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 #1 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:29
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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I've noticed a lot of you guys are really good with knowing about the law and such.



I was raped about two weeks ago and i was wondering if I came forward now if these two bruises would be enough. Maybe even for an assult charge?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1413.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1415.jpg



^one on stomach

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1433.jpg[/URL]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1424.jpg[/URL]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1420.jpg[/URL]



^one on face

I also have a tampon in the refrigerator with his semen on it. I would've gone and had a rape kit done, but it was too embarrassing. I also have bite marks and lacerations from his pocket knife.

If I wanted to say.... talk to someone about this, professionally, would they be obligated to report it to my parents? I'm only fifteen and they already think I'm an attention whore slut who sleeps with every guy she meets; I don't need to add this to my plate. I've been covering it up with makeup and such because I know they'd be disappointed and blame me.



Anyone else out there been raped? I sort of don't know what to do now.



[This message has been edited by kayla-tastikk (edited 02-10-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:32
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Go to the police. Take everything that could be evidence with you. Unless your parents are fucking sick they won't blame you.

-deus-
 #3 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:34
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Go to the police. You may be safe, but what if this guy keeps doing this to other girls?
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:35
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I'm really sorry.

I feel bad for you, but I don't know what to do.

We could watch movies, eat popcorn and laugh at Darth Vader spoofs?

Well... my heart goes out to you.
 #5 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:37
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who the fuck leaves a Z on someone did zorro rape you?

Anyways take the tampon with semen on it as evidence
 #6 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:38
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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Isn't it too late to press charges?



And my parents... wow. I'm pretty sure that no matter what I say or the police say, they'll blame me. You're probably thinking I'm exagerating their hatred of me, but let's just say the other day she told me that if she had the chance to go back, she would've drowned me at birth. Yeah. Not exactly the most loving/understanding woman.
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:40
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

I'm really sorry.

I feel bad for you, but I don't know what to do.

We could watch movies, eat popcorn and laugh at Darth Vader spoofs?

Well... my heart goes out to you.

That actually sounds pretty good right now.



And about the "Z" comment, it's actually a "W".... he left his mark...
 #8 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:42
Crack Man Crack Man is offline
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quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

That actually sounds pretty good right now.



And about the "Z" comment, it's actually a "W".... he left his mark...

he sounds insane is he a friend of yours or a guy you know or was it just some random guy who broke into your house and w/e

We need more details

Just go to the police, who cares what your parents think
 #9 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:45
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Crack Man:

he sounds insane is he a friend of yours or a guy you know or was it just some random guy who broke into your house and w/e

We need more details

Just go to the police, who cares what your parents think

He's actually my childhood best friend.

We grew up two houses down from each other.

And then a couple of weeks ago, we were alone and I wouldn't have sex with him so he hit my face and knocked me out.

Woke up the next morning in my bed with a hang over and a LOT of blood. :/



I wouldn't call him crazy. Sort of possesive maybe. Sad thing? I blame myself.
 #10 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:45
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Go to the police. You may be able to press charges, or you may not, but you should go to them either way. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Oh, and your parents sound like fucktards.
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:46
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quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

the other day she told me that if she had the chance to go back, she would've drowned me at birth.

What the FUCK?
 #12 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:47
M a t t Y M a t t Y is offline
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Go to the police. Now.
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:47
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quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

I blame myself.

Yeah it's easier to blame yourself. But it was his fault.
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:48
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

Go to the police. You may be able to press charges, or you may not, but you should go to them either way. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Oh, and your parents sound like fucktards.

I could think of worse to call them. But I think I might go tomorrow. Only problem is i have no mode of transportation... either the guy who did this or my parents take me everywhere...

Seems my face links up there are broken...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1434.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1433.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1420.jpg
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:50
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Why do you have a tampon in the refrigerator "with his semen on it"? How do you hide that anyway?

How drunk were you?
 #16 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:50
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You have the physical evidence to prove Battery and Rape. Provided everything is as stated. (not doubting you, just giving the legal scoop you want)

That bruise is pretty fucking bad. It's good you had the sense to take pictures of it.

