For a bit of background, I'm female, and a virgin. Not sure how much age matters here, but I'm still in highschool.

While I'm not in a huge rush to get laid (not waiting til marriage, but would rather not have my first time to be drunken back room at the party sex) there are a couple things that make me nervous.

Of course, there is the "shit, I guess this means he'll see me naked, dosent it? "

But, I often hear of guys complaining that women just lie there while they basically masterbate into her. I'd really, really like to not be one of those, so I ask you..

If the guy is on top, whats expected of the girl?

Enthusiasm...most of all.

Thrust back with each thrust of his. Don't stay quite, make sure he can hear your pleasure. Talk to him if he's not doing it correctly, or if you just don't like it. Make sure that you don't over do it, otherwise you will get bored soon.

Make sure to try different positions and in different places. Don't be afraid of trying new things.

Make love to him and his body.

Kiss him often, run your hands through his hair, wrap your legs around him sometimes, and just feel and follow the rhythm of his thrusting.

Put on a little show, nothing is worse than a boring fuck. Can you sing?

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

Put on a little show, nothing is worse than a boring fuck. Can you sing?

Haha, this is gold!

The more you do it, the better you will get. Can't really expect to be great at it the first time.

My gf freaked her first time. Cried.. bled.. yo u get the gest.. so dont expect to be able to do much.



I always like it when my lady grabs my arms and stuff

Talk dirty.

Make sure you're ready to actually take a dick.

I was with a girl that'd been with a guy that had a micro dick. I got maybe an inch or two into her, and felt resistance. I guess she was still a 'virgin', because she winced in pain if I poked her hard.

Make sure you want it, relax, get wet, and have him use a lubricated condom. Hopefully it won't go too bad.

grab his, arms, ass, wrap your legs around him, dig your heels to into his ass, run your hands all over his body, let yourself make noise and facial expressions (but don't force it)

Try a little light biting/scratching, if he responds positively get a little rough.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

wrap your legs around him



This seems to make sex a LOT easier with girls who are quite tight, so I recommend it too. Wrap your legs around his ass basically. It should feel a lot better for both of you.

Major rule number 1:

Make, a LOT of noise. There's nothing hotter, to me, than a girl moaning in ecstasy.

good topic, i've wondered about this as well. so it appears that the idea is to be enthusiastic (thrusting, moaning) and just be into it. seems pretty easy. and fun.

Just be like most virgin females and show off your 1337 st4rf1sh skillz.

It's not about what's to be expected.

If you enjoy it, you'll enjoy it more if you fuck him too. If you don't enjoy it, it's not your fault he's a dud root.

Katzekratzer can you post a pic of yourself if your ok with that as you said you were young.

quote:Originally posted by warrulz:

Katzekratzer can you post a pic of yourself if your ok with that as you said you were young.



I've got an idea, download limewire and get some kiddy porn ya fucking wanker.

I forgot to mention, that masturbating and having sex with a girl (even if she's boring) are two VERY separate things. As you can probably imagine, a pussy feels much better than a hand.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I've got an idea, download limewire and get some kiddy porn ya fucking wanker.

stab, don't encourage the pedophiles.

You'll do fine, don't force anything. Whatever comes naturally, just let it come.

quote:Originally posted by Katzekratzer:

shit, I guess this means he'll see me naked, dosent it?

He's about to fuck you, I'd say he's fine with how you look unless there's like charred flesh and horrendous scars under those clothes

Haha, between my ex-gf and my gf now, I've found that making noise help a lot, but my ex tended to give me long, deep cuts and scratches all over my back, and I'd be bleeding pretty bad by the end of it. I didn't mind lol. I like aggressive women, no matter what position you're in, both sides can always be into what they're doing.

Girls should always make noise. Always. It has to be the most boring thing in the world if you're fucking a chick and all she does is breathe heavy.

That's why I could never have sex with men. One of the best parts of sex is the noises.

quote:One of the best parts of sex is the noises. [/B]



totally agree.

Just do whatever comes naturally to you. If you feel like making noise, then do it, but don't fake it just because you think you're supposed to. The same goes for how you move and stuff...Just do whatever feels good to you.

Don't worry about being a "boring fuck." My husband tells me that the only way sex could ever be bad for a guy is if he was boning a REALLY obese woman and she got on top.:P

My husband also says that any guy who complaines about sex being boring is either in the closet, a pussy, a virgin, or fucking obese chicks.

Xiao! Where have you been?

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

My husband also says that any guy who complaines about sex being boring is either in the closet, a pussy, a virgin, or fucking obese chicks.

You're husband is in the Air Force and he's calling other people pussies? Ahahahahaha, no.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Make love to him and his body.

GAY!

Shit on his chest, then throw up in his face

quote:Originally posted by Katzekratzer:

If the guy is on top, whats expected of the girl?

Just act like you're really into it. Even if it's not great sex. Because, speaking from a male perspective, I certainly know I would be able to preform much better if the girl was making some cute little moans and shrieks of excitement; rather than her laying their staring elsewhere with a confused / painful look on her face...

So basically... support, I guess?

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

stab, don't encourage the pedophiles.

I'd rather he do that than ask our members to send him pictures of themselves.

You can give a compliment at school, on the bus, on the phone, pretty much anywhere.

But when my woman tells me "XXXX thing is so hot, while touching it" during sex. It drives me wild. Compliments during sex are awesome.

That's my opinion. Obviously this isn't everything, just something to add into the procedure for ya.

Dig your fingernails into his back. Not for everyone, but it turns me on like anything.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I've got an idea, download limewire and get some kiddy porn ya fucking wanker.



There's not much real stuff on limewire anymore

Woo! thank you for all the ideas and advice, feeling less stressed about the whole thing already

I was a bit nervous to post and ask, but I guess the "fat people" thread isnt a shining example of all of totse.

