[This message has been edited by 84SS (edited 02-11-2007).]

First of all, getting that all out was important.

Secondly, try to accept what you can't control (someone else's feelings) and respect what you can.

Most of all, respect yourself, and do what's best for you in your opinion.

Life isn't too hard if you keep it simple. Good luck

quote:Originally posted by stab:

First of all, learn what the fuck paragraphs are

Fixed. I'm not reading through that huge of a block of text. If you can't take the one extra minute to write in an asthetically pleasing manner, why should I take the time to read it?

Oh come on, it's not that bad.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Fixed. I'm not reading through that huge of a block of text. If you can't take the one extra minute to write in an asthetically pleasing manner, why should I take the time to read it?

Exactly.

It's going to hurt a hell of a lot more if you don't make some attempt and just keep your feelings bottled up.

Sometimes the simplest things are best; take her out to dinner, a movie, or just talk.

I'm pretty sure you can think of something, but bottling up your feelings will definatly make you feel like crap.

Fixed. Sorry for the block'o'text. Still more of a read than what I wanted but it's complecated, to me at least.

I know what your talking about of keeping feelings bottled up but I can't open up. I've opened up alot to her more that I have to any other girl because I have trust issues but its like I can't pick up on the cues. And when I do I don't have anything to come back with. I just over analyze everything.

More than not I tell her this when I'm drunk because I throw cation into the wind and don't care of the outcome. I'm going to see her tomorrow and tell her sober. Hopefully if she see's I feel the same way sober then she'll see I'm serious.

[This message has been edited by 84SS (edited 02-11-2007).]

Okay now you've got paragraphs, I read it.

She's rolling with it mate. The only way to have her is to be there for her TWENTY FOUR HOURS of the day.

For instance, if you stayed last night she would have taken you home and you would have fucked her (or however far you were both willing to go).

Because you left, she probably fucked him.

I'm sorry man I know that hurts, but the thing you gotta know is that that's not your fault. You gotta look out for yourself. You didn't want to be there.

If she was loyal this would be easy, but she's not, she's swinging between two guys, so you're getting fucked over...

You're hers, but she's with 2 guys. She's two-timing, man. Doesn't matter what your feelings are for her, that's an undeniable truth.

The reason I presume she got with the other bloke is because she's not talking to you today. Same reason she didn't talk to him before, when she was with you...

This is my best guess and I'm no expert. But like all human beings, you have to realise she has faults and that these faults she has no control over, and that they can hurt you.

I don't know about all that man. She called me five mintues of typing my last post and we talked for about two hours. Mostly about what happened Friday. She was in the hospital for drinking way too much.

Anyway she says she went home at around 1:30 and dude was there with her. But she says nothing happened. She said if anything did she'd horribly regret it. Of the years we've been friends she'd normally tell me if she did.

I asked what's going to happen next and then there was silence. Finally she says she doesn't know. I'm still going to see her today and I'm still telling her when I'm sober.