Do you know this guy, or is he just some joe on the street?

If you know who the guy is, you've got a very damning case.

Edited: I missed part of the thread.

Best of luck. Get yourself down to the hospital ASAP and get tested for STDS, morning after pill, etc

[This message has been edited by RogueWarheart (edited 02-10-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:51
M a t t Y M a t t Y is offline
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What the fuck.

What have your parents/anyone you know said about the state of your face?...

Seriously, go the police.
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:53
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Holy shit...

What the hell, go to the cops right now.

Screw your fucking parents, after saying a thing like your mother said, I don't think their oppinions should be your first priority.

Cops...evidence...now!
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:55
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

You have the physical evidence to prove Battery and Rape. Provided everything is as stated. (not doubting you, just giving the legal scoop you want)

That bruise is pretty fucking bad. It's good you had the sense to take pictures of it.

Do you know this guy, or is he just some joe on the street?

If you know who the guy is, you've got a very damning case. If you don't know him, can you describe him in detail?

Assuming you don't know him, you have his DNA... most agencies could run that against a DNA bank (when you're convicted of a felony, you're required to give a DNA sample, in most states at least)

Considering that rapists are repeat offenders, he could be in there.

Best of luck. Get yourself down to the hospital ASAP and get tested for STDS, morning after pill, etc



guy I knew. Best friend until then in fact.



I didn't even think about the morning after pill. That makes me wanna throw up. The thought hadn't even crossed my mind.



To oc6: The tampon thing i saw in CSI once. Perserving evidence... and I hide it in one of mmy old protein drink bottles.

I wasn't drunk, I'm pretty sure I was drugged.

About my face, I have what some would call "emo" hair (hides half of my face) and i'm good with make up.
 #20 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:56
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quote:Originally posted by M a t t Y:

What the fuck.

What have your parents/anyone you know said about the state of your face?...

Seriously, go the police.

I was wondering that myself. It's kinda hard to miss.

Provided there is DNA, as she says, it's going to be a pretty fucking damning case for at least rape, but depending on the state, it could be Rape or Felony Battery(those injuries fall under the category of Felony)

Could be Aggravated Rape or w/e.

Point is, with DNA, it's a lock. There is no way in hell you can convince of a judge or jury that those injuries in those pictures are from "consensual sex".
 #21 
Old 2007-02-10, 23:57
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Why did you take down your other photo's?
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Old 2007-02-10, 23:58
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AHAHAHAAHA!

Were you raped by Zorro?

Shit...if I got raped by Zorro...I wouldn't complain...hottttyy.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:00
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Was your ex-bestfriend drunk or drugged?



[This message has been edited by Volcanbaru (edited 02-11-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:00
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Why did you take down your other photo's?

Didn't do it on purpose, links got fucked up when I edited.

After what someone said about the morning after... my life would be ruined if I was pregnant. i'm against abortion (don't go all anti'abortion on me, i have my reasons) and don't think I'd be able to last the whole pregnancy without killing myself.
 #25 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:02
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Volcanbaru:

Was your ex-bestfriend drunk or drugged?



Not that I know of.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:03
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quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

Didn't do it on purpose, links got fucked up when I edited.

After what someone said about the morning after... my life would be ruined if I was pregnant. i'm against abortion (don't go all anti'abortion on me, i have my reasons) and don't think I'd be able to last the whole pregnancy without killing myself.



I mean c'mon, do you want a kid that remind you of the person who raped you?

Not good at all. You should take morning after pill right away, at this sec before it's too late.



[This message has been edited by Volcanbaru (edited 02-11-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:03
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Well. Something about this don't ring right to me.

But...anyway...press charges if you want. Your choice.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:03
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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Why do you have a tampon in the refrigerator "with his semen on it"? How do you hide that anyway?



the semen would have died and you couldnt prove it was him. to "freeze" semen you have to use liquid nitrogen
 #29 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:04
M a t t Y M a t t Y is offline
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Its good to see, or at least appear to be handling this in a sensible manner.

