical from her, even if it's as simple as a kiss.

In short, start ignoring her and see what how she responds.

Good man. This exactlywhat i was planning on doing. I mean, we hold hands and all that shit, and im giving her one last chance on valentines day to let me take her out. If she busts out some bullshit excuse,, im going to ignore her for a bit.

someones on the verge of being in the friend zone....

the advice about ignoring her for a while is good. it drives girls crazy if they think you don't care...but they lose interest quick if you show too much interest in them.

yeah, i havent been responding to her texts/calls, and im going to "have some business to take care of" when im supposed to meet her by her class tomorrow. I think i really need this as well, so maybe i can clear my mind about this whole situation and make a final decision.

Stop being a tool and man up.

If the relationship isn't going the way you want then leave her be.