I told her that I didn't get anything for v-day, because they didn't let me do it over the phone but they did and she is getting her stuff on the day after, but now i have to try and make her feel better until then cause she is kinda pissed...so totse help me out

Now, why did you tell her that?

Not the best way to try to surprise someone.



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She's getting pissed off..because you got her a present but she's not going to get it on some stupid generic day..?

I think you need a new girlfriend.



I mean, damn, how rude of you to get your girlfriend a present..!

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:



I mean, damn, how rude of you to get your girlfriend a present..!

She doesn't seem to know she is going to get it... because instead of playing misterious, he told her she ain't getting none...

that was kinda dumb, I mean this way she's going to be pissed till the day she gets the present... if you played misterious she'd just be mad on V-day because she wouldn't be getting anything...but the next day, voilá, surprise!!!

quote:Originally posted by deathbyrainbows:

She doesn't seem to know she is going to get it... because instead of playing misterious, he told her she ain't getting none...

that was kinda dumb, I mean this way she's going to be pissed till the day she gets the present... if you played misterious she'd just be mad on V-day because she wouldn't be getting anything...but the next day, voilá, surprise!!!



Yeah, now when she gets it she's just going to think you did it all in a hurry to make up for fucking up on the actual day.



You dont have to tell her what you got, but I think it's time to come clean, especially if this is causing real tention in your relationship.



It still seems kind of childish that she's getting pissed just because she thinks she isnt getting a present.



Sure, I'm getting my boyfriend a Wii for Vday, but it's the thought that counts..

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:



It still seems kind of childish that she's getting pissed just because she thinks she isnt getting a present.



Sure, I'm getting my boyfriend a Wii for Vday, but it's the thought that counts..

I wouldn't be pissed if my bf didn't get me a gift, but if he told me "I ain't getting you anything" straight on my face, I would be a bit sad... although me and the guy i'm with ain't doing gifts cuz and that doesn't bother me at all... but we just had to pay our college fees...

Anyway can I be your bf? I am a girl but i'd want that Wii =P

God damn, thats stupid. I would of played along and said i forgot all about valentines day and then the next day it would be delivered and totally surprise her. Then explain the mess afterwards... but you didnt go with it soooo.. i dunno, hope she really likes the gift?

My Girlfriends not getting anything... She likes it that way. I like it that way. We like it that way. Valentine's day sucks anyways, it's just a corperate money grab. If you need a day to express your love for someone, then you're cracked. What about the other 364/365 days? Hmmmm?

quote:Originally posted by Mabas:

My Girlfriends not getting anything... She likes it that way. I like it that way. We like it that way. Valentine's day sucks anyways, it's just a corperate money grab. If you need a day to express your love for someone, then you're cracked. What about the other 364/365 days? Hmmmm?

Well said. Though the girl this guy is talking about does sound a bit shallow and spoiled.. which makes his situation pretty shitty.

I dont do anything big or special on Vday, but I like to recognise it, just so I can feel secure that I've got a good relationship.

I do special things for my boyfriend 24/7, it's like that Wii really wasnt going to sit in the cupboard till the 14th, and we do nice things together.



But it's just..glah.

I cant really put into words, but it's nice to be able to have a day to celebrate couple-eyness, because it will releive my insecurities that this might not be a real relationship.

it seemed like a good idea at the time, but apparently not...oops lol

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I dont do anything big or special on Vday, but I like to recognise it, just so I can feel secure that I've got a good relationship.

I do special things for my boyfriend 24/7, it's like that Wii really wasnt going to sit in the cupboard till the 14th, and we do nice things together.

I completely agree. I refuse to wait a whole year to show him completely how much I love him!

tell her you didn't get her something and boom surprise her. Works everytime

quote:Originally posted by Tesla:

tell her you didn't get her something and boom surprise her. Works everytime

this was my master plan, however totse seems to disagree

quote:Originally posted by deathbyrainbows:



Anyway can I be your bf? I am a girl but i'd want that Wii =P

Hah you can come round and look at it, he might even let you touch it if he's in a good mood. But I think he's handcuffed it to his penis, so it's probably not going anywhere..