Don't bottle shit like this up if its getting at you - Theres people to talk to about shit like this, of at least even someone of the more experienced members of this board.

Just get to the police station first thing tomorrow morning.

Don't think anything different, the guys fucking scum and needs castrating.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:06
M a t t Y M a t t Y is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Ravenman:

the semen would have died and you couldnt prove it was him. to "freeze" semen you have to use liquid nitrogen

Regardless shes still had the shit beat out of her by the looks of it..
 #31 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:07
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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Well. Something about this don't ring right to me.

I think it's the fact that he sorta snapped, and that she's so cool with it even though she knows what happened.

*gives kayla a big hug*

Darth Vader spoofs it is
 #32 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:09
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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So, just took a pregnancy test and I'm waiting the required ten minutes.



I'm pretty sure that I'm gonna pass out if time doesn't move faster.



oc6, what doesn't feel right?

I'm sorry if I sound like my story is shaky, but I'm telling y'all as much as I can.
 #33 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:13
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

I think it's the fact that he sorta snapped, and that she's so cool with it even though she knows what happened.

*gives kayla a big hug*

Darth Vader spoofs it is



It's not really that I'm cool with it, it's just that I don't want people to think I'm some psycho, or something.



It's also hard to grasp that my best friend, we were in diapers together, did this to me. For so long he was my rock, and now I have no one to go to.



2 more minutes-ish for the test.
 #34 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:15
oc6 oc6 is offline
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Well...I've been raped.

Never saw them again either.

Never pressed charges either.

I just got on with my life and did less stupid things.

Since this guy is a part of your life...and it sounds like your life is pretty screwy...and you're a minor...you should press charges, imo.
 #35 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:15
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Go to the police now. The damge may have already been done to you. but what if he does that to other girls?

And I feel very sorry for you. But GO TO THE POLICE NOW!!!
 #36 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:17
kayla-tastikk kayla-tastikk is offline
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I now hold in my hands a positive pregnancy test. Wow.

15 and pregnant with rapist's baby.



Don't get me wrong, under ANY other circumstances, I wouldn't mind carrying his child. Hell, he was my best friend.



I know there are such things as false positives, but they're not likely, are they?
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:18
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Add me to msn, it's in my profile under ICQ number.

Orrrr maybe it's not... hang on...

K it's in there now.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 02-11-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:19
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Prepare to be a mother then...or to give it up for adoption.

Good luck.
 #39 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:23
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I didnt see any of th original questions answered. Some lawyers will try and make the thread through the moving needle eye argument. Basicly saying that a woman cant be raped unless she wants it. They will probably try and put you on trial instead and deflame your character. The tampon will be the deal breaker if theres semen on it. Pictures of the bruises are a good thing.

Basicly its your word agaist his. Get a lawyer, go to the cops, abort the kid.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:24
M a t t Y M a t t Y is offline
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Bugger..

Well, looks like you've got some tough times ahead.

Good luck.

Well, there is now solid evidence, at least you can get that fucker.
 #41 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:27
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Go to the cops, ASAP.



Where'd you get the pregnancy test from? Surely if you can get to one of those, you can get to cops..?
 #42 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:27
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quote:Originally posted by M a t t Y:



Well, there is now solid evidence, at least you can get that fucker.



A baby, merely proof of sex. The tampon, the same. The pictures. I dunno. Could have been anyone.
 #43 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:31
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I suspect troll. If you arnt a troll then let me make this clear.

CALL THE POLICE!

Are you stupid or something? It doesn't matter if hes your "friend". He knocked you out and raped you. A friend wouldn't do that. Call the police before all the evidence is gone. If don't call the police then I suggest you abort that baby, to stop stupid genetics from polluting the human gene pool.

Srsly. Call the police for your own fucking good.
 #44 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:32
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give us an update. i cant really give you any advice than what was already provided.

let me just say "wtf". i'm sorry, no one needs a fucking friend like yours.
 #45 
Old 2007-02-11, 00:33
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If you're going to go to someone with the evidence, you NEED to do it now. in only a freezer, the genetic material in his sperm isn't going to last forever.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:36
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She's going to sleep for now, but will be back on in the morning.