And I'm not -that- young... I'm legal here in canada anyways :3

Just have fun and relax. I don't think any high school boy will complain either way... there's a good chance he won't have enough stamina to show you a good time. Just tell him he was amazing no matter what and say how huge his cock is when he pulls it out.

quote:Originally posted by Soda_Can_Sniper:

I was with a girl that'd been with a guy that had a micro dick. I got maybe an inch or two into her, and felt resistance. I guess she was still a 'virgin', because she winced in pain if I poked her hard.

Yeesh, how old are you and do you have any idea how a vagina is consturcted? Every girl I've been with(three, not many mind you) winced in pain if I thrusted real hard. Its called having a dick that is bigger than three inches and hitting her cervix.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I forgot to mention, that masturbating and having sex with a girl (even if she's boring) are two VERY separate things. As you can probably imagine, a pussy feels much better than a hand.

Are you a virgin? Or maybe you've just been blessed with good sex or have very low expectations. There are definately girls who just lay there and it is just like masturbating.

quote:Originally posted by Neenjah:

My gf freaked her first time. Cried..

Some never grow out of it. I can make my girlfriend cry during sex; she doesn't orgasm the tears just start flowing after a while. I surprised a girl I know last night(I'm in an open relationship) I fucked her and she started crying... I think I have some weird affect on people, maybe its chemical?

[This message has been edited by y4m4 (edited 02-11-2007).]

The fact you ask what is 'expected' of a girl worries me somewhat...

However, first off and very importantly when you see his erection you MUST make a comment along the lines of 'OMG that is SO HUGE that will never fit in me!!'

This will 1.confirm your virginity and 2.stroke his ego to the max.

:P



[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 02-11-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

Yeesh, how old are you and do you have any idea how a vagina is consturcted? Every girl I've been with(three, not many mind you) winced in pain if I thrusted real hard. Its called having a dick that is bigger than three inches and hitting her cervix.

I'm 22, and yes, I know how a pussy is built.

I've bottomed out in girls before, and this is completely different. Did you not read my post, or just happen to miss the 1-2" part? So unless you're trying to compliment my size, stfu.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

The fact you ask what is 'expected' of a girl worries me somewhat...

However, first off and very importantly when you see his erection you MUST make a comment along the lines of 'OMG that is SO HUGE that will never fit in me!!'

This will 1.confirm your virginity and 2.stroke his ego to the max.

:P



Why does it worry you?

And if I get the guy I'm after (and I know he wants me too, its just that 18 hour drive and crossing the border that's skewed the idea so far) I wont have to pretend, I -know- it'd hurt to have him inside me.

[This message has been edited by Katzekratzer (edited 02-11-2007).]

You should enjoy sex.

You shouldn't have to put on some show in order to like it, honestly.

Just do what feels right.

Enthusiasm, wanting to have sex, willing to try things and be open about it...

That's all that's really needed.

quote:Originally posted by Soda_Can_Sniper:

Make sure you're ready to actually take a dick.

I was with a girl that'd been with a guy that had a micro dick. I got maybe an inch or two into her, and felt resistance. I guess she was still a 'virgin', because she winced in pain if I poked her hard.

Make sure you want it, relax, get wet, and have him use a lubricated condom. Hopefully it won't go too bad.

Same thing happened to me.

quote:Originally posted by Katzekratzer:

For a bit of background, I'm female, and a virgin. Not sure how much age matters here, but I'm still in highschool.

While I'm not in a huge rush to get laid (not waiting til marriage, but would rather not have my first time to be drunken back room at the party sex) there are a couple things that make me nervous.

Of course, there is the "shit, I guess this means he'll see me naked, dosent it? "

But, I often hear of guys complaining that women just lie there while they basically masterbate into her. I'd really, really like to not be one of those, so I ask you..

If the guy is on top, whats expected of the girl?

The important thing is to have fun. If the two of you enjoy one thing, keep doing it. If it is boring, try something else.

The first time is scary, and I spose especially so for a girl, but seriously, you'll look back and wonder what all the fuss was about. Yes, sex is fun. Yes, you'll want to do it again. No, it's not the be all and end all of everything.

Having said that, just be enthusiastic. The actual sex act is the final part in a much longer encounter that includes all sorts of fun things..

Cheers,

Chumpion

You people disgust me.

It's pretty simple: Just fuck back.

quote:Are you a virgin? Or maybe you've just been blessed with good sex or have very low expectations. There are definately girls who just lay there and it is just like masturbating.

I've had some good sex in my day, and some rather boring sex, but the boring sex was still a much different experience to masturbating.

For starts, you have another body to play with, tits and all. That's the most profound difference.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

If you enjoy it, you'll enjoy it more if you fuck him too. If you don't enjoy it, it's not your fault he's a dud root.

What kind of fucking skewed logic is this? Can you not see the problem in this post? Here, maybe this help you: pretend that the OP was a male, and I posted the following:

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

If you enjoy it, you'll enjoy it more if you fuck her too. If you don't enjoy it, it's not your fault she's a dud root.

Would that be correct? Are you saying that it's always the other person's fault, or always the male's fault?

quote:Originally posted by static_void:

Just act like you're really into it. Even if it's not great sex.

I think that's bad advice. I'd much rather know if I wasn't doing well, so I could improve.

little moans and slight gasps of air

You worry too much...and people talk a lot of nonsense too. Ignore them.

I'm so thankful that I didn't discuss sex very much with anyone before I had sex. I went in with little knowledge and even less expectations.

But...times were different then.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



But...times were different then.

They sure was...personally I think it all went to pieces when they invented the horseless carriage.Bloody Germans...if god had meant us to hare around at 15 miles an hour!...