I feel like I fucked this up.

This chick I like went to a party with me and I am pretty sure she likes me but we didnt really do anything. When we were in the car home (both drunk) she was cuddling up on me but when we were back at the dorm we were just hanging out, not doing anything but talking. When she went to sleep all I got was a hug. I feel like I should have kissed her or something, but maybe I am just in the "friend zone". I dunno, I am still drunk but now I am depressed, I feel like I fucked it all up, like tonight was my only chance and I blew it.

YUR in THE ZONE



THE PHANTOM ZONE

that is loiek

youre ouit of puzzzy todday, sorryar, d00rs!

You pretty much did fuck it up.

Stop taking shit so seriously, stop analyzing every possible negative scenario, because you're missing out on what's actually happening.

Get her drunk again and kiss her. Pretend you're braver than you are and just do what you need to, soon enough it becomes second nature.

Well you probably could have gotten a make-out session, but you could probably get one some other time.

The friend zone is like a cancer of the sexual drive.

The friend zone should be cured.

Rape her, then all the guilt will go away.

New guilt will take over though.

When she was cuddling on you, you should of put your arm around her.

Unless you want her to leave you alone, you don't ignore those things...

Oh I did put my arm around her, it wasnt a one way cuddle. Its just that nothing else happened. Maybe she was waiting for me to make the next move?

quote:Originally posted by Kavinorum:

Maybe she was waiting for me to make the next move?

Even if she wasn't, and cuddling was as far as she wanted to go with you, I think you probably should have found out!

quote:Originally posted by Kavinorum:

I feel like I fucked this up.

This chick I like went to a party with me and I am pretty sure she likes me but we didnt really do anything. When we were in the car home (both drunk) she was cuddling up on me but when we were back at the dorm we were just hanging out, not doing anything but talking. When she went to sleep all I got was a hug. I feel like I should have kissed her or something, but maybe I am just in the "friend zone". I dunno, I am still drunk but now I am depressed, I feel like I fucked it all up, like tonight was my only chance and I blew it.

yeah dude, same shit happened to me the other day, except i didn't even get a hug. Shit was lame, but i'm not worrying about it. i been kickin it wit this girl a lot lately, i figre it'll come up some time soon anyway...

~meaty

Sorry bro but you blew it...

Drunk chicks who cuddle with you and then take you home are usually interested in more than just talking. She probably sensed your nervousness and then backed off a little bit.

K I know I blew that specific time, but is it possible in the future? There was an indication of interest the day before which is why I invited her.

Today I just spent the day hanging out with her friends. I got another hug at the end of the night.

And he fucks up and ends in the twillight zone.

[This message has been edited by 84SS (edited 02-12-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Kavinorum:

K I know I blew that specific time, but is it possible in the future?

No, you pretty much blew it for the rest of your life.