To those who think she's a troll, well, I at least believe her. She's too composed to not be genuine. I haven't even seen the pictures. Don't need to.

Oh and she needs the sleep.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 02-11-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:40
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OP is an attention whore.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:41
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quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

OP is an attention whore.

I'm expecting more of this negativity in the next few posts. Fucking predictable, dude.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:53
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quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

OP is an attention whore.

Troll.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:57
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This seems awfully trollish....



But on the off chance that it isn't, good luck.
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Old 2007-02-11, 00:58
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

I'm expecting more of this negativity in the next few posts. Fucking predictable, dude.

Oh come on...seriously.

This is getting ridiculous.
 #52 
Old 2007-02-11, 01:01
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quote:Originally posted by Bazzle:

Oh come on...seriously.

This is getting ridiculous.

It's a troll, one of the best I've seen.
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:03
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Or a person with nobody to talk to and nowhere to go.

God dammit, you paranoid fucks. Sometimes you just gotta have a little faith.
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:08
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I'm not totally sure I believe you.....but the pics are pretty convincing, you got beaten really bad by someone and you should KILL that fucker that did it. Seriously, appeal to your parents/a church for help and NOTIFY THE POLICE. Do it NOW.
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:17
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

Or a person with nobody to talk to and nowhere to go.

God dammit, you paranoid fucks. Sometimes you just gotta have a little faith.

BRILLIANT! I shall go secretly proliferate my shame by putting my pictures and an explicit sob story on the most secure, private and anonymous venue in the existence of man! TO THE INTERNET!
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:18
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Maybe being in Sex and Affection has sensitized you stab. Maybe you need to just see it through someones eyes who's hardly ever in S&A
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:41
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Nah, I like the way I see the world. And very clever, Bazzle. Have you ever wondered if it's people like you who make people like you paranoid?

Listen, you've either gotta trust or not. I've lost girlfriends to my own paranoia, relationships to people I've loved and that's the worst thing you can lose that isn't yourself, so I'd rather trust even if I do end up being wrong. At least I gave it a crack.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 02-11-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:47
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This is like one of the saddest threads ive read in awhile, girl gets raped by her best friend,then finds out shes pregnant by the little twat...

I pray this is all a troll post
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:52
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Sorry, but the bruises on face look remarkably fake.

Also, in the thread about devotion to beautiful women or whatever, didn't you post a pic of your belly with a cut on it?



Anyways, if you aren't an attention-seeking liar, then you should go to the doctor's right away with all of your evidence. There is a law where doctors cannot release patient information, not even to the parents. You wont be able to press charges, since you are afraid of your parent's reaction, but at least a doc could check you out.

You're pregnant? I didn't know pregnancy tests can determine pregnancy after only two weeks. It usually takes longer than that...



[This message has been edited by Astr0cide (edited 02-11-2007).]
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Old 2007-02-11, 01:57
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Anyone know the legality of abortion in wherever he is?

Having to be pregnant for 9 months would be a fucking awful result.

By the time shes gone through her ungodly painful labour.... actually I'm not going to say it because she's going to come back here and read it.

Woman, if you cant go out there RIGHT NOW and get an abortion, go out there and go to court and get some kind of special circumstances exemption, so you CAN get an abortion. Dont just think about how fun it will be to have your best friends baby, think about the 9 months prior to that, when your a pregnant 15 year old with a rapists baby. Oh, and not everyone knows you were raped, by the way. They all think you're a slut.

Get a fucking abortion, or failing that, a court order allowing it.

Sorry to be harsh but... its true.
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Old 2007-02-11, 02:03
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Heh... Well, for the record i'm not trolling, I have a feeling that the OP has over exaggerated something at some point. Becuause everything seems just that little bit off. I'm not saying that her story is bullshit or anything, i'm just thinking that she's a real attention whore. Thats all.

^ Am I being the troll here, or is it someone else?
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Old 2007-02-11, 02:03
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quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

Anyone know the legality of abortion in wherever he is?

Having to be pregnant for 9 months would be a fucking awful result.

By the time shes gone through her ungodly painful labour.... actually I'm not going to say it because she's going to come back here and read it.

Woman, if you cant go out there RIGHT NOW and get an abortion, go out there and go to court and get some kind of special circumstances exemption, so you CAN get an abortion. Dont just think about how fun it will be to have your best friends baby, think about the 9 months prior to that, when your a pregnant 15 year old with a rapists baby. Oh, and not everyone knows you were raped, by the way. They all think you're a slut.

Get a fucking abortion, or failing that, a court order allowing it.

Sorry to be harsh but... its true.

Just imagine the look on the kids face when she tells it that it's birth was the result of rape by her best friend
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Old 2007-02-11, 02:22
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you seem rather nonchalant for a victim of a brutal rape.
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Old 2007-02-11, 02:23
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quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

I have a feeling that the OP has over exaggerated something at some point. Becuause everything seems just that little bit off.

Okay I'm not talking for her man, I'm talking from my personal point of view.

In my own threads, I leave out details and gloss over others because I worry if anyone will think I'm stupid.

It's immature and highly lame, but it makes me feel more secure and also, makes my threads and situations seem a little doubtful (because you're not getting the full story).

I wouldn't be surprised if Kayla felt the same way.
 #65 
Old 2007-02-11, 02:23
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this was *almost* brilliant trolling.

But you need EMOTION, man! EMOTION! Girls who are raped are supposed to be completely horrified and shit. And the part about the tampon in the fridge was pretty hokey too. Come on, you can do much better.
 #66 
Old 2007-02-11, 02:26
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I agree with leaving out details and such, but I'm still calling bullshit.
 #67 
Old 2007-02-11, 02:29
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quote:Originally posted by Ravenman:

the semen would have died and you couldnt prove it was him. to "freeze" semen you have to use liquid nitrogen

You're an idiot. You dont need to freeze anything. DNA isnt a chocolate pudding that needs to be kept cool or it will go bad. I've seen DNA tests on 30 year old pairs of panties and they got a conviction.

[This message has been edited by Das Troll (edited 02-11-2007).]
 #68 
Old 2007-02-11, 02:40
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It doesn't even need to be frozen, how else would they have made jurrasic park?

On a more serious note: Police, nuke the rape child.

Are you going to explode if you kill it or something? You'll certainly explode if you don't.

On a side note: god is a piece of shit.
 #69 
Old 2007-02-11, 03:04
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The bruises on your face just looks like brown eyeshadow to me...

The one on your stomach is pretty realistic.

And The cut, it doesn't really look deep enough for you to "wake up with a lot of blood" and if it was, I think it would be a little less healed by now.

Also, You have a scar(s)on your upper stomach and what appears to be a burn scar. Which could be from the rape for all I know, But I doubt it...

Anyways, Troll, I say.

Who posts about their rape on totse but doesn't go to the police?

How old are you? you could just be going through the whole "look at me, look at me!!" phase.



[This message has been edited by veknil (edited 02-11-2007).]
 #70 
Old 2007-02-11, 03:09
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shit youre 15, got raped, and stuck with a kid. there's no doubt you should go to the police and watch ure so called childhood friend go to mafuckin prison and rot, that bitch.
 #71 
Old 2007-02-11, 03:13
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get your ass off of &totse and go to the cops

[This message has been edited by vazilizaitsev89 (edited 02-11-2007).]
 #72 
Old 2007-02-11, 03:38
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If it were me, I would kill him.



But the most practical solution here is to take all of the evidence to the cops and sort it out the best you can.

Dont worry about your parents. If they are as crazy as you say, they probably dont give a crap anyway. Truthfully though, your parents probably *would* care if you said that you were raped.

Trials take forever..... personal revenge is quicker and easier.

But going through the police is the best and most legal option.
 #73 
Old 2007-02-11, 10:08
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quote:Originally posted by veknil:

you could just be going through the whole "look at me, look at me!!" phase.

She posted about how she was a cutter, before.
 #74 
Old 2007-02-11, 10:26
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I call bullshit. Why do you have bruises on each eye. That shit is probably just eye shadow. I hope you do get raped now.
 #75 
Old 2007-02-11, 10:28
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What kind of parents would let massive bruises pass without comment on their 15 year old daughter?

You are seriously unlucky; the chances of getting pregnant while being raped are slim. If your body hasn't properly prepared to have sex beforehand, I think it's difficult for the sperm to sneak their way up. But, it can happen.

DO tell your parents, and if they are responsible, they will help you in EVERY way they can.
 #76 
Old 2007-02-11, 10:35
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ATTN: YOU DON'T NEED TO PHYSICALLY VISIT THE POLICE STATION, YOU CAN CALL THE POLICE AND IF YOU'RE IN ANY WESTERN NATION THEY WILL COME TO YOU

Please, do it right now. If not for yourself, for his potential next victim.

God speed and good luck.
 #77 
Old 2007-02-11, 10:44
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owned
 #78 
Old 2007-02-11, 11:03
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i have a very strong suspicion that this is fake. the stuff isn't adding up, and the bruises look terribly fake.

if it's not a troll, i apologise. please call the police, report it and ask them to find you someone to talk to.

if i'm right and this is a troll, it's an awful thing to be faking. there are girls out there with real issues and problems and if people continue to fake this to try and get attention, those with real problems won't come forward for help.
 #79 
Old 2007-02-11, 12:39
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How soon after did you take these pictures?
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Old 2007-02-11, 16:47
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That's pretty bad.

You were sober, very deffinately didnt want him, and he still took it.

That's fucking evil.



Your parents sound awfull. I think you'd be very much better off if you went to the police, told them what that bastard did to you, and also tell them what your parents are like.

YOu may want to emphasise a bit on what they're like,

..You might be safer with an adoptive family or the such.If your parents dont automatically want to protect and love you if they hear something so awfull happened to you, they dont fucking deserve to be parents.



I'm not maternal at all, but it makes me so fucking pissed off that your mother could say such shit.

Are you in the UK? You can come and crash with me, my boyfriend and the guinea pigs if you like. We're all totaly harmless except for the collection of machettes and other armageddon preperation.

(yoyobek@yahoo.co.uk)
 #81 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:02
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

I'm really sorry.

I feel bad for you,

Well... my heart goes out to you.
 #82 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:11
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I'm going out on a limb and calling bullshit.
 #83 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:13
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quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

ATTN: YOU DON'T NEED TO PHYSICALLY VISIT THE POLICE STATION, YOU CAN CALL THE POLICE AND IF YOU'RE IN ANY WESTERN NATION THEY WILL COME TO YOU

Please, do it right now. If not for yourself, for his potential next victim.

God speed and good luck.
 #84 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:24
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quote:Originally posted by Crack Man:

This is like one of the saddest threads ive read in awhile, girl gets raped by her best friend,then finds out shes pregnant by the little twat...

I pray this is all a troll post

Go to the police, as soon as possible. Your parents sound like assholes, What you do with yourself is your privacy. But when you say NO, it means NO.

Ring the cops NOW and do something about it, im sure hes going to do this to other girls...
 #85 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:34
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If this isn't a troll then get off Totse and get down to your local cop shop now! The sooner you get there the more they can help you.
 #86 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:43
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quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

God speed

For some reason that made me laugh.
 #87 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:51
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i think this is a trolllll also.

even a stupid person should have more since to post this on totse.

an considering ou barely joined an have less than50 post mean you havnt been here long(something a troll would do)

an your post seems to story like.(something a troll would do)

an the facts your parents dont notice 2 black eye(ps. they do look kinda fak) doesnt add any truth to the story
 #88 
Old 2007-02-11, 17:58
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tastikk is aslo kinga close to

taintedd
 #89 
Old 2007-02-11, 18:43
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*picks up phone*

*starts dialing numbers*

Oh, sorry, Im just calling bullshit
 #90 
Old 2007-02-11, 19:28
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OP= TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL



[This message has been edited by 1baddude (edited 02-11-2007).]
 #91 
Old 2007-02-11, 20:17
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quote:Originally posted by CDAWG:

tastikk is aslo kinga close to

taintedd

But then taintedd was a stupid cunt who chose to get herself into that situation and chose to get so drunk she couldnt controll herself.

It doesent sound like that in this sitaution.

It's kind of sad what totse has become when someone posts about a violent rape and we cant even be sure if it's a serious post or just a joke..
 #92 
Old 2007-02-11, 20:18
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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:



It's kind of sad what totse has become when someone posts about a violent rape and we cant even be sure if it's a serious post or just a joke..

I have been debating all day whether or not this thread was straight up or needed closing.
 #93 
Old 2007-02-11, 21:00
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If you're not trolling:

*gives hug*
 #94 
Old 2007-02-11, 21:32
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Rapetalogist:

Find that guy get a strap on. Get him drunk and put the rape drug in and drag him to your place an RAPE HIM AND BEAT THE FUCK AT OF HIM >:|

post pictures
 #95 
Old 2007-02-11, 22:29
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quote:Originally posted by deus-redux:

Go to the police. Take everything that could be evidence with you. Unless your parents are fucking sick they won't blame you.

-deus-

I had a friend who was raped and her parents didnt believe her. Her parents even managed to convince the police that she was a lying attention whoring slut. It was pretty brutal..
 #96 
Old 2007-02-11, 22:52
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quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

Originally posted by neato bandito:

Go to the police. You may be able to press charges, or you may not, but you should go to them either way. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Oh, and your parents sound like fucktards.

I could think of worse to call them. But I think I might go tomorrow. Only problem is i have no mode of transportation... either the guy who did this or my parents take me everywhere...

Seems my face links up there are broken...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1434.jpg (http: //img.phot obucket.co m/albums/v 239/OrliBl oomLover/p retty%20fa ll/DSCF143 4.jpg)

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1433.jpg (http: //img.phot obucket.co m/albums/v 239/OrliBl oomLover/p retty%20fa ll/DSCF143 3.jpg)

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v239/OrliBloomLover/pretty%20fall/DSCF1420.jpg (http: //img.phot obucket.co m/albums/v 239/OrliBl oomLover/p retty%20fa ll/DSCF142 0.jpg)



You look kicked to shit. I'm sorry totse is not the way to determine how to handle this.

mode of transportation? WTF? it's called 911, call it. "Hello, I was raped a few days ago, I need to report this, can I get a cop car to come to *_____* address."

Sounds to me like you don't want to report the guy though, or else you already would have.
 #97 
Old 2007-02-11, 23:06
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Uhh... how did you get raped with a tampon in?

Edit: I just looked at the pictures. Your eye would be terribly bloodshot if that bruise was real. And there's no swelling.

[This message has been edited by Demoiselle (edited 02-11-2007).]
 #98 
Old 2007-02-11, 23:14
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quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Uhh... how did you get raped with a tampon in?

Edit: I just looked at the pictures. Your eye would be terribly bloodshot if that bruise was real. And there's no swelling.



She meant she put the tampon in after, to gather evidence, I think.

But yeah.. it doesn't add up to me. Unless she took the pictures within the first few days or something, the bruises wouldn't look that colour. And this happened two weeks ago. I don't think it adds up. But I feel bad about just accusing someone of trolling.. it's my logic that says things aint right.
 #99 
Old 2007-02-11, 23:21
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quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Uhh... how did you get raped with a tampon in?

It's possible. But she probably put the tampon in after, to swab out the semen for evidence.

I still think she's lying for attention, though. She posted a pic of her belly with a cut on it in a thread about "devotion to Beautiful Women" as if she found it sexy or something (but deleted it after I mentioned this) along with other horrible angle shots and another member said she was telling people she liked to cut herself.

And then she posts a thread about being raped and then the guy (a best friend) cuts a "W" into her belly to leave his mark and impregnates her.

The bruises on her face look like nothing more than makeup. She is the emo type, was probably experimenting with new ways to do her makeup and then came up with the idea to fantasize about being raped and marked.

She claims to watch CSI, hence the reason why she was so smart to get the semen on a tampon. Doesn't make sense why she wasn't smart enough to simply call the police or the doctor's.
 #100 
Old 2007-02-11, 23:27
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You're pretty ugly, who'd want to rape you?
 #101 
Old 2007-02-11, 23:28
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quote:Originally posted by Astr0cide:

I still think she's lying for attention, though. She posted a pic of her belly with a cut on it in a thread about "devotion to Beautiful Women" as if she found it sexy or something (but deleted it after I mentioned this) along with other horrible angle shots and another member said she was telling people she liked to cut herself.

And then she posts a thread about being raped and then the guy (a best friend) cuts a "W" into her belly to leave his mark and impregnates her.

The bruises on her face look like nothing more than makeup. She is the emo type, was probably experimenting with new ways to do her makeup and then came up with the idea to fantasize about being raped and marked.

She claims to watch CSI, hence the reason why she was so smart to get the semen on a tampon. Doesn't make sense why she wasn't smart enough to simply call the police or the doctor's.In the eating disorder thread she mentioned having "cuts all over her body". Your final point was pretty neat too. I've been trying to do information digging.. I feel bad about it, and it probably won't prove anything, but it just seems rather unplausable.
 #102 
Old 2007-02-11, 23:35
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quote:Originally posted by Ravenman:

the semen would have died and you couldnt prove it was him. to "freeze" semen you have to use liquid nitrogen

You can still get DNA from it. You can get DNA from a dead corpse can't you? Same principle.
 #103 
Old 2007-02-12, 00:36
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quote:Originally posted by Retaliatory Anus:

You're pretty ugly, who'd want to rape you?



You're a virgin, stfu and die.

To the op, if you live in/around Kansas and want me to put this motherfucker in a hole in the ground somewhere let me know.
 #104 
Old 2007-02-12, 01:14
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I have her on msn and she went to a clinic and confirmed that she's pregnant. She said she was going to kill herself and she hasnt been online since.

I guess her parents got there wish.
 #105 
Old 2007-02-12, 01:33
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God I got through the first page and I couldn't read anymore... This has got to be one of the saddest stories I've heard in along time. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. I really can't emphasize how much I feel for you... I'm so sorry.
 #106 
Old 2007-02-12, 01:39
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quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

I have her on msn and she went to a clinic and confirmed that she's pregnant. She said she was going to kill herself and she hasnt been online since.

I guess her parents got there wish.

This confirms my suspicions: She is an attention whore. No one else sees it?
 #107 
Old 2007-02-12, 02:01
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Wow. Didn't mean to stir up this much controversy. I ndid not kill myself (obviously) and I did confirm about my pregnancy...



Ok. Not going to get an abortion, not an attention whore or troll, and for all of your other problems with my story, I'm sorry.

I'm so calm about it because that's how I've been forced to be in my everyday life.



To those offering me shelter, I live in Texas.

I am going to go to the police tomorrow and try and get everything straightened out.

To those who doubted because of my previous posts, yes I was/am a cutter. That has nothing to do with my ability to be violently raped, does it?

To those who doubted because I came to totse- I have no where else to turn. Like I've already said, he was my rock, the one I would have turned to under any other circumstances.

To the person who doubted my bruises because of lack of swollen-ness and such, there is swelling, I guess it doesn't show up very well, also the bruise isn't actually brown, it's purple and green. The other eye had eye shadow on it because I had just taken the makeup off of my bruise. And to insinuate that this was eyeshadow really hurts.

To the person who says they added me on MSN... I only talked to one person on MSN. That was stab because he was trying to comfort me in my time of need.

Because I'm really sorry about causing this much shit to get going and such- I'm asking one of the mods to close this.

If anyone cares to debate with me the validity of my story:

MSN: prncessponyqueen@hotmail.com

AIM: kaylatastikk

EDIT: for spelling and grammar.



[This message has been edited by kayla-tastikk (edited 02-12-2007).]
 #108 
Old 2007-02-12, 02:08
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I will do as you ask and close this. However I would be interested to hear what happens on this.
